Why Three Is ALWAYS better than two...

AFTER MONTHS AND MONTHS OF EMAILS FROM OUR READERS REQUESTS, WE HAVE FINALLY DECIDED TO ADDRESS YOU'RE LONG AWAITED PLEAS TO TALK ABOUT... AHEM... THREESOMES

NOW WITH THIS BEING A CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE HELP SITE, LET US FIRST DISCUSS THE LEGITIMACY OF THREESOMES AND CHRISTIANITY.

In the book of Samuel, Leviticus, Kings 1 & 2, Romans, Corinthians 1, we learn much about Gods sexual laws and requirements for marriage, Teaching that a man and woman are to marry only the opposite gender (no gay/lesbian marriage) and that they are to remain faithful to each other under Gods laws and covenants. What Christians so often choose to ignore that in these same scriptures we read of married women being permitted by their husbands consent to sleep with another woman or man so long as the consent has been given. In Kings we read of Habatha who sleeps with her hand maiden Isha, and God not only permits it but goes so far as to say thou hast done well to rekindle her spirit. Many other such stories do we read of married women having sex with other women when consent is given, experiences of couples and saints allowing threesomes, and even swapping. What we can gather from these situations is that God wants us to remain loyal to our spouse, yet he does allow us to grow and learn sexually from other people (so long as marriage comes first).

With that understanding that THREESOMES, SWAPPING, & SAME GENDER consensual sex is permitted, lets talk about threesomes and why so many couples try them, and love them.

LET ME START BY SAYING THIS: We have never had a threesome, we both want to, so we are discussing this from our own perspective, and from the views of friends and readers who have had them in marriage. As a wife love my husband, LOVE HIM! but that doesn't mean I don't find other men desirable, as do I know he loves me and similarly finds other women "fuckable". Our marriage comes first! END OF STORY! One day I was watching a TV show where suddenly two attractive females started to kiss each other and things got hot and steamy, to my shock I noticed I was wet as a faucet and began to touch myself. After what may have been my most intense orgasm to date I thought to myself "what's wrong with me? am I really having lesbian fantasies?". I took to the internet and was quite shocked to find that 92% of surveyed women have secret Bi-sexual lesbian attraction! 92 PERCENT!!! OMG!

I told Brett about this shamefully saying I was sorry, but to my shock he was actually really excited for me, and as it turns out just about 100% of men find women kissing women to be a total turn on! He mentioned that women just have a special way of connecting that men cant always seem to grasp, he even said if I wanted to pursue it one day that I could.

The more I thought about it the more I realized "hey, its normal for women to feel these things, God even has shown its ok in the bible, and that I was going to explore my sexuality a bit". Through erotic videos I quickly came to understand I was a "oppressed closet Christian bi-sexual woman", I find women freaking insanely hot, and I don't hide that fact anymore. While most guys don't share the same feelings about attraction to men, they do understand that adding new perspectives to the bedroom can better or even save a rocky marriage by sexually exploring our abilities and gaining new knowledge from other people.



The more we opened up about our fantasies the closer we came to each other, the more love we felt in our marriage, we began sharing things we found hot that we thought our spouse would find dumb or silly, and to our shock, we actually loved 90% of the things brought up, and have made it a point to explore our marriage sexually more to the fullest.



Now this may sound odd, but Brett and I share everything with each other, EVERYTHING! including who we find attractive and would like to bring into the bedroom if we ever did the threesome thing. I went first, casually mentioning a couple of guy friends I had, and then I gathered the courage to tell him my ultimate fantasy... I wanted him and his brother to fuck me at the same time... I said it and immediately slithered back into my seat expecting Brett to be disgusted or get angry I had a thing for his big brother, instead he greeted me with a sly smile, and kissed me passionately saying that he thought I was the kinkiest wife ever, and loved me more for it. He then shared with me that he would like to do the same with me and my younger sister! for a split second I was jealous, but then realized how insanely hot it would be to see my little sister orgasm on Bretts hung cock.



When we're honest with ourselves we all have some kind of twisted fantasy like this, and guess what? ITS NORMAL! embrace your lovers fantasies, be open to exploring them, talk about them and why they find it attractive and how the spouse could enjoy it.

