HOW HOTWIFING BOOSTS YOUR LIBIDO BY 1000%


HOTWIFING 101

FANTASIZING ABOUT SOMEONE OTHER THAN OUR SPOUSE... WE ALL DO IT!

In recent nationwide surveys about marriage, studies showed:


  • 92% of men, and 88% of women fantasized daily about sleeping with a stranger they encounter almost daily. 
  • 94% of women confessed to masturbating recently about someone other than their husbands.
  • 79% of husbands doing the same. 
  • 87% of men said they would be open to sharing their wife with another man, 
  • While 71% of wives said they would be open to exploring it. 
  • Reports even showed that 62% of couples had either: had a threesome, attended a swingers party, participated in swinging, or allowed their spouse a hall pass to have casual sex.

Essentially everyone fantasizes about screwing strangers, its normal!

I believe it’s safe to say that all married women have fantasized, at least once about having sex with another partner during their healthy, happy, and loving marriage. Her fantasy may be a secret affair, a celebrity, someone at the office, or perhaps just a sexy and willing figment of her imagination.

All women are a bit reluctant at first, but after the initial shock for the most part we become very excited at the idea of having multiple sex partners with our husbands or even boyfriends consent, participating and watching. Even in the case where there was some resistance, women eventually bring it up and even initiate this fantasy at times.

My husband once said that “I never would have dreamed that my beautiful, Christian church-going, subservient wife of more than 10 years would call my bluff and be excited about my hotwifing fantasy”. Yes, I am a church-going and PTA-attending, a doting soccer mom, educated, professional, worldly, and the sweet and innocent lady next door who no one would never suspect had a deep craving to experience new, different, and varied sexual experiences with other men of all ages.

Out of nowhere, he told me one day that he wanted to catch me in the act of having sex with another man. Literally. Although I had no desire to at the moment, but was always horny enough to fantasize about it, I agreed to be open minded and possibly even try it out since I had done enough religious studies to know with a certainty that God would not condemn me for it. The question then became where to find a willing male participant. After years of talking to trusted friends, we ended up on a discreet couples site and found many eager seekers.

Hotwife vs Adultery



Now I know what your thinking... how in the good lords name can you both as Christians be ok with other people having sex with your partners? wouldn't that destroy your relationship together as man and wife? Isn't that considered adultery, which is a sin in the bible?

In the bible we read so often about the sin of adultery which is typically interpreted that as a man or wife sleeping with another person outside of their marriage without permission, yet often we overlook the oft quoted verses in Leviticus, Romans, and Corinthians which explains it is permissible for both a man and wife to have carnal sexual relations outside of our marriages if both spouses are ok with it. It's no wonder so many Christians have flocked to engaging in this practice after years of sexual suppression from church leaders in our youth. HOTWIFING, SWINGING, AND THREESOMES IS NOT A SIN, the gospel and prophets make this perfectly clear. The early translations of the bible before twisted by the corrupt celibate priests of King James clearly teaches otherwise, we see examples of swinging, sex outside of marriage, sex before marriage, even lesbian and gay sex, and guess what, all of which was approved by God himself… Sad how Christianity has twisted something that was so normal and beautiful into something that we feel so shameful of now.

Adultery is less about sex than it is about deception if you give it some thought.  If a woman is having a sexual affair behind her husband’s back without his knowledge, that’s Adultery, and that is a sin.  A woman who is dating outside her marriage in order to fulfill her husband’s desire to share her, for the benefit of her marriage, who has not only her husband’s knowledge, but also his consent and encouragement, that is not Adultery, and therefore not a sin.

Where did Christianity come up with Sexual rules that aren't in the bible?


To understand why Christianity is the way they are when it comes to teaching and preaching about sexuality, we must first under where these teachings come from. Take a look at the image below, recognize anything? It’s a history of Christianity! First there was the church of Jesus Christ, as lead by him on earth, secondly there was his church in the wilderness lead by the apostles, this church after the apostles deaths transformed into the roman catholic church, as lead by a pope, under the control of the emperor of Rome. Sadly this church became more of a political manipulation tool than a church, doctrines and meanings were twisted dramatically, the celibate priests of what was then the catholic church turned all things sexual into a total sin, and although we now recognize these men blatantly twisted so many teachings, for some odd reason all Christianity still teaches these incorrect laws...

If the Catholic Sex rules are fake, Why follow them?


The answer is simple... WE DONT! Christians around the world have finally begun to accept that sexuality is a gift from god and not from the devil. Pastors we know even participate in threesomes, swapping, etc. Finally we are recognizing that sex between someone other than our spouse is permitted when consensual between the man and woman, that like the prophet Ruth it’s not a sin to have lesbian sex, that oral sex as described by the prophet Solomon is approved, that modesty as defined by Christian analists is pretend.

