HOW HOTWIFING BOOSTS YOUR LIBIDO BY 1000%
HOTWIFING 101
FANTASIZING ABOUT SOMEONE OTHER THAN OUR SPOUSE... WE ALL DO IT!
In recent nationwide surveys about marriage, studies showed:
- 92% of men, and 88% of women fantasized daily about sleeping with a stranger they encounter almost daily.
- 94% of women confessed to masturbating recently about someone other than their husbands.
- 79% of husbands doing the same.
- 87% of men said they would be open to sharing their wife with another man,
- While 71% of wives said they would be open to exploring it.
- Reports even showed that 62% of couples had either: had a threesome, attended a swingers party, participated in swinging, or allowed their spouse a hall pass to have casual sex.
Essentially everyone fantasizes about screwing strangers, its normal!
I believe it’s safe to say that all married women have
fantasized, at least once about having sex with another partner during their
healthy, happy, and loving marriage. Her fantasy may be a secret affair, a
celebrity, someone at the office, or perhaps just a sexy and willing figment of
her imagination.
All women are a bit reluctant at first, but after the
initial shock for the most part we become very excited at the idea of having
multiple sex partners with our husbands or even boyfriends consent,
participating and watching. Even in the case where there was some resistance,
women eventually bring it up and even initiate this fantasy at times.
My husband once said that “I never would have dreamed that my beautiful, Christian church-going,
subservient wife of more than 10 years would call my bluff and be excited about
my hotwifing fantasy”. Yes, I am a church-going and PTA-attending, a doting
soccer mom, educated, professional, worldly, and the sweet and innocent lady
next door who no one would never suspect had a deep craving to experience new,
different, and varied sexual experiences with other men of all ages.
Out of nowhere, he told me one day that he wanted to
catch me in the act of having sex with another man. Literally. Although I had no desire to at the moment, but was
always horny enough to fantasize about it, I agreed to be open minded and
possibly even try it out since I had done enough religious studies to know with
a certainty that God would not condemn me for it. The question then became
where to find a willing male participant. After years of talking to trusted
friends, we ended up on a discreet couples site and found many eager seekers.
Hotwife vs Adultery
Now
I know what your thinking... how in the good lords name can you both as
Christians be ok with other people having sex with your partners? wouldn't that
destroy your relationship together as man and wife? Isn't that considered
adultery, which is a sin in the bible?
In the bible we read so often
about the sin of adultery which is typically interpreted that as a man or wife
sleeping with another person outside of their marriage without permission, yet
often we overlook the oft quoted verses in Leviticus, Romans, and Corinthians
which explains it is permissible for both a man and wife to have carnal sexual
relations outside of our marriages if both spouses are ok with it. It's no
wonder so many Christians have flocked to engaging in this practice after years
of sexual suppression from church leaders in our youth. HOTWIFING, SWINGING,
AND THREESOMES IS NOT A SIN, the gospel and prophets make this
perfectly clear. The early translations of the bible before twisted by the
corrupt celibate priests of King James clearly teaches otherwise, we see
examples of swinging, sex outside of marriage, sex before marriage, even
lesbian and gay sex, and guess what, all of which was approved by God himself…
Sad how Christianity has twisted something that was so normal and beautiful
into something that we feel so shameful of now.


Adultery is less about sex than it is about deception if you give it some thought. If a woman is having a sexual affair behind her husband’s back without his knowledge, that’s Adultery, and that is a sin. A woman who is dating outside her marriage in order to fulfill her husband’s desire to share her, for the benefit of her marriage, who has not only her husband’s knowledge, but also his consent and encouragement, that is not Adultery, and therefore not a sin.
Adultery is less about sex than it is about deception if you give it some thought. If a woman is having a sexual affair behind her husband’s back without his knowledge, that’s Adultery, and that is a sin. A woman who is dating outside her marriage in order to fulfill her husband’s desire to share her, for the benefit of her marriage, who has not only her husband’s knowledge, but also his consent and encouragement, that is not Adultery, and therefore not a sin.
Where did Christianity come up with Sexual rules that aren't in the bible?
