FUN WAYS TO SEDUCE YOUR MAN AND LOCK HIS HEART

Surprise!!!

surprise by it's definition is 'something unexpected'. Do something you normally wouldn't do and that will be a surprise.

Very rarely do we purposely objectify ourselves and our sexy strengths, but today lets talk about seduction and how we should be purposely objectifying ourselves as husband and wife to seduce our lover.

Only a deaf woman could miss her husbands sexual requests... they may not be verbal but there is a physiological response that is evident! A man needs to be sexually surprised as badly s he needs food and water, its what keeps the relationship fun and exciting. Do what HE likes... If you did candles and romantic music, it is just for you. 99% of all guys will do the romance thing but would WAY prefer the wild kinky thing. So your choice is... is this for you or him? If you answer this, the rest is easy. Sex with a girl or guy who cant seduce or please their lover is like this

If you really don't know what to do, try greeting him at the door wearing a necklace, high heels and nothing else. Be ready... physiologically... that is... make sure you don't require a ton of foreplay... do that for yourself or again... it will end up being about you.

Rounded up from our loyal and lusty readers, the touch, tease, and please techniques that'll make your man want to tattoo your name on his chest. I suggest you sit down with your SH and ask him which ones he finds attractive so you can make a mental note of it ;)

One of the most watched YouTube videos in our day and age about what a man wants from his wife comes from J-love, you've probably all seen it at one point or another.

HERES MANY OF THE WAYS YOU (AND I) HAVE SEDUCED OUR SWEET HUSBANDS:

Office romp

Meet him at the office wearing a trench coat and nothing underneath but sexy lingerie — or nothing at all. Lock his office door (or don't!) and have sex on the desk or floor. There's something hot about office sex, even with your hubby.

Morning surprise

Give him a good reason to get up in the morning. Wake him up with your mouth. No guy will turn down a morning blow job. Don't be lazy about it either — really get into it and don't make these common oral sex mistakes. Remember that oral sex shouldn't only be a prelude to intercourse. Do it all the way, and hopefully he'll return the favor.

Show off

When you and your partner are just relaxing in bed watching TV, surprise him by unexpectedly stripping and masturbating while he watches. He'll be so excited that he'll probably pounce on you before you are finished.

Fake it

You can turn any boring day into a sexual adventure with a little creativity. Ask him to come with you to your mother's this weekend and volunteer to drive. Instead of going to see your parents, take a wrong turn on a secluded road. Pull over and seduce him in the car.

Talk dirty

If your man likes to hear dirty talk but you've always been a little uncomfortable about it, try to let go of your inhibitions. Start by leaving him a note or text message about all the filthy things you want to do with him. Work your way up to sexy voicemails (just not on his office phone!) and eventually start talking — or at least whispering — dirty things to him in bed.

Try something new

If your sex life has become a little ho hum lately, it's time to try something new. Strike up a sexual conversation. Listen to your man about his sexual desires and fantasies, and talk about yours. Agree to try something new — whether it's a new sexual position, role playing or something else you've never done before.
Have your favorite song playing, makeup on, hair done, and a garter belt and hose under a kitchen apron. Spank him with a wooden spoon.
when he walks through the door -- drop to your knees
no panties under your short skirt and take his hand and make him touch your hot, wet hey nanny nanny
"Sometimes I take my man browsing in lingerie stores. Being surrounded by that silky stuff turns us both on. When we get home, I show him my own lacy undies."

