WHY MEN LOVE DEEPTHROATERS

Hello again, Brett writing again.

Whitney asked me to give my thoughts on Deep throating before she gives her spill. So to me deep throating is kind of an art, the feelings men receive from deep throat blowjobs are indescribable, not only is the back of the mouth warmer so we gain that sensation, we feel the wetness and tension surrounding the entire penis. It’s almost like being wrapped up in a warm sleeping bag on a cold winters night, the more that goes inside, the happier the guy is going to be.

SATISFACTION GRADING FOR MEN WHEN A GIRL GIVES THEM A BJ

To me deep throating is not a necessity, and it shouldn’t be for any guy, but it is one heck of an amazing tool that every girl should at least explore. Of course there are alternate ways to stimulate the penis as if it’s in deep, by using the mouth on the top and two hands around the base. But nothing can replace the feeling.

Whitney writing again.

Amen, no girl should ever have to against her will, but she should consider trying, I learned how off of a google video not too long ago, anyone interested feel free to message us and I’ll tell you how to find it. They actually make it quite simple and it shuts down my gag reflex entirely. Again, just another way to show true devotion through exploring better techniques.

you can also go to a supermarket and buy some popsicles which are slightly bigger than your man’s penis. Go home and stand over the toilet. While relaxing your throat, slowly insert a popsicle; try not to gag or vomit which may happen in the beginning. Practice inserting and keeping the popsicle in your throat for ten seconds at a time. Always breathe through your nose. Do this at least 5 times and practice everyday. After a week, you will notice that your gag reflex is disappearing. You may get the hang of it faster or slower; everyone is different. As you progress, keep the popsicle in your throat for longer periods of time (try for 30 seconds) and try moving the popsicle up and down in your throat like a penis. Continue practicing until you are able to perform oral sex on your man without gagging.




I think the psychological hurdle accounts for only a small portion but I wouldn't underestimate the effect it possesses. Girls, we all know when we have crossed over into extreme horniness or what I call "lust mode." That may happen with alcohol, great foreplay, loving our partner, great lead up sex, or just a really hot guy who knows what he's doing. When you are in that state, that is the best time to attempt deepthroating. Lust mode may shed that "claustrophobic feeling" of having an object lodged in your throat if that is your psychological barrier. When you are uninhibited, you become more daring, experimental, and enthusiastic.


How can we do that? I think there are a couple of techniques that may help. The first one is practice. We cannot completely change our gag reflex but we can train it. When I was a teenager and learning the art of giving blowjobs, I got tired of gagging, so one day when I was at a friend's house, she was showing me her mom's dildo collection. She let me take one of them that looked old and not in good shape. I peeled the outer rubber or "skin" off, exposing only the core which was just a long, thin piece of rubber. I sterilized it with rubbing alcohol and used it as my practice tool. It was still very long and perfect for sucking.

I would push it to the back of my throat, heave and pull it out. I would try different positions and a variety of techniques before I would go to bed. Some of those included, shove it in very fast, very slowly, drive it back and forth very quickly, try to swallow it, and twist it around. I did get to where I found my own personal preferences that worked best for me. The guy I was dating at the time could tell a big difference in a relatively short amount of time as could I. In a few weeks, I went from gagging and choking to deepthroating his dick like a pro. The best advice I can give is to not think specific techniques work the same for everyone. Most information that I have read about deepthroating directs people to relax and straighten their throat because that provides a better "sword swallowing" angle and suppresses the gag reflex. Yes, that can work for some people but not for me, it is the exact opposite. I deepthroat better with my chin down and tightening my throat muscles. To elaborate, I start out by locking or pressing my tongue down at the bottom of my jaw. I then open my throat while keeping the muscles contracted. Once the head of his cock touches the back of my throat, I push it down rather quickly without changing my throat position in any way. Quicker works for me but sometimes slower is better and you will have to see what works best for you. When his dick reaches its destination and completely submerged down your esophagus, it is important to not pull it completely out when you start sucking. Give yourself some time to get used to it. Shallowly, bob up and down while barely moving the dick in your throat and keeping your tongue perfectly still. Moving your tongue transfers the feeling in your gag reflex which could cause you to gag.

Power Suck and Tongue: this technique is actually a misnomer because the suction is not that great. The position of the head is the same as the power suck technique, your head goes down so that your nose is no longer visible from either side, but the difference is that you stick out your tongue and lick his balls. Right, left, tickling, every tongue motion you can think of.