SO LETS TALK ABOUT 3 DIFFERENT THINGS:

1) LESBIANS SKILLS SEXUALLY

2) THREESOMES WITH 2 GUYS AND THE WIFE

3) THREESOMES WITH 2 GIRLS AND THE HUSBAND

4) HOW TO EXPLORE THESE FANTASIES SIMPLY OR IN DEPTH

1) LESBIAN SKILLS THAT WE CAN APPLY TO OUR OWN RELATIONSHIP

Lesbians own sex, OWN IT! they know how to get each other hot and bothered, how to tease, seduce, body language, kiss, screw, ride, talk, moan, etc. Every wife in my opinion needs to at least give Lesbian techniques a chance to see if there's things she wants to use or have done to her.

Appearance

Body language

Seduction/Foreplay

Kissing Skills

Touching & Teasing Techniques:

Breast Play

Oral enthusiasm

Aggressiveness

Dirty Girl Mentality

Creative in Bed

Swallowing Eagerness

2) MFM THREESOMES:

Perhaps the #1 fantasy of married and non married women, experiencing the feeling of two big strong men who are there for your pleasure, with a big beautiful cock behind you, and a pair of lips to kiss and suck all over you. Those who have dared to try them insist they had the biggest and longest orgasms of their lives while engaged with their spouse and a third person, its no wonder why so many Christian couples test the waters of threesomes to boost our sex drives and increase our limited knowledge we so desperately need.

What is it about threesomes that drive women crazy with love and lust?  Here are some hot examples below...

Kissing:

Double BJ:

SplitRoasting:

Riding:

Orgasm:

Double Penetration: (for the brave of heart who want the most intense orgasms imaginable)

Cum:

3) FFM THREESOMES:

Usually in most marriages men are the ones who are more willing to explore their sexuality with their partner more so than the women, women although shy to first pull the trigger and be willing to explore the fantasy all end up reporting that they in the end enjoy doing it even more than their man does. One key issue for the 2 girl threesomes is the perception of jealousy, so many wives tend to be overprotective and over jealous that their man may fall for another girl, thinking that the man wants more than sex from another girl. This couldn't be any more false, men simply want to experience the physical aspect of sex, not the connection with the other girl, for men sometimes sex can just be sex, not love. When we as women can separate these two mindsets of sex vs. love we can enjoy it to the fullest.

It's no secret that a lot of guys have a fascination with threesomes. And at some point, your S.O. might mention that his go-to fantasy is having a threeway. But there's a big difference between occasionally drooling over the concept and actively pursuing it as an option. And if he would like to do the latter, what the hell does it say about your relationship? For a guy who's spoken for, threesomes seem like a relatively accessible form of sexual adventure, says Carol Queen, Ph.D., staff sexologist for Good Vibrations. He gets to double up on all the things he loves to do between the sheets, while also doubling up on his favorite fantasies: sex with two women and girl-on-girl action. Threesomes are basically the dude version of walking in a new pair of Nike’s while eating cake.

Just because he's wanted to add a threeway to his resumé since puberty, it doesn't mean he wants to cheat, says Queen. Usually, guys bring up the idea because they're frisky and hope you're frisky too. In some cases, they aren't attuned to whether their partners would actually be into it or not, says Queen. The casual threesome suggestion is a way for him to test the waters. If he pursues the idea further than just throwing it out there, and your relationship is on solid ground, then there's a solid chance that his pursuit has nothing to do with how he feels about you or your relationship. "He could just be an erotic guy who wants to live out his sexiest fantasies," says board-certified clinical sexologist Debra Laino. Before you sit him down for a heart to heart, determine whether or not you'd ever be interested in a threesome. If you're at least into the fantasy of it, take the time to define your fantasy—what it would look like, who it would be with, what you'd want to do, and what you'd want to skip, says Queen. Then get bae to do the same.

 

"Look for ways your fantasies match up, and more importantly, diverge," she says. If there are too many differences between your fantasy and his or you feel the slightest bit uncomfortable, then a threesome probably isn't for you. If you're kind of into it, you could test the waters with threesome or girl-on-girl porn. You may also want to remind him that a threesome doesn't have to include another woman—there are plenty of guys down to play the third wheel. Just sayin'.