"I bend over my man and lightly drag my long hair over his back, butt, and legs. He loves the way the strands feel grazing his body." --Rebecca, 24

"I'm normally pretty shy in the sack, but one day I watched this steamy sex movie and got inspired. When my guy came home, I pulled him into the bedroom and pretended I was acting in the flick. He was totally turned on by my role reversal."--Rosa, 21

"I wake my husband up in the morning with oral sex. I start slowly and softly, and when he opens his eyes, I give him the full deal."--Kendra, 27

"Sometimes I'll indulge my guy on his terms. I put on music, slip into his old football jersey, and do it on the couch while the game's on."--Chris, 25

"I take a warm bath, shave my legs, and lather on lotion. Then I put on one of my man's white tee shirts with nothing under it, and I cook us dinner. When he gets a peek at my naked buns as I bend over to grab a dish, he says he can hardly wait to have me."--Nicole, 28

"My guy digs it when I kiss his earlobes. It sounds simple, but he says it makes his knees weak." --Deirdre, 23

"At the movies, my guy and I hold hands, and as I massage his palms, fingers, and eventually inner thighs. The sexual tension builds. By the time we get to the car, we're all over each other."--Amanda, 26

"When I kiss my man, I take his tongue in my mouth and gently suck on it. It sends him into orbit! --Jamie, 21

"My husband and I videotape ourselves having sex, then we wait a few months before watching it. It's like seeing Titanic again--you know what happens, but you can't remember the exact sequence or any of the details. It's always exciting!"--Tamara, 28

"My man and I have a code phrase for sex. It started out as `Want to make some bacon?' Now when we're in public, he'll say, `I could go for a hot dog right now,' and I know just what he means. It makes us laugh, and no one knows it means we're horny!"--Abby, 25

"My guy gets off when I dress my sexiest and then go out in public and flaunt it. After turning a lot of heads, we go home and he tells me how lucky he is while we're making love."--Deb, 27

"My husband loves to feel in control, so sometimes I'll let him dominate me a little, and it drives him wild. He ties me up, whispers naughty things in my ear, and has his way with me. Then we trade positions and I take charge."--Sara, 25

"I pamper my guy with an allover body massage, but not just arty massage! First, I let him watch while I rub off on myself (he usually asks to help, but I don't let him!). Then I have him lie down on his stomach, and I rub the oil 'all over him by lying on top and moving my naked body up and down his. He's ready to get down to business before I even start to use my hands."--Simone, 28

"I give my man what I like to call the hot and cold treatment. I get a cup of ice and a cup of hot tea. First, I put the ice in my mouth, and when my tongue gets really cold, I give him intense oral sex. Then after a sip or two of hot tea, I take him in my mouth all over again and do my thing. The changes in temperature against his skin absolutely kill him!"--Diane, 28

"I rub an ice cube up and down my guy's back. He squirms when the water drips down his body--and when I lick it off, he's in ecstasy."--Kate, 23

When we're in the missionary position, I don't just lie there. I move with my man. And I don't force myself to try to have an orgasm--I prolong it and wait for that uncontrollable feeling to just take over my world."--Evelyn, 23

"I'm a conservative dresser, so sometimes to shock the pants off my guy, I'll wear a short skirt, heels, and bright red lipstick. When he gets home, he just grins mischievously."--Giselle, 26

"Instead of going straight for his penis, I tease my man by kissing and licking his inner thighs and stomach. It gives him time to anticipate the thrill he's about to get."--Maya, 23

"When I tell my guy I'm not wearing any underwear when we're out in public, he's all over me."--Karen, 28

"I'd heard that people get super turned-on after exercise. So we jump in the shower after a run, lather each other up so we smell great, then go have wild sex. It's exhilarating."--Emily, 27

"I e-mail my man short erotic stories that I write myself. Then when we're together, I ask him to act out everything that I sent to him. It's a great way to communicate my sex fantasies, and he loves it because he knows I'm more open about what turns me on than I ever could be when we're lying in bed together face-to-face."--Jill, 27

"When I'm alone, I dream about all the exquisite sexual things my partner and I are going to do later on that night. Like if I'm doing the dishes, I imagine him coming up behind me and running his strong hands over my hips, pulling me closer to him. Or I dose my eyes when I'm in the shower and think about what his lips will feel like when he kisses my naked body. By the time we see each other, I'm totally aroused and ready for mind-blowing sex! And anticipating the thrill makes me hotter than normal--which excites him beyond belief."--Carolyn, 22