Grabbing Your Head/Hair: if your man grabs your head or hair in any manner, He is now in control and He will move your head as he wishes so he can have an orgasm. Embrace this completely; stop whatever technique you are doing and relax your neck. Go along with what he does and do not fight or resist. If he lets you go before he has an orgasm, continue the motion he was making with your head. He obviously enjoyed the motion he was doing (he grabbed you because his motion brought him more pleasure than what you were doing). Remember how he moves your head so that you can repeat this motion in the future.

Orgasm: how you think when he orgasms is very simple: happiness. You should be obsessed with swallowing his semen every time you have oral sex. Be verbal about it too. Tell him you love the idea and feeling of his semen being inside of you and you love the flavor. If you do not like the flavor, keep your preference to yourself and place his penis in the back of your throat so you wont have to taste it. All men really prefer it when their women swallow. Swallowing the entire penis right as he orgasms is incredible feeling. Some girls find semen gross, but that way of thinking is ridiculous, illogical, and without reason. You sit on his face while he eats your pussy and then you orgasm onto his face almost daily, right? It’s the same thing. An exception to swallowing his semen is if he pulls out at the last second to orgasm on your (smiling and grateful) face. And of course thank him afterwards.

You like when he orgasms? You want to please your man? His orgasm is his reward to you for a job well done. Say thank you after he orgasms. Treasure and enjoy the feeling that you have just satisfied him. The longer you can do oral sex without making him orgasm, the bigger his orgasm will be and the more semen you will get. When you suck on his penis, think of a person who is starving and has just been given a super super super thick milk shake to drink with a straw.

If you have performed oral sex really well, your man’s penis will be soft and he’ll be forced to eat or finger one or both of your holes. Congratulations! Get ready to be his buffet!

When preforming oral sex, you need to think only about pleasing your man, and Yes, you should be completely addicted to his penis like a sex slave. That’s the nature of oral sex. When he does oral sex to you, he should be the same way, 100% devoted and obsessed with giving you mind blowing orgasms. Your man will feel a physical need to eat your pussy before work, think about eating you all day at work, and then need to eat your pussy before he eats dinner. Should you be his sex slave? Yes, and he should be yours. Each of you deserve a partner 100% dedicated and obsessed with pleasing the other.

When it comes to penis size, lets not lie, penis size matters to a girl, if it doesn't matter its because they've never been with a bigger guy who can make their body explode with pleasure, If your guy has a penis less than 5 inches blowjobs are easy as pie, unfortunately the penetrative sex probably isn't all that orgasmic. However if your man is 7-8 inches +,you had better use that dick and use it often, women die for a man with a penis this size, and if your not using it every few days, eventually he'll find someone else who will.

17 People Reveal How They Learned To Deep Throat

 Sometimes my boyfriend begs me to give him head. “Your blowjobs are completely epic,” he tells me, and I believe him. I love going down on him and watching how he loses himself, and I love knowing I can do this thing to him that drives him completely wild, every time, without fail. But what he doesn’t want to know is that I’ve gone down on a lot of guys in my life. Not quite porn-level oral, but I’m 26 and I’ve had several boyfriends so you do the math. I’ve always heard guys talking about “deep throating” but I never know what it was or how to do it. Some guys insist and hold your head down or force you, which isn’t really that comfortable, or they’ll ask you politely to deep throat them and you sort of try but aren’t sure if you’re doing it right? Now I think I’m pretty OK but I don’t know how I got here, so I went to these two Reddit threads to see what tips people have on deep throating. Maybe some of these will work for you?

1. The Kneeling Method

I like kneeling over him (a lot of people don’t, but I find it helps with his curve) while he plays with my hair, grabs my boobs or whatever. Then, go as far down as you can without gagging (even if it’s just the tiniest bit), and just stop there. Swallow a bit, breathe and just get used to the sensation. When you feel comfortable and your throat is relaxed, try a little further. Don’t push too quickly, just breathe in and ease down. Try moving your head to find the angle of least resistance to the bottom of your throat, as that will likely trigger your gag reflex. I find that pushing the head of the penis against the back of your throat whilst breathing in had the most success. Just keep doing this every couple of times you guys have sex, and slowly you should get used to it.

2. Breathing Is Key

a little add on to this, when you actually get yourself to the point where you are able to deep throat, take a deep breath BEFORE you go all the way down. with him in your throat you will have a very difficult time breathing, even through your nose. it can also make you gag a little if you try to breath with him all the way in you. most importantly, PRACTICE!!! you will both love it!!!

Penis shape makes a huge difference. If you try to deep throat against the curve, failure is inevitable. Try every position you can think of. In my case, with a straight and thick at the tip penis, the easiest for most girls is he classic ‘road head’ position, in which I sit on a couch facing forward, and she curls up beside me on m right, on her right side, and then sucks. Picture the position you would use in a parked car.