To understand why Christianity
is the way they are when it comes to teaching and preaching about sexuality, we
must first under where these teachings come from. Take a look at the image
below, recognize anything? It’s a history of Christianity! First there was the
church of Jesus Christ, as lead by him on earth, secondly there was his church
in the wilderness lead by the apostles, this church after the apostles deaths
transformed into the roman catholic church, as lead by a pope, under the
control of the emperor of Rome. Sadly this church became more of a political
manipulation tool than a church, doctrines and meanings were twisted
dramatically, the celibate priests of what was then the catholic church turned
all things sexual into a total sin, and although we now recognize these men
blatantly twisted so many teachings, for some odd reason all Christianity still
teaches these incorrect laws...
If the Catholic Sex rules are fake, Why follow them?
The answer is simple... WE DONT! Christians around the
world have finally begun to accept that sexuality is a gift from god and
not from the devil. Pastors we know even participate in threesomes, swapping,
etc. Finally we are recognizing that sex between someone other than our spouse is
permitted when consensual between the man and woman, that like the
prophet Ruth it’s not a sin to have lesbian sex, that oral
sex as described by the prophet Solomon is approved, that modesty as defined by
Christian analists is pretend.
While there are still churches within Christianity such
as Pentecostals, Born Agains, Mormons, and Jehovah's Witnesses that continue to
preach these imaginary rules (Which again let me remind you have been admitted
to be a lie and made up from the very catholic church themselves), the majority
of the world has realized the complete and total B.S. our sexual lessons have
been as youth in the past. Will you be punished for breaking these pretend
rules? Ha, I hardly think so.
While sex outside of our marriage may be fine and swell,
that’s not to say that adultery isn’t a real and serious thing. There are at
least a dozen different definitions of the term Adultery, depending on where
you look, or who is trying to scare you.
That begs the question, who is committing Adultery? Here
are a few examples for you right out of my email in-basket. A married flight
attendant who hooks up with men while she is on overnight travel without her
husband’s knowledge or consent. A secretary who is banging her boss when her
husband thinks she is working late. A woman spending the afternoon in a motel
with her personal trainer. A woman getting her needs met by her son’s soccer
coach. The list goes on and on, you get the picture, if its approved by both
man and wife you’re good, if there’s no approval then well… you’re a
cheating bastard or whore...
A Cuckold is largely defined as a
married man whose wife is fucking other men without his knowledge or sometimes
consent. Ladies, you don’t want to be cuckolding your man, its cheating… But
there’s a significant difference when it comes to Hotwifing, where husbands
encourage, sometimes participate, and even watch their wives seduce and screw
other men.
The Hotwife Fantasy Explained
A Hotwife is a married woman, whose
marriage is open on her end and closed on her husband’s end in order to fulfill
her and her husband’s desire to share her with other men. She dates outside her
marriage specifically to share her body with other men, with the knowledge,
consent, and encouragement of her husband in order to fulfill a VERY normal
desire that most men and women have.
One common question I
get from wives who are hesitant to dip their toes into the waters of hotwifing
are “But Dr. Benson, you say you are giving advice to those who are considering
the soccer mom Hotwife lifestyle, how should I feel about this fantasy and how
do I make it a reality?”
“Our” idea was that
if I was going to try and help other men and women get into the lifestyle we
should share our story so that I would have some credibility. So besides my
personal experience, how do I know what I know? What makes me an expert on this
subject? Experience… Back on the subject of how I know what I know, I know that
for a married man to fantasize about sharing his wife with other men is as
normal as a teenager who masturbates!
So let’s start there.
MOST men have that fantasy but not all men know how far they would want it to
go in real life. I have great news for you! You as a husband are perfectly
normal, in fact, your wife is damn lucky to rope a man who is as loving and
cares for her pleasure as you do! And even better, you as a wife are perfectly
normal for wanting to try it with him, the benefits of Hotwifing literally make
a decent sexual marriage into an amazing one!
WHAT MATTERS MOST: INTIMACY
Hotwifing
is about intimacy, it’s about fantasy, it’s about pleasure, personal growth,
building trust, learning sexually and then applying those new found skills in
your marriage. HOTWIFING BUILDS INTIMCAY BETWEEN A WIFE AND HER HUSBAND more
than any other way I know, it’s a joint experience.