"My husband and I have a checklist of all the states that we've had sex in. Our goal is to hit all 50, It's fun and it makes for really hot pull-off-the-highway sex when we're road-tripping. He loves the thrill of doing it in the car, especially if there are people around."--Shauna, 28

“In our marriage we always make it a point to have themed sex on every holiday, it keeps it fun and new.”—Brittany, 27

For women really wanting to perfect their yaya you may want to consider “ben Wa Balls” to insert manually to grip and hold. A month after I started using these twice per week I got to the point where Brett could put his Penis inside me and stay completely still, I would pulse my Kegels around his cock and make myself orgasm over, and over, and over, without him having to move a muscle!!! By the third orgasm the pulsing made him cum like a rocket! I’ve never seen him tense up like he did the, his eyes rolled back, he literally basically screamed, called me a goddess and kissed me with such passion I will never forget.—Whitney

I gave him his Boudoir gift at a bar since it was the first time that day we were alone. I tried to get a seat at the end of the bar, but the seats were taken. So, while we were seated in the middle of the bar, he opened the present. He had a big smile and was very surprised! I had to remind him to keep the album low so we didn't show the whole bar! :) He loved it!—Whitney

“My husband likes it when I just take what I want without asking. Sometimes I’ll walk in a room butt nude and just push him down and sit on his face and yell “eat me”! he gets the biggest grin and goes straight to town.”—Chelsie, 31

“I have an amazing wife, she uses her dildo every couple month and goes into the bathroom with a video camera, she practices new techniques and deepthroating mastery on it and then watches the video so she can perfect her skills to use on me. Nothing says love like a girl who does her homework and practice :) Love that woman!!”.—Brian, 41

“My favorite technique is to be waiting in the living room in the sluttiest skankiest thing I own when he walks in the door after work, full make up, lipstick, perfume, he about dies and goes to heaven every time. He never expects that I drop the kids off with our in laws so it just blows his mind seeing his little housewife look so amazing and naughty”. –Elisa, 24

“My favorite technique to drive him insane is to put on a slutty pair of daisy dukes and do cleaning that involves me bending over, it doesn’t take long until he’s the one who has me bent over on the floor haha.”—Tricia, 28

“Nothing turns him on more than when I get dominant and confident, I can go into full stripper mode and fling my top off with a dangerous lusty stare, he instantly becomes pudding and doesn’t know how to move, its cute.”—Alison, 26

“My guys loves to spank me, sometimes when I’m undressing I’ll make a sly comment like, man my ass feels extra tight today, and I’ll spank myself hard. He about cums in his pants every time.”—Talia, 37

“When Eric gets home from work sometimes I’ll pretend to be changing my clothing with my headphones on and “not notice him”, I strip nude as sexily as I can pretending not to know he’s there since I have music playing.”—Becky, 22

“Stephen loves the “confident pornstar hair flip”, I accidentally did it once during doggystyle and he about lost his mind, apparently all guys think its super sexy?.”—Helen, 31

“Nothing gets my SH harder than me attacking his penis during oral, he loves it when I get desperate and just attack it like an animal.” –Mira, 19

“Ben always loses his mind when I get rough with him and push him around, its sooooo sexy because eventually he can’t take it anymore and he pushes me around back, the sex is so intense as we both battle for power.” --Carilie, 25

“I make it a point to flash him weekly somewhere outside of our home, we both love the thrill of it”. Jessie, 23

“Some guys are just ass guys. My hunny is, I always try to find ways to show off my behind. He loses his mind every time ;) “.—Leslie, 22

“Anytime we’re driving late at night if I can tell my husband is getting sleepy I either take my breasts out and smile, or stroke him teasingly until we get home, needless to say he wakes right up.”—Tess, 27

“My husband loves it when I shave my pussy in a new way, usually I grab his hand and let him feel under my skirt, it makes me wet, and him hard as a rock.”—Ashley, 19