While there are still churches within Christianity such as Pentecostals, Born Agains, Mormons, and Jehovah's Witnesses that continue to preach these imaginary rules (Which again let me remind you have been admitted to be a lie and made up from the very catholic church themselves), the majority of the world has realized the complete and total B.S. our sexual lessons have been as youth in the past. Will you be punished for breaking these pretend rules? Ha, I hardly think so.

While sex outside of our marriage may be fine and swell, that’s not to say that adultery isn’t a real and serious thing. There are at least a dozen different definitions of the term Adultery, depending on where you look, or who is trying to scare you.


That begs the question, who is committing Adultery? Here are a few examples for you right out of my email in-basket. A married flight attendant who hooks up with men while she is on overnight travel without her husband’s knowledge or consent. A secretary who is banging her boss when her husband thinks she is working late. A woman spending the afternoon in a motel with her personal trainer. A woman getting her needs met by her son’s soccer coach. The list goes on and on, you get the picture, if its approved by both man and wife you’re good, if there’s no approval then well… you’re a cheating  bastard or whore...


A Cuckold is largely defined as a married man whose wife is fucking other men without his knowledge or sometimes consent. Ladies, you don’t want to be cuckolding your man, its cheating… But there’s a significant difference when it comes to Hotwifing, where husbands encourage, sometimes participate, and even watch their wives seduce and screw other men.

The Hotwife Fantasy Explained


A Hotwife is a married woman, whose marriage is open on her end and closed on her husband’s end in order to fulfill her and her husband’s desire to share her with other men. She dates outside her marriage specifically to share her body with other men, with the knowledge, consent, and encouragement of her husband in order to fulfill a VERY normal desire that most men and women have.

One common question I get from wives who are hesitant to dip their toes into the waters of hotwifing are “But Dr. Benson, you say you are giving advice to those who are considering the soccer mom Hotwife lifestyle, how should I feel about this fantasy and how do I make it a reality?”

“Our” idea was that if I was going to try and help other men and women get into the lifestyle we should share our story so that I would have some credibility. So besides my personal experience, how do I know what I know? What makes me an expert on this subject? Experience… Back on the subject of how I know what I know, I know that for a married man to fantasize about sharing his wife with other men is as normal as a teenager who masturbates!

So let’s start there. MOST men have that fantasy but not all men know how far they would want it to go in real life. I have great news for you! You as a husband are perfectly normal, in fact, your wife is damn lucky to rope a man who is as loving and cares for her pleasure as you do! And even better, you as a wife are perfectly normal for wanting to try it with him, the benefits of Hotwifing literally make a decent sexual marriage into an amazing one!


WHAT MATTERS MOST: INTIMACY

Hotwifing is about intimacy, it’s about fantasy, it’s about pleasure, personal growth, building trust, learning sexually and then applying those new found skills in your marriage. HOTWIFING BUILDS INTIMCAY BETWEEN A WIFE AND HER HUSBAND more than any other way I know, it’s a joint experience.


Hotwifing might be limited to simply allowing or encouraging the attention of other men toward your wife, or it might include physical contact. This contact might be kissing or touching, or it might be more. The notion of another man paying attention to your wife, or if taken further, becoming romantically physical with your wife, can be a difficult notion to swallow for some men. Other men have found the more open way of thinking to be liberating. It is allowing her the freedom to explore her sexuality with other men, to experience different techniques, styles of sex, passion, roughness, gentleness, and everything in between, it is about giving her maximum pleasure, which increases her sex drive and betters the marriage through her newly found confidence and sexual desire.


WHY DO 80% OF HUSBANDS GET TURNED ON BY THEIR WIVES FUCKING OTHER MEN?


It’s a real sexual phenomenon that has roots in man’s innermost sexual desires.

Over the years I’ve gotten a LOT of emails from men asking if they are “weird” to want to see their wife or girlfriend with another man. Many men fantasize about their wife being pleasured in this way and it’s more normal than you might think.


DOES MY HUSBAND GET JEALOUS WHEN I FUCK OTHER MEN? DOES HE EVEN LOVE ME?

What’s the deal here?
Why do some men find it erotic to enjoy having other men pleasure their wives sexually? No, they’re not gay, no, they do love you. Why are women allowing themselves to be touched, kissed, penetrated and worshipped by another man in the bedroom? Wouldn’t that make him jealous? Yes!