Hotwifing might be limited to simply allowing or
encouraging the attention of other men toward your wife, or it might include
physical contact. This contact might be kissing or touching, or it might be
more. The notion of another man paying attention to your wife, or if taken
further, becoming romantically physical with your wife, can be a difficult
notion to swallow for some men. Other men have found the more open way of
thinking to be liberating. It is allowing her the freedom to explore her
sexuality with other men, to experience different techniques, styles of sex,
passion, roughness, gentleness, and everything in between, it is about giving
her maximum pleasure, which increases her sex drive and betters the marriage
through her newly found confidence and sexual desire.
WHY DO 80% OF HUSBANDS GET TURNED ON BY THEIR WIVES FUCKING OTHER MEN?
It’s a real sexual phenomenon that has roots in man’s
innermost sexual desires.
Over the years I’ve
gotten a LOT of emails from men asking if they are “weird” to want to see their
wife or girlfriend with another man. Many men fantasize about their wife being
pleasured in this way and it’s more normal than you might think.
DOES
MY HUSBAND GET JEALOUS WHEN I FUCK OTHER MEN? DOES HE EVEN LOVE ME?
What’s the deal here?
Why do some men find
it erotic to enjoy having other men pleasure their wives sexually? No, they’re
not gay, no, they do love you. Why are women allowing themselves to be touched,
kissed, penetrated and worshipped by another man in the bedroom? Wouldn’t that
make him jealous? Yes!
1. Your own self-esteem
will skyrocket.
Again, this is a tough one to explain but is something every man I know whose
wives go down the hotwifing path. For one thing, you become even more proud of
your wife as she does start to bloom and your feelings of love and
devotion for her increase. It's strange, but even though most hotwives husbands
have their wives' permission to sleep with other women, few actually do. Why?
Because for man much of the pleasure is in seeing his wife enjoying her own
pleasure (and by this I don't just mean actually watching her with another man
-- I mean just seeing her doing through life as a newly self-aware and
liberated woman).
2. Your relationship
will improve.
You'll experience more physical and emotional intimacy and you'll end up having
better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when you do it. I
know I speak for other husbands of hotwifes when I say there's nothing quite so
fast to turn me on as when my own hotwife, Whitney, uses her lover's name while
she's making love to me.
My husband says “The fact that my wife sleeps with other men
puts me in constant competition with the world around me — I always need to be
smarter, funnier, more engaging, more attractive … because I can’t get complacent, I constantly strive to be
a better partner for my wife, and I get the thrill of winning her over, time
and time again”.
WHAT BENEFITS ARE THER FOR ME FROM FUCKING NEW GUYS?
1. It allows women to
fulfill their wildest sexual fantasies
Many couples do have
sexual fantasies of taking their relationship to a new kinky level. Hotwifing is one way of
expressing yourself while at the same time having a good time.
The wife gets the
freedom to enjoy the company of the opposite sex. Many married women would like
to enjoy the company of men other than their husbands, but they don’t get that
chance. When a man allows his woman to be in the company of other men, she can
enjoy that fresh kind of intimacy.
3. It frees women
from the jealousy of their men.
Jealousy is one of
the major reasons many relationships fail and insecurity is a contributing
factor in many disagreements and breakups. Hotwifing can help to rid the man of
his feelings of jealousy, and when he gives his wife the freedom to be who she
wants to be, she knows her husband has her best interests at heart, which
helps her trust him more.
4. It increases trust
and communication within relationships.
Relationships are built on trust and communication. If
you want to a happy, lasting relationship, you must ensure that you understand
each other and also give each other the chance and freedom to be yourselves.
Before a couple
begins to dive into actual hotwifing, they both need to agree they each really want to do this. These kinds of open and
honest conversations increase trust and communication between the couple and
bring them closer together.
Your
relationship will improve. You'll experience more physical and emotional intimacy and
you'll end up having better sex, having it more often and being more
adventurous when you do it. I know I speak for other hotwives when I say
there's nothing quite so fast to turn me on as when my husband reclaims me, and
I get to add new techniques and ideas I learned from screwing other guys.