“I’ve found the one phrase every man loves to hear is “fuck me”, I attack my husband with kisses then pull back and like a woman possessed beg him to fuck me hard. His eyes practically roll back and I can feel his knees go weak, I LOVE IT!!!.” --Tiffany, 28

“I have a dozen or so role play outfits that I sneak into late at night once a month, it keeps our sex life on its toes hehehehe.”--Rachel, 22

“We both have threesome fantasies In the worst way, every couple of months we’ll take turns blindfolding each other and using sex toys to simulate ffm or mfm, the sex is amaing! Sometimes I also talk dirty to him and pretend to tell him about how some young stud did me the night before, his cock is bulging!” --Heather, 36

“1 Word… SEXTING.” Fiona, 33

“His favorite surprise has always been to come home to find me masturbating with a large dildo, something about him knowing I have such a high sex drive just makes us both super horny.”- Kat, 21

“I take pride in being a total cum addict, I’ve never seen a more dedicated loving man each time after I swallow, # TRUE LOVE.” --Karla,23

“Michael loves it when I moan! Anytime he makes me feel good, or anytime he’s about to cum I’m sure to give him my whimper moan, sometimes I do it when I suck is dick and he just loses it! So hot seeing his eyes roll back. I think for men a big part of sex is hearing our soft sensual voice, something about our voices just amazes them.”—Tessa, 41

“I consider myself a lucky man, my wife is a great communicator in bed, some of my best memories are; Frankly, about 10 years ago my wife and I were boning and I was fairly close to finishing inside her when she got very enthusiastic and without warning screamed " Fuck me, fuck me, Fuck me!" I obliged, finished about 30 seconds later and got a nice compliment from her afterward. Now that's motivation!

Another time, it wasn't what she said so much as how she said it. Doing doggystyle. After she came and it was my turn, I started going really hard and fast and she collapsed forward onto the bed and whimpered, "oh... yes yes yes yes yes" over and over til I finished. A close second is the time we had been drinking a bit and were going at it (doggystyle again) and she growls, "make it yours make it yours make it yours!" That time too her tone of voice and the context had a lot to do with how hot it was. Baby don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that! I want it all over me. Cover me with it. I love how big your cock gets when I talk to you like this. I love sucking your cock. And I’m going to lick it clean.”

“I think the enthusiasm is what helps keep my sex drive so high, something about putting in effort helps me to enjoy sex more and constantly try and improve my skills so to speak. Some of my favorites include: Wearing thigh highs, high heels, sexy underwear and cooking for him. He and I both love to cook so it's fun being in the kitchen together and watching him get super turned on. Drawing a bath for your spouse/lover, complete with bubbles, candles, their favorite drink, some relaxing music, the whole works. Let them unwind for a bit and then join them. The first time I let myself get into it, he asked me if he could finish on my stomach. When I looked him in the face and pouted: Can you cum in my mouth instead? His jaw literally dropped, then he grinned like a fool and said: Yes. Yes I can. It was the first time a girl had let him cum in her mouth. He was not disappointed

One night i decided to curl my hair, do my makeup all sexy with red lipstick and long eyelashes. i put on his favorite perfume, then i slipped into this black corset that i bought without him knowing. after that i put a baggy sweat shirt and shorts on. so when he came over i started kissing him all over initiating sexy times, pushed him on the bed, unzipped my hobo sweater to reveal my corset, and his jaw dropped followed by the biggest smile. he got up and pulled me into bed. BEST. SEXYTIMES. EVER. Sex always seems best for me when I spend time planning and keeping it on my mind, it lets the anticipation build.”—Brittany, 22

“This isn't anything crazy, but my husband left his baseball jersey in my bathroom, so the next time he came home I had his jersey, hat, and on with only a thong on. He took it in for only a moment before getting me into bed! Sex is so much better when you try and shock, surprise, or put 110% effort into it.” --Alexia

