HAVING SEX IN NEW PLACES

 The older I’ve become the more I’ve come to realize that good sex is composed of great ingredients, mixes and blends, and as great as certain combinations can be at times they will eventually lose its luster and appeal if used together to frequently. For us sex was no different, in our early years we had the same moves, the same boring nighties, the same seduction moves, the same sexual positions, and of course it always went down in the bedroom, sense a problem yet?

Nothing can kill the mood quicker than the feeling of redundancy, repetition, going through the motions expecting and receiving the same results. At times we both would daze off, check our phones even, take a pause for a snack and never finish, that’s what happens when we didn’t change up the pace, location, or moves from time to time.

One day after Brett walked in the door from work and we had the house to ourselves, I took the opportunity, I pounced on him as he went to the fridge, shoving him onto the nearest chair I found myself doing an unplanned strip tease and lap dance as his jaw hit the floor. Never before had we had such hot, heavy, sweaty, and dirty sex as we did that day, the feeling of controlling him on the chair as his head flew back, the feeling of him bending me over the kitchen counter and taking me as hard as he ever had.

We of course made it an effort from that point to change up location, time of day, seduction methods, etc in hopes of adding variety to our sex life. Thus far we’ve managed to use our bedroom, kitchen, bathroom shower, hallway, staircase, washing machine, and even the backyard one daring night. Each experience became better than the last, each brought hope and passion back into our minds, making us wonder where we would sneak off to next to get it on.

At times we even pushed the boundaries, performing orally at a local waterpark changing room, fingering me under the table during date night, finding an abandoned field where we did it both in and on the car, I even went so far as to flash him from time to time in discreet public locations. Needless to say, our routine rut had been broken, for those hoping to get something more out of sex, consider changing the location for starters, it’s amazing how a change of scenery can add new opportunities to grow together.   

HERE ARE SOME IDEAS FROM THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF REDDIT OF WAYS COUPLES CAN BE MORE TEASING IN PUBLIC:

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  Wear a skirt, mid flight go to the bathroom and when you come back tell him you're not wearing any underwear, if your brave enough and have an opportunity slip your underwear into his pocket! Read it in a book once

• If we’re sitting side by side, again slowly trailing his hand up and down my leg or just resting his hand uncomfortably close to my crotch and drawing circles with his thumb on my upper thigh.
• Dirty talk: Whisper things into her ear – for me, this has amazing results when it’s paired with physical teasing, i.e., when he notices that I’m getting turned on, he’ll lean over and whisper “What’s wrong?” with an almost arrogant knowing tone and smirk. Or you can go with a more explicit route such as telling her the things you’re going to do to her (“I’m going to/I want to take you home, bend you over, and fuck you until you’re begging to cum”), things you want her to do to you (“When we get home, I want you stripped naked and on your knees for me”), how badly you want her (“Do you know how badly I want/need you right now?), how sexy she is (“You look so fucking hot/sexy/beautiful/fuckable right now”), etc.
• When she's sitting at isolated booth or table, doing whatever, I come up behind her, bend down very close to her (but not touching her) - suddenly becoming a very large, looming presence behind her - and "innocently" get my lips really close to her ear or neck, and very huskilly, but still "innocently" (tone of voice and inflection say, "I'm going to fuck you the second we get home." She gets Goosebumps and her back arches everytime, immediately when I sit down she'll be so horny she'll put her hand or foot on my crotch and rub aggressively.
• It's not terribly subtle, but the remote control bullet vibrators are awesome for some build up before you make it home. Give him the remote and let him go crazy. Chances are if anyone notices anything they will think it's a phone vibrating.
• I do not do this much, but my so and I are starting these games. She will grab my crotch while people are not looking, and ill do the same to her ass. She will whisper thing in my ear, like "can't wait for that big cock." You could get vibrating panties with a remote :).
• Or, play a discreet game of "tag." If you're it, you try to sneakily cop a feel on your partner while no one's looking. The one who's "it" at the end of the night loses, and has to do whatever the other person says
• When standing around (you can do this if you're waiting in line or waiting for your luggage), I stand with my back against his chest and his arms around me and I press my ass into his crotch. If I can get away with it, I like to discreetly grind into him.
• Date night always means I wear my shirts with the most revealing cleavage, its a must for every wife. If I'm wearing the proper clothes, I'll lean down low or purposely cross my arms together to give him a shot of cleavage, all while devilishly looking up at him while biting my lip and giving him the "fuck me" eyes. he just about cums in his pants every time, needless to say he downs his dinner in a heart beat and practically sprints out the door to get us home.
• When we're sitting down, I like to slowly run my hands up and down his thigh. If we have a jacket or bag, I'll usually put that in his lap and just rub him under that, or even sneak his cock out and stroke it a bit.
• You can text him dirty things (i.e. all the things you want to do to him, all the things you've missed about him, etc) and smile coyly after he reads them
• You could go for dinner and go to the bathroom and send him 2 pictures, one of your now pantie-less snatch, another of your panties in a fairly conspicuous location in the bathroom (on the top of the toilet tank for example.) Then walk out without retrieving your underwear and rejoin him.