5. It makes women
feel beautiful and desired.
As a man, you will
feel that you actually have the hottest woman on earth, and it's every man's
desire to have a woman who is another man's dream. Hotwifing gives men the
perfect chance to appreciate how beautiful and desirable his woman is, which
typically serves to increase both his love and respect for her.
Hotwifing not only
encourages me to stay fit, avoid the PJ’s 24/7, and helps me to doll myself up
more, but it makes me feel sexy, wanted, lusted after, and that motivates me to
be the best and most beautiful me that I can be.
6. It boosts confidence.
Hotwifing
gives women a chance to express themselves. When a woman knows that she has the
support of her man to do whatever she desires, she feels great about herself,
which helps to boost her own self-confidence. The wife will bloom. This
is a hard one to explain and describe, but an easy one to spot. Women love to
be found attractive; what's more they love to be the woman of a strong and
confident man. And by being a hotwife, she's getting the best of both worlds --
her lovers build her self-esteem because they find her attractive (you 'have'
to because you're her husband, right?); and obviously you must be a strong and
confident man to let her go out and spread her wings, so to speak. You'll
notice how she becomes more aware of herself, more sexually adventurous, and
starts to take even more pride in her appearance.
7. It increases
intimacy.
Hotwifing gives both
the man and woman in a couple the perfect chance to gain important knowledge
about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their
connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically
deepen a couple's bond.
8. It provides a
greater sense of sexual satisfaction for both husband and wife.
Hotwifing creates a
perfect platform for attaining physical satisfaction. The woman is able to
spend quality time with men who interest her, which quenches the thirst
that in more traditional marriages might otherwise lead to affairs and
betrayals.
WHY I LOVE BEING A HOTWIFE
It turns out that it
is not that simple. Although I love sex, I also love new experiences with men.
I love romance and passion. I love knowing when a man is sexually attracted to
me and comes after me. I love it when men talk sugar smack to me in a bar
because they want to separate me from my panties, although some men are
disappointed momentarily when they discover I’m not wearing any.
Fortunately, that
disappoint usually speeds up their erection and they forget all about that
particular disappointment.
So that brings us to
the heart of the issue about my sex drive. There can be no doubt in anyone’s
mind that that becoming a Hotwife has increased my sex drive at least ten fold.
What is not so clear
is why. Is it because I see sexual orgasm in a new light and I am chasing the
perfect orgasm? Or is it because I like being chased by men that want to have
sex with me?
Have I had the most
incredible orgasm of my life that has taken me to both a physical and emotional
strata that I will never experience again? Hotwife sex is more about the recreational aspect of sex.
A Hotwife has two sex lives. She has her marital sex life and her personal sex
life.
There is no guilt because I am doing what my husband wants
me to do.
My attitude about sex is night and day different than it
was before as a traditional wife. If I wake up in the morning and I get that
little spark of urge, I start planning my day around that little spark. If it
can wait until the evening, I go out hunting. I am a Cougar, so I know some
places in Seattle to go to get my immediate need met. If I want a mature,
cultured guy my own age, I go to an upscale downtown hotel lounge. If I want a
young alpha male gym rat with muscles, I go to the gym or the bar where they
go. If I want a bad boy, I go out clubbing.
I have a personal sex life now because he wants me to
have it. I use those sexual experiences to share with Michael to fulfill his
fantasy of wanting to share me with other men. Fulfilling his fantasy and
sharing all of those experiences is enriching our marriage and making us even
closer with even greater Intimacy.
Men hit on me all the time when I was out, particularly
at the gym working out.
All these men wanted
to have sex with me and there was one that didn’t. What’s wrong with this
picture, I wondered. All these men wanted
to sneak me out to try and separate me from my panties. I was sleeping with one
that didn’t. Hello?
Now a marriage is a partnership and if he is bringing in
the money, I need to bring in the sex. So I went to my computer and Googled
“Female led relationship sex”. The more I explored the more my mind raced with
ideas and plans. My spark was coming back and I was wet again between the legs.