“She only did this once, but oral sex will never be the same, she literally moaned and groaned with my cock in her mouth, the vibrations gave me the most amazing sensation ever, almost a mini orgasm every time she did it. (now I know why the pornstars do it haha)--Sky

“The sexiest thing my wife does is the way she aggressively pursues my cum, she begs, no, pleads for it. now that we don't cum inside her anymore she (without asking) told me she wants every single drop of cum on her face or in her mouth, nothing is hotter than a woman who actively pursues her husbands fantasies without being asked to. Same goes for us guys too, she shouldn't have to ask for what she wants in bed.” --Anonymous

“My wife just kills me some nights, I’ll be in the mirror naked after my shower, out of nowhere I’ll see her hand coming from behind to stroke me while she kisses my back, neck, and ear, every freaking time I just lose my mind, I feel so vulnerable but blissful exposed for her pleasure.” –Trent, 25

“I love putting on a show for my SH, he does so much to please me sexually,I just want to be his goddess! Whenever he is about to cum I stick my tongue out to encourage him, he loves it.” –Erica, 22

“GRAB HIM BY THE COCK AND PULL HIM INTO ANOTHER ROOM, it feels empowering to you, and for him it blows his mind.”--Anonymous

“I Practice a few minutes a week on my deepthroating skills to master pleasuring my man, my favorite technique is to deepthroat him while sticking my tongue out and licking his balls, his eyes roll back every time.”—Liz, 27

“Sometimes I like to get ultra submissive and beg him for every last thing, “please can I” everything. Hearing me want it must really get to his head because his cumshots always launch over my head lol.—Tina, 29

“My ex girlfriend had a terrible gag reflex but really wanted to surprise me and go above and beyond to please me, so she spent a couple months watching a how to video and started training her throat muscles a few minutes a day with a dildo and swallowing water/breathing exercises to be able to deepthroat it without gagging at all. My mind was blown when she managed to get all 7.5 inches in, she also managed to lick my balls while having the entire thing in her mouth. The sensations you have are one of a kind, your entire body goes into oh my Gosh mode. I don't think I've ever cum so hard in my life. the ultimate combo was when she deepthroated and swallowed my orgasm at the same time, I literally just about died, my entire body was twitching for like 10 minutes...” --Harvey, 31

Undress him quickly: Rip those pants down like he's your virgin prom date and he's about to get it. Maybe even leave them on, in a heap around his ankles, as you take him in your mouth. Rip his shirt off. Or better yet, tell him, "get that shirt off" while you work on the pants. This tactic, what's known as the "assault deshabiller" in the French foreign legion is an opposite, but equally effective way to let him know you're in charge as number one. He'll be like "Whoa! What's happening here? Guess I better go along with it before I get…"

Hair-pulling: Use it as a lever, use it to balance, use it to just let him know he's doing the right things. Whichever way you choose to use it, grabbing some fist-fulls of his mighty mane, while he's on top, or while going down on you, is a way to tell him that you'll be guiding things, thank you very much.

Dictator talk: This is like dirty talk, but a lot less "Yeah, you know I love it when you…." And a lot more "Get your big ---- in my tight ---- right now. Do it!" And "Eat my ----" "You know how I like it!" It's all imperatives. Lets him know that the sexy train will be running on time, and that you are the conductor.

Be naked: A precursor to dictator talk and hair-pulling, is to be naked when he shows up. It's is the subtlest of all the ways you take charge. Without a word, or a single action towards him, you're letting him know that it is time to enjoy the pleasures of your body. Maybe you have some candles lit; maybe you've "just gotten out of the shower," maybe you're wearing a fun spy coat with nothing underneath. It's up to you.

Tie him up: This is so much easier than it sounds. You don't need to have sailed as a kid, and you don't need a book on ropes. If you're at the point where you really want to restrain each other so there's no chance of movement then yes, there are some knots and materials that will work better than others, but if you're just looking to take charge for some Me-First sex play, you can use one of his old ties, or even a bandana. The key is in how you tell him what's happening. You can either order him to put his hands behind his back, or on top of his head, or try purring the same directions in his ear, and then tying him up nice and slowly before you have your way with him.