• Same here, my wife one walked up to me in a short dress and shoved her g-string into my pocket and whispered "could you hold these for me?" it was the only thing I could thing about all day. she even bent over at the store a few times to give me an incredible view of her goods, this is something every man deserves to experience at least once.
• on date night I only wear skirts or dresses, when at places like restaurants with table cloths or a dark theatre, i'll take his hand and run it up my leg until he feels my bare pussy, his eyes explode out of his head and I usually let him finger me to near orgasm, or in the theatre complete orgasm.
• Take his index finger, and rub it with your fingertips, like a mini handy. Gets me going every time, my SO does it.
• I like when girls bite their lips and gaze in my eyes seductively (I-want-to-f*-your-brains-out look).
• Whisper something naughty in his ear and then once you pull back, keep a completely straight face so that no one suspects it was. Like, say something like "I'm not wearing any panties" or "I'm kinda horny right now" and then be totally nonchalant about it after. That seems to work pretty well on guys because there isn't much they can do about it right then and there and it will drive them crazy.
• Easiest way to do it is when kissing him, subtly and softly lick his top lip :) Drives my boyfriend crazy haha :D
• at a resturaunt : play with your straw, like stir your drink ;) i always love discreetly giving my straw a deep bj while staring at him, he freezes and is awe struck hahah 
• in public: cross & uncross your legs, gather up all your hair hold it up for a couple of seconds then drop it. 
• Keep wearing tops like that and wear push up bras and show some cleavage. Guys are sucker for boobs and cleavage and we get turned on pretty easily
• Use your finger nails on the inside of his thigh through his trousers, it will make him hard with a weeping

• Sometimes Wifey and I will go bang outdoors. It is fun and adds a nice level of excitement. We've banged in my car in parking lot at work, on hiking trails, parks, etc. The key is her having a long skirt/dress. Her undies come off (or weren't on to begin with) and pull my dick out of my fly. Then she sits on my lap and badabing, badaboom!
• I've only done one thing like this, but I'd be keen to try more of it. My SO and I were in my car out the front of my house late one night and we started kissing, which turned into her giving me a handjob. Then she pushed her seat back all the way, leant on the floor on the passenger side and leant over the centre console and gave me one of the best blowjobs I've had
• Pull her into discreet little spot and start making out passionately. Kiss her neck, lick her ear, gently pull her hair if you can. Then stop and continue your normal activity
• When nobody is watching, fondle her slightly and cup her breast, if you're standing from behind. Kiss her neck and whisper naughty thoughts into her ear.
• Paint provocative scenarios in her mind with words, when nobody can hear you two, tell her how you fantasize about having sex with her in that closet over there, or over this table
• i would say maybe play with your boobs or even when no one is looking but him giving a little flash. or better yet just get his attention with you hand and just slightly slip it down his pants. anything like that will turn you both on because it's risqué
• The key to a good tease is to offer a man what he wants right now, but at the last minute change it to something else. For example, if you are moving in for a kiss, veer at the last second and lick his neck. You can expand on the theory for yourself
• I will turn my head just as my husband goes to kiss me, so that he only gets the cheek, or my neck, or nothing at all. This gets him frustrated very quickly, but in a good way :) I will also lean over to whisper something naughty in his ear and then nip his earlobe gently with my teeth. This drives him nuts. Then, if I'm really feeling naughty, I'll slide my hands over my body as we drive home...so he can watch, but can't do anything about it! :)
• Flash skin. Nothing does it quite as when other guys are noticing his lady. makes him want you all the more.
• Give them a lip tease: Kiss them tenderly for a few minutes and pull away, then go back in a minute and kiss them more lustily. Their passion will build with each mouthwatering interlude.
• My wife sometimes slips a small bottle of lube into my hand ( meaning we're gonna get freaky tonight in the car or elsewhere).
• The key to a good tease is to offer a man what he wants right now, but at the last minute change it to something else. For example, if you are moving in for a kiss, veer at the last second and lick his neck. You can expand on the theory for yourself
• Wear a skirt with no panties then when your walking grab his hand a move it down there so he knows....this gets them everytime. They will be desperate to get somewhere private
  
• Use your hand for a quick ass graze or if you can get away with it you can give it a quick squeeze, or even a spank.
• Seeing him giving me that “full body lookover” – basically watching his eyes slowly look over every inch of my body like he wants to devour me.
• If you happen to get aroused yourself, wrap your arms around her waist and pull her back towards your chest, press or grind yourself against her. Whisper in her ear about how hard you are for her or how badly she's turned you on.
• Many times while driving we masturbate eachother when its late in the afternoon and its dark enough we wont get caught, sometimes i'll pull out my breasts while driving and stroke him to near orgasm.