A female led relationship is one where, the woman helps a man understand his
desire, to help him be more intimate, passionate, trustworthy, faithful, and
above all, loving. In reading the Female Led Relationship (FLR) sites I
discovered that my husband was a “sexual submissive” for sure.
The best advice that I found was to test the waters with
your husband to see what really turned him on. It went something like this. Get
your husband naked. Now tell him dirty stories or ask him point blank questions
and then watch his penis. If he gets hard, or gets harder, than regardless of
what comes out of his mouth he is into it. Men have built in lie detectors. You
think you know what your mate of 10 years likes and wants in the bedroom, and
then you find out that you have no clue on what makes him happy. My husband for
sure was a sexual submissive. He responded to stories of me playing with
younger men, oral sex with me after he has come in me, masturbating for me,
dressing up for me, just about anything that I want I can have, he was right
out of the FLR handbook. He loved me and wants me to have a “slutty” exciting
sex life.
I’m looking to reconnect with my husband and take control
of our sex life, improve or marriage. So I had to approach each site with the
attitude that I’m only looking for a few ideas that work in my life that will
work in the real world, our world. We have jobs, grown kids, pets, bills to pay
we have everyday life to live. I want us to stay as a team, by happy and
explore life with each other.
Each step I took created a spark in our marriage and
improved or sex life. The more time I put in, the better things became. We were
like 20 year old kids again except this time I knew what a sexual submissive
was, I was getting to be my old slutty self again.
RELIGIOUS, SOCIETAL, & FAMILY SHAMING
One of my biggest fears as both a teenager, young wife,
and most recently as a prospective hotwife was that either my pastor, my fellow
congregation member, my friends, or even my family would find out I enjoyed
embracing my sexuality and judge me “slut shaming me” into mocking, ridiculing,
and accusing me of being foolish. Such is society these days, but guess what?
If they find out who the heck cares? I’m proud of who I am, it makes me happy,
it makes my man happy, it betters my marriage, and instead of the shame, I
embrace it with pride!
You don’t have to be a full fledge slut of a hotwife,
wearing short skirts, lowcut tops, fuck me boots, and throwing yourself at
every hot guy you encounter, you can be the regular soccer mom who wears the
yoga pants or jeans, and finds a hot guy online, or bumps into a young stud at
a nearby campus, there’s different levels of hotwifing, do what works for you!
HOTWIFIING 101
HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR THIRD WHEEL
1.
Set rules
in place about what she’s ok with doing and not doing, where is she allowed to
have sex, with who, when, how, condoms or no condoms, where can he cum, how
late can she stay out, how often does she have to check in on her dates? And so
on, all will set up a safe and healthy experience. Other than these rules, she can seize whatever appealing opportunity
arises without documenting it or directly involving him.
2.
Choose a person that you are all attracted to
Threesomes
or single guys will only work after you choose someone that you will all
be attracted to. Before you decide to invite anyone to your bed, try to carry
out prior research and know whether you are choosing the right person. You
should take the opinions of each of you into consideration before you decide to
call the person.
2.
Check on your mental attraction
For
anybody that you invite into your bedroom to easily fit in your threesome party, you should have
mental attraction towards the person. You should take time and talk to the
person before inviting him or her to your bedroom. In case you have the same
field of thought, then that is the right party for you to invite.
3.
Mature emotion intelligence
The
person should be ready to express his or her feelings and be ready to excuse
themselves whenever need arises. The person should be ready to express his
or her feelings in such a way he will not make one of you uncomfortable. There
should be always constructive discussion during the encounter. A close friend
often makes a good choice for a third.
4.
The person should respect your relationship
Even if
you are inviting the person for you to form a hotwifing or threesome, you still
have a relationship with your partner and he or she should be ready to respect
it at all times.
5.
The person should practice safer sex
For the
relationship to work well, the person that you will invite should be ready
to practice safer sex. There are different risks in sex, failure to practice
safer sex might have you regretting the encounter with the person. First
take your time and assess whether the person is responsible during sex.
6.