Here's some of the many things men love about threesomes with their wife and 3rd person:

Lingerie X 2:

Seduction/Foreplay x2:

Blowjobs x2:

Kissing x 2:

Missionary sex:

Doggy Style Sex:

Riding x 2:

Cumshot Heaven:

4) EXPLORING FANTASIES OF THREESOMES: FAKE A THREESOME!!!

Guess what? if you have the 3 fantasy you can have one without ever having one! HOW? SEX TOYS!

Dildo's are a girls best friend, combine it with a blindfold and you have the perfect tools to fake a threesome! He can blindfold you, use the dildo on your vagina all while kissing you, sucking on your neck, breasts, legs, etc, you can put the dildo on a wall or floor and ride it while you suck on him.

After mastering this go ahead and shock him! flip the script! blindfold him & grab a fleshlight or pocket pussy sex toy and give him a "double blowjob" by using the toy on his penis while you either suck the balls at the same time, or lick the shaft, ride his face, kiss him, lick him, talk dirty to him, etc.

Couples who explore these techniques report having 10 times the sex drive they used to, it is a true and amazing bonding experience.

HERES SOME OF OUR READERS COMMENTS ON HOW THEIR THREESOME ENHANCED THEIR RELATIONSHIPS:

“ Our first threesome was flat out incredible, I had always though my jealousy would be too much, but going with the “2 guy threesome” method spiked my libido over 1000%! For Mitchell seeing me plowed by a stranger, and for me having two dicks in me at the same time was just the most orgasmic feeling I’ve ever had in my life. It was as if I was the source of pleasure for both of them. I was nervous that since I was the only woman that I’d be the vulnerable one and not in control, but it couldn’t have been more opposite. The power rush of bossing two hot guys around is an experience I want again and again. My husband and I have been screwing like jackhammers every night since it happened, about 4 weeks ago, the thrill and knowledge we brought in from that experience has opened my eyes to my sexuality and how fun and pleasurable it can be when embraced to the fullest. “ – Jenna, 28

 My Husband And I Had A Threesome And It Saved Our Marriage: I’m typically a jealous bitch… even 1 look from another woman and I become the devil, BUT… "The most exciting part of our threesome was watching another woman get on top of my boyfriend and ride him until she had an orgasm, something about seeing my man as being an object of sexual pleasure was amazing. As it turns out Sex really can just be sex, it can be just for fun! Now if he wanted to  “make love” to her I would want to cut his balls off and stab her hahaha."

“Once we got into the hotel room, we all stripped down to our underwear and started kissing. Then my partner and I gave her the first of many orgasms for the night with just oral sex. Then she and my partner removed the rest of my clothing and went down on me. Then the woman and I went down on him together. We took turns in a variety of positions trying to give her an orgasm until it was time for me to make my partner finish. Afterward, we all snuggled in bed to relax for a bit. She eventually went home and my partner and I stayed in the hotel together.” –Alie, 33

“Seeing the excitement on my husbands face when he got to play with two women was almost enough to make me orgasm in and of itself.”

“If anything, our relationship became stronger and we grew closer after the threesome. Sharing such an open and freeing experience like that together really added to our relationship. We knew more, felt more sexually free, and knew how to be better lovers in ways we never imagined.”

“I think the biggest misconception is that jealousy will become an issue during or after the threesome, especially if it's two women and a man. Women seem to worry that their partner will end up liking the other woman better and leave them, but In almost every case I’ve ever heard of it actually brought my partner and I closer together.”

“It's totally cool if you want to have one threesome and then never do it again. "After my man and I had a threesome for the first time, he wanted more of them. The girl that we slept with was a friend of his, and for a while afterward, any time we were around her, he would bring up the topic of having another one. I told them both I wasn't comfortable with it and that it happened one time, it was really fun, and that's all I wanted. You don't have to have another threesome if you don't want to!" —Ashley, 25

NEVER SHOOT DOWN A LOVER FANTASY OR OVER REACT WITHOUT DISCUSSING IT AND HOW IT COULD BENIFIT YOU BOTH, NO MATTER HOW CRAZY OR ILLOGICAL, THESE THINGS ARE WHAT MAKE OUR SEX DRIVE WHAT IT IS. BY EXPLORING THESE TOGETHER WE ALLOW OURSELVES TO BE VULNERABLE ENOUGH TO GROW AND LEARN AS A COUPLE.