1.      Your own self-esteem will skyrocket. Again, this is a tough one to explain but is something every man I know whose wives go down the hotwifing path. For one thing, you become even more proud of your wife as she does start to bloom and your feelings of love and devotion for her increase. It's strange, but even though most hotwives husbands have their wives' permission to sleep with other women, few actually do. Why? Because for man much of the pleasure is in seeing his wife enjoying her own pleasure (and by this I don't just mean actually watching her with another man -- I mean just seeing her doing through life as a newly self-aware and liberated woman).


2.      Your relationship will improve. You'll experience more physical and emotional intimacy and you'll end up having better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when you do it. I know I speak for other husbands of hotwifes when I say there's nothing quite so fast to turn me on as when my own hotwife, Whitney, uses her lover's name while she's making love to me.
My husband says “The fact that my wife sleeps with other men puts me in constant competition with the world around meI always need to be smarter, funnier, more engaging, more attractive … because I can’t get complacent, I constantly strive to be a better partner for my wife, and I get the thrill of winning her over, time and time again”.


WHAT BENEFITS ARE THER FOR ME FROM FUCKING NEW GUYS?



1. It allows women to fulfill their wildest sexual fantasies
Many couples do have sexual fantasies of taking their relationship to a new kinky level. Hotwifing is one way of expressing yourself while at the same time having a good time.

2. It provides women with freedom.

The wife gets the freedom to enjoy the company of the opposite sex. Many married women would like to enjoy the company of men other than their husbands, but they don’t get that chance. When a man allows his woman to be in the company of other men, she can enjoy that fresh kind of intimacy.

3. It frees women from the jealousy of their men.

Jealousy is one of the major reasons many relationships fail and insecurity is a contributing factor in many disagreements and breakups. Hotwifing can help to rid the man of his feelings of jealousy, and when he gives his wife the freedom to be who she wants to be, she knows her husband has her best interests at heart, which helps her trust him more.

4. It increases trust and communication within relationships.

Relationships are built on trust and communication. If you want to a happy, lasting relationship, you must ensure that you understand each other and also give each other the chance and freedom to be yourselves.

Before a couple begins to dive into actual hotwifing, they both need to agree they each really want to do this. These kinds of open and honest conversations increase trust and communication between the couple and bring them closer together. 

Your relationship will improve. You'll experience more physical and emotional intimacy and you'll end up having better sex, having it more often and being more adventurous when you do it. I know I speak for other hotwives when I say there's nothing quite so fast to turn me on as when my husband reclaims me, and I get to add new techniques and ideas I learned from screwing other guys.


5. It makes women feel beautiful and desired.

As a man, you will feel that you actually have the hottest woman on earth, and it's every man's desire to have a woman who is another man's dream. Hotwifing gives men the perfect chance to appreciate how beautiful and desirable his woman is, which typically serves to increase both his love and respect for her.


Hotwifing not only encourages me to stay fit, avoid the PJ’s 24/7, and helps me to doll myself up more, but it makes me feel sexy, wanted, lusted after, and that motivates me to be the best and most beautiful me that I can be.

6. It boosts confidence.


Hotwifing gives women a chance to express themselves. When a woman knows that she has the support of her man to do whatever she desires, she feels great about herself, which helps to boost her own self-confidence. The wife will bloom. This is a hard one to explain and describe, but an easy one to spot. Women love to be found attractive; what's more they love to be the woman of a strong and confident man. And by being a hotwife, she's getting the best of both worlds -- her lovers build her self-esteem because they find her attractive (you 'have' to because you're her husband, right?); and obviously you must be a strong and confident man to let her go out and spread her wings, so to speak. You'll notice how she becomes more aware of herself, more sexually adventurous, and starts to take even more pride in her appearance.


7. It increases intimacy.

Hotwifing gives both the man and woman in a couple the perfect chance to gain important knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically deepen a couple's bond.

8. It provides a greater sense of sexual satisfaction for both husband and wife.

Hotwifing creates a perfect platform for attaining physical satisfaction. The woman is able to spend quality time with men who interest her, which quenches the thirst that in more traditional marriages might otherwise lead to affairs and betrayals.

WHY I LOVE BEING A HOTWIFE


It turns out that it is not that simple. Although I love sex, I also love new experiences with men. I love romance and passion. I love knowing when a man is sexually attracted to me and comes after me. I love it when men talk sugar smack to me in a bar because they want to separate me from my panties, although some men are disappointed momentarily when they discover I’m not wearing any.
Fortunately, that disappoint usually speeds up their erection and they forget all about that particular disappointment.