Sexual intelligence in the person
The
person should have sex intelligence where he or she is ready to talk about
different types of sex and practice them. This will easily lead you to enjoy
your group sex. The main reason of starting a threesome is to try and explore
new adventures in sex, the person that you should invite should be well
informed about different sexual encounters that will make your threesome
enjoyable.
7.
The person should understand what you want
There are
some goals you will like to achieve in your sexual revolution. You may like to
have a situation where the person that you will invite will help one of you who
has low sex drive to satisfy the other. The person should know that and be
ready to play the part. You can easily make the person know about your goals by
talking to the person prior to starting your sexual encounter.
What’s The Big Deal About Big Cocks?
My husband has a fairly big penis, I’ve always remembered thinking to myself that I don’t get all clamor over how hotwives love big cocks? I mean my husbands penis is big, it always filled me up basically completely, I can feel it hit the back of y vagina, and it rubs me pretty damn well. I don’t want or need a bigger cock I told myself, and then all in a few minutes I knew why big cocks are more craved than Justin Bieber surrounded by teenage girls…
OMFG… ladies, take it from someone who now knows… YOU
WANT A BIG COCK!
This total stranger slowly slid in his thicker cock, which felt like rainbows and made me melt, stretching me out in a good way, rubbing perfectly against my g-spot, this alone was reason enough to try a bigger dick. And then it happened, I realized his cock was hitting the back of my pussy, and he still had an inch and a half of cock that had yet to go inside me, I thought “no way will this thing fit in me without destroying my insides”, but magically the entire cock eventually disappeared as I came like a rocket over and over! It was a tad painful for 30-45 seconds as he stretched me deeper, but after that ladies, OMFG I must have cum like 5 times in 8 minutes! Your orgasms go from “oooh oooh, ahhh, ahhh”, to “ “Yes!, Yes!, Oh my G*d Fuck me! I’m your slut!, I’m your whore!”, as my entire body was shaking and screaming in pleasure. LADIES YOU MAY THINK YOU CAN’T TAKE A BIG COCK, BUT YOU CAN, AND YOU WANT TO!
BIG BLACK COCKS EXPLAINED
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LOOKING
TO BECOME A HOTWIFE FOR YOURSELF OR YOUR MAN? HERE’S SOME IDEAS
If you’re thinking about dipping your toes into the world
of hotwifing here’s some tips on making your adventure a successful one.
REQUIREMENTS FOR HOTWIFING:
1: A husband who exudes confidence and is not easily
jealous of his wife being pleasured by other men.
2: A desire by both husband and wife to pursue pleasure
outside of the relationshiop.
3: Communication about what is and isn’t acceptable
within her dating outside the marriage.
4: Rules about when, where, how, and who she’s fucking,
and where they area allowed to cum.
5: Knowledge of where to find new guys for her to fuck
with (public places, apps, internet, friends, neighbors etc.).
6: The wardrobe, whether it be a pair of tight jeans,
yoga pants, revealing dress, or the ultimate lingerie wardrobe, she’s got to be
able to flaunt all the right places to seduce her young studs.

7: An open mind, willingness to try new things, places,
positions, people, and scenarios.
8: Confidence, confidence enough in yourself to know you
are lusted after, that guys do want in your pants, that God isn’t go to strike
you down or judge you for following twisted incorrect Christian principles.

ALONG WITH THE REQUIREMENTS TO BECOME A HOTWIFE, HERE ARE SOME PERSONAL IDEAS THAT I FEEL HELP ENHANCE YOUR SKILLS AND ENJOYMENT IN YOUR NEW THRILLS.
HOW
YOU LOOK:
Nail polish color
Eye makeup
Hairstyle
Jewelry
Dress or Skirt
Blouse, Tank tops, Etc.
Shoes & Heels
Scents & perfumes
Lip gloss color
Weight loss (only if you actually know for sure)
Bikini’s or Lingerie
Tone your
body through weights
Kegels to
tone our pussy and make it tight & easier for you to orgasm
Shaving your legs & pussy (or designing your pussy)
HOW TO HELP YOUR HUSBAND (AND YOURSELF) ENJOY THE EXPERIENCE
Sext other
men (& share those sexts with your hubby)
Stoke him
up about your upcoming dates
Go out in
public, be her wingman and help her find a guy to fuck
Watch her
secretively in public as she flirts with and seduces total strangers
Watch her
as she fucks the new guy
Do seductive things to draws guys attention
Watch her in
the closet (without him knowing) as she fucks the new guy
Communicate
throughout your solo date and how your getting turned on/turning him on
Participate
in a threesome with your wife
Have him
take pictures of you both, (or if he’s not there take sexy selfies or videos to
get him off)
Spill and
tell all the elicit details about your date, how you seduced him (or he you),
how he fucked you (or you him), how he came, how you came, don’t leave out any details,
this is your mans favorite part he’s living vicariously through you.
Be a total
tease! Slut it up, share the details, talk dirty, use pillow talk as a recap
time (be prepared for him to pounce on you and reclaim you, which is the best
sex ever!).
sometimes
I'll let him pick out what I wear, or at least a few of the items I even tease
him on the way out the door. I will ask him if he is horny and excited that his
pretty wife is about to open her legs to another guy.. lol .. He usually loves
to kiss my pussy and check to see if everything is nice and clean down there, I
tell him that that same pussy will probably be worn out by the time I get back,
and that pussy will need his assistance when I get back... I tease him saying:
maybe we'll use a condom, maybe not. Sloppy seconds tonight? You'll have to
wait and see......
Hotwife Pillow Talk
This is your mans favorite aspect of hotwifing, he needs
to hear the details of how naughty you were, and what things you did/ he did to
you. Give him a long, slow, torturous BJ or handjob as you spill just how
slutty you were with this total stranger and how good he fucked your brains
out. RECLAMATION SEX IS AMAZINNNNNNG!
Again, there’s not just one kind of hotwife, there’s
hotwifes who enjoy threesomes, hotwifes who go out in public searching for new
cock, there’s hotwifes who search online for new hung guys, there’s hotwifes
who play only with their husbands in the room while screwing a new guy, and
there’s hotwifes who prefer to go on solo dates, there’s hotwifes who dress up provocatively,
and there’s hotwifes who simply just dress up as a sexy mom. Find what works
for you, be willing to explore new ideas and situations, your marriage will blossom
and grow from it. I know plenty of hotwives who simply go to Applebee's, Chili's, or Buffalo wild wings & simply sit alone at the bar with their wedding ring on, and guess what, they don't dress overly slutty, but when they're alone the guys flock to her because they assume she's looking to cheat since she's alone and at times wears an ankle bracelet, AKA she's an easy MILF. Be whatever kind of hotwife you want to be.
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I ask because my man has apparently read the texts too and says the same thing, at first the whole hot wife idea was a shock and gross concept to me, but now I have to admit that I really want to try it if its actually ok with God, I've actually even used a dildo fantasizing about other guys lately. I don't know how to overcome the religious shame though, like I know Christianity sex rules are more or less bogus and mostly made up, but its hard to just flat out start believing something totally different. Can anybody confirm or dispute the biblical teachings? Pretty please?
I'm curious, do any other guys get turned on by their lady being mischievous in the sheets with a total stranger? what's the big turn on for you? what do you get out of it? Just curious, I'm all for doing it, I just don't want my SH to feel left out or resent me for having the experiences.
the husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. 5Do not deprive each other, except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control.…
As you can see this person is taking the bible out of context and tempting you.
I've seen this states in a number of places, but without any explanation. Is there a site that gies into detail on this? I don't see anything in Lev, Roman's, or Corinthians that would seem to be talking about this. Maybe I'm missing it.
I'm also not seeing the Ruth thing... from what I can gather, the lesbian idea is all based on the word "cleave", which is in certain contexts used of sexual Union. But it's also just a generic word for cleave, keep, take, and overtake. The word is used 54 times in the OT, and only a few are clear sexual references, Ruth not being one of them.
That's not to say Ruth wasn't a little frisky... uncovering Boaz's feet is understood as sexual. And that's not to say hotwifing is out. It's not adultery, which is about theft. And if the wife still honors the husband, and it isn't a matter of jealousy (Numbers 6) then perhaps...
I just dont understand the argument being made from Lev, Roman's, and Corithians.