WHY I LOVE SQUIRTING ORGASMS
After my second child 3 years ago, Brett and I took quite a while to get back in the swing of things, afraid to engage him, I turned to the use of toys test out my body to see if I was ready, slowly and with great fear I inserted a curved glass dildo inside me, to my astonishment I felt a new sensation, I had finally found my g-spot, my walls were sensitive, before I knew it I was gushing and squirting like a fountain.
Many women today are capable of squirting and don’t even
know it, squirting often triggers a full body orgasm for me, causing pulses and
spasms to happen in every muscle I have. Squirting has become somewhat of an
obsession for me, each time I try to squirt harder and harder, each time
orgasming harder and longer than before. For women who can-not achieve orgasms
through penile penetration they should perhaps consider squirting as a better
alternative. Many great how to videos or dvds are available to teach these
techniques.
Squirting is actually quite simple, all it take is training by her on her own, or him knowing where to rub, those who learn to squirt can have penetrative orgasms unlike clitoral orgasms. nothing to me is hotter than cumming while my husband is pumping his penis in and out of me, and he loves staring into my eyes as my body locks up and my orgasm face hits full intensity.
Comments
1- Do guys like it when we squirt? what is going through your heads? I want to but am so afraid he will think its gross.
2- Do most guys swallow our juices when performing oral? and do you think swallowing our cum is gross? I ask because my husband refuses do do anything more than lick my clit since he hates my cum :(
thank you!
2) Any devoted husband (or man) doesn't give a damn about cum being on our face or in our mouth, its all about selfless pleasure, spouses who cant grasp this concept have no business being married. Talk to him about what you both expect out of sex, its important to realize that putting each others enjoyment above your own hesitancies is a key to both marriage and good sex, slowly he'll lean to love it when he sees how happy you are.
SECOND-like brett said, talk to your husband, A REAL MAN WILL SWALLOW, if he's not putting your needs first he doesn't understand what sex is all about. Just as a real woman/wife will take a facial from us and swallow it, men ought to do the same. its the ultimate form of selfless love, how we perform oral sex is a primary indicator of how much our spouse loves us. if they love doing it and spend 13-30+ minutes doing it, you'll know their heart is in it and they want to see you happy, if its just a few minutes here and there, then well... not so much...
Lets be honest, most of the time cum is tasteless in women (and from what I'm told men if they eat well) but there are times when things down there get a bit stinky and salty, regardless of the conditions I love my wife enough to pleasure her and put her above my own dislikes or likes.
Of course nobody should ever be forced to do something they don't want, but that being said, it really does indicate to the spouse how committed they are to your happiness and marriage.
Tell him to man up and swallow every drop ;)
There shouldn't be a single thing we as spouses should say no to immediately, every taboo needs to be discussed with love if our partner is turned on by something we're not sure of. don't knock it until you try it, and if you try it and hate it, try it a few more times, you'll likely learn to love it. I was the same way with both giving oral, and swallowing. give it a few dedicated tries and you'll absolutely love it eventually :)
best of luck sweetie
of course there is the rare deadbeat spouse who will do neither... pathetic excuse of a lover sadly, spouses who do neither have no business being married in the first place, they clearly know nothing of commitment and dedication to each others pleasure.