Orgasm teasing: This is more for people in relationships or having very regular sex with the same person; and that's not a judgment, you just need to have excellent radar for when your guy is going to come. When a man gets to this point, that's when he's most vulnerable. The longer you teeter him on that edge, the more tantlaizing your requests and actions will become. If you're giving him a blow job, or handjob, try moving your mouth off his head, and keeping your hand gestures/pumps at the very base of his shaft, where it's least sensitive. If you're having sex and you're on top, try moving as slow as humanly possible, or even not moving your body at all (or letting him move his) and letting your interior muscles do the only work.

Biting: Going after your guy like a hungry badger is a great way to put his off his regular game, and let him know that he's dealing with a fierce little wood creature, not some passive little lamb.

"My ex would save old trash-bound lingerie—fishnets, panties—and let me rip them off of her during foreplay."—Paul, 20,

"I go nuts when my girlfriend piles on red lipstick before oral. The smudges left behind are like a record of her every mouth move."—Kelley, 30
Whispered into my ear "I want to suck your dick so badly" in the middle of a movie theater, I about died hearing that in such a random place, simple things like this are sexier than any piece of lingerie.
"When a girl licks her own breasts, it has that same girl-on-girl charge as a threesome."—Bong, 24

"Tie me up with your clothes as you strip—your bra binds my wrists; your gartered undies, an ankle; and so on."—Steven, 29

"The best place to take a girl is on a tiled floor, like in a bathroom. It's hard, but the tiles grip your flesh in unexpectedly erotic ways."—Chas, 21

"At the completion of oral, my girl smiles at me and makes an ‘mmm' noise. I get turned on just thinking about it."—Dom, 23

"I love taking my girl from behind up against her mirrored closet. Her breasts plump up against the glass, and the surface gets foggy from our breath. It's like watching ourselves in a steamy movie." —Jim, 25,

"Rub my penis all around your hot spots—it makes me feel like a sex toy, which I love."—Samuel, 30

My favorite technique to blow his mind is to be a screamer when the kids are away at the grandparents for the night, when I moan louder it encourages him to louder, which makes my orgasms better, its a win win!"

"Right as I climax during oral, dig your fingernails into my butt, then rake them down my thighs. It'll intensify the explosion."—Jose, 25

"Gently pull my hair when I'm giving you oral. Knowing you're into it turns me on even more.—Danny, 28

"All guys have a weak spot for dirty talk. Tell me how deep or hard I'm giving it to you and you'll get a memorable performance."—Jepoy, 22

"Surprises like stilettos in the bedroom or short shorts when it's cold always get my full attention."—Mateo, 30

"One night, I booted up to find that my desktop picture was a naked photo of my girlfriend—who was waiting in the next room."—Mike, 27

"Squeeze your breasts together while I rub my package between them, then tickle my tip with your tongue. I'll never forget you."—Jong, 27

"I like when you moan one word—like "yes" or my name—over and over. I can gauge your arousal by how the sound changes."—Ton, 27
"After we're done, you slipping back into your racy lingerie makes me feel like you're truly my fantasy girl. I'll be ready for more soon."—J.P.,

Wet Pleasures: Guys just love making out in the shower. Kissing under a shower is a sure fire way of getting the sexual action kick started. Work up lather and sensuously wash each others' bodies. It will leave you feeling fresh for the real action to follow.

Dress it up: Walk around the house clad in lacy underwear and some killer stilletoes. Your man will love nothing more than to watch you strut sexily around the house.

“lie on his bed, arch your back. Look at him like he's a bacon sundae. Then bite your lip like there's a fleck of loose dry skin hanging from it. Works everytime”

MY personal favorite technique is to be in control, take a look at this wife in the video, notice how she takes control and does all the work for once? every now and then you need to spoil your man like this.