So that brings us to the heart of the issue about my sex drive. There can be no doubt in anyone’s mind that that becoming a Hotwife has increased my sex drive at least ten fold.
What is not so clear is why. Is it because I see sexual orgasm in a new light and I am chasing the perfect orgasm? Or is it because I like being chased by men that want to have sex with me?

Have I had the most incredible orgasm of my life that has taken me to both a physical and emotional strata that I will never experience again? Hotwife sex is more about the recreational aspect of sex. A Hotwife has two sex lives. She has her marital sex life and her personal sex life.

There is no guilt because I am doing what my husband wants me to do.

My attitude about sex is night and day different than it was before as a traditional wife. If I wake up in the morning and I get that little spark of urge, I start planning my day around that little spark. If it can wait until the evening, I go out hunting. I am a Cougar, so I know some places in Seattle to go to get my immediate need met. If I want a mature, cultured guy my own age, I go to an upscale downtown hotel lounge. If I want a young alpha male gym rat with muscles, I go to the gym or the bar where they go. If I want a bad boy, I go out clubbing.
I have a personal sex life now because he wants me to have it. I use those sexual experiences to share with Michael to fulfill his fantasy of wanting to share me with other men. Fulfilling his fantasy and sharing all of those experiences is enriching our marriage and making us even closer with even greater Intimacy.

Men hit on me all the time when I was out, particularly at the gym working out.
All these men wanted to have sex with me and there was one that didn’t. What’s wrong with this picture, I wondered. All these men wanted to sneak me out to try and separate me from my panties. I was sleeping with one that didn’t. Hello?
Now a marriage is a partnership and if he is bringing in the money, I need to bring in the sex. So I went to my computer and Googled “Female led relationship sex”. The more I explored the more my mind raced with ideas and plans. My spark was coming back and I was wet again between the legs. A female led relationship is one where, the woman helps a man understand his desire, to help him be more intimate, passionate, trustworthy, faithful, and above all, loving. In reading the Female Led Relationship (FLR) sites I discovered that my husband was a “sexual submissive” for sure.

The best advice that I found was to test the waters with your husband to see what really turned him on. It went something like this. Get your husband naked. Now tell him dirty stories or ask him point blank questions and then watch his penis. If he gets hard, or gets harder, than regardless of what comes out of his mouth he is into it. Men have built in lie detectors. You think you know what your mate of 10 years likes and wants in the bedroom, and then you find out that you have no clue on what makes him happy. My husband for sure was a sexual submissive. He responded to stories of me playing with younger men, oral sex with me after he has come in me, masturbating for me, dressing up for me, just about anything that I want I can have, he was right out of the FLR handbook. He loved me and wants me to have a “slutty” exciting sex life.
I’m looking to reconnect with my husband and take control of our sex life, improve or marriage. So I had to approach each site with the attitude that I’m only looking for a few ideas that work in my life that will work in the real world, our world. We have jobs, grown kids, pets, bills to pay we have everyday life to live. I want us to stay as a team, by happy and explore life with each other.
Each step I took created a spark in our marriage and improved or sex life. The more time I put in, the better things became. We were like 20 year old kids again except this time I knew what a sexual submissive was, I was getting to be my old slutty self again.

RELIGIOUS, SOCIETAL, & FAMILY SHAMING


One of my biggest fears as both a teenager, young wife, and most recently as a prospective hotwife was that either my pastor, my fellow congregation member, my friends, or even my family would find out I enjoyed embracing my sexuality and judge me “slut shaming me” into mocking, ridiculing, and accusing me of being foolish. Such is society these days, but guess what? If they find out who the heck cares? I’m proud of who I am, it makes me happy, it makes my man happy, it betters my marriage, and instead of the shame, I embrace it with pride!
You don’t have to be a full fledge slut of a hotwife, wearing short skirts, lowcut tops, fuck me boots, and throwing yourself at every hot guy you encounter, you can be the regular soccer mom who wears the yoga pants or jeans, and finds a hot guy online, or bumps into a young stud at a nearby campus, there’s different levels of hotwifing, do what works for you!

HOTWIFIING 101


HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR THIRD WHEEL


1.      Set rules in place about what she’s ok with doing and not doing, where is she allowed to have sex, with who, when, how, condoms or no condoms, where can he cum, how late can she stay out, how often does she have to check in on her dates? And so on, all will set up a safe and healthy experience. Other than these rules,  she can seize whatever appealing opportunity arises without documenting it or directly involving him.

2.      Choose a person that you are all attracted to

Threesomes or single guys will only work after you choose someone that you will all be attracted to. Before you decide to invite anyone to your bed, try to carry out prior research and know whether you are choosing