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move to england.

5. Road Head Makes For Easy Deep Throating???

If you’re going to do it I suggest and emptyish road without a lot of other cars around, no point endangering other people any more than you have to. Make sure the asphalt is smooth, you don’t want a bumpy road for obvious reasons. The best place is probably a controlled access highway (like an interstate) without much traffic. You don’t have head-on traffic to contend with and they are typically smooth without sharp curves. Set the cruise control so he is less likely to accelerate unintentionally when it starts feeling really good. Oh, and don’t forget to video tape and share the results with us. :D

6. Growing Not Showing

It is way easier for me to do it when he’s soft or just a little hard and he gets bigger. The feeling is pretty weird, but it works much better to start from 20% and have him go to 100% in my mouth, than to try and go from nothing in my mouth to all of it at once.

7. Work Those Knees

I completely agree with the position thing. I’ve found being on my knees in front of a man is best for me. Try different positions until you find what’s best.

8. Out-Willing Your Gag Reflex

I usually have him lay down in the bed and I get on my hands and knees between his llegs. This works really well for me. I haven’t ever really had too much of a.problem deepthroating but some of the tips here.really make sense. Breathe before you go down as they said. I have found that if I need to, I can just open my mouth a little wider and breathe that way. If you aren’t good at it yet I wouldn’t suggest this until you are a.little.more comfortable. I also conveniently had boyfriends whwho started small and the one I have now is the biggest I have been with. It just worked out consecutively luckily. For this reason the advice to go down as far as you can before gagging makes sense. Just kinda sit there for a minute and then work your way down. It will take time but eventially you will out-will your gag reflex.

9. WHATEVER YOU DO DON’T SUCK TOO HARD

Ah. This may sound strange, but is she sucking very hard? I found that when I felt nervous or like I wasn’t doing a good job, I would start to suck quite hard and that would make my jaw and my lips ache very quickly. If she tries to remember to relax her jaw and just move up and down and let her tongue do the work she may not tire out as quickly.

10. RELAX

There are a few positions where it’s supposedly a little easier to do, basically if the head is back so the throat and mouth are in line. Probably the easiest one for doing this is lying on your back with your head a little off the edge of the bed and him standing on the floor. You also need to relax, if your throat tightens up no amount of forcing will get it in, also probably easier if you do the position I suggested above if you grab his ass and pull him into you rather than have him push, that way you can control the depth a bit better.

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ahh yeah i finally taught myself how to do this with my curent bf. first thing, lots of saliva. i like first putting the head just to the back of my throat. as youre moving up and down his rod, try to push the tip barely into your throat and swallow a few times to help work it in. i usually go a half dozen times balls deep and hold there to get used to it. a lot of times he will flex his dick in my throat. feels amazing. i like burying his cock down my throat just as he cums. once he starts shooting down my throat, i swallow several times while his cock is in my throat. he says its the most amazing feeling and almost feels like im pulling the cum out of his balls when i swallow down on his cock. this is taken a better part of a year but ive been able to practice almost daily :)

12. It’s All In Your Head (lol)

Thank you! Maybe the secod time I blew him, he pushed my head down and I gagged and had to stop for a bit because I wasn’t expecting it. I haven’t been able to go down as far since then, but hearing multiple times that it’s mental and can be worked up to again gives me a lot of encouragement :)

13. Guys, Don’t Flex

Tip for the reciever: resist the urge to flex when she does it, the more pliable you are, the easier it will be on her.

14. Deep Throating Is Not A Sustained Thing

Well, in my experience, you deep throat it, back off, repeat. Deep throating, at least from my observation of the guy’s reactions, should be mixed in with the whole blow job experience. You should probably deep throat, back off, breathe through your nose or mouth a little, then go back for more. When his cock is down your throat, your airways are most likely both blocked, thus preventing air even from your nose from getting in.

15. When In Doubt, Give Him A Titty Fuck

Also, while giving a blowjob with deep throating I like being on my knees while he’s sitting. If you need to breath or need a break and want to add something to it, give him a titty fuck. This really helps me since my jaw tends to get soar and he really likes it. Then go back down when you’re ready. :)

16. No Forcing!

For me, the most important thing is pacing. If I’m controlling the pacing and know when I can expect his dick to be where, I can (and do) deepthroat. If I’m allowing him to control the tempo, however, I will gag almost every time. This is usually made worse by things such as having my head pushed down by his hand or him changing the angle of his hips to make thrusting easier– both of which are unfortunately common behaviors in facefucking.
Basically, my advice is this: make sure your guy understands that he needs to sit back and let himself get deepthroated, not try to make it happen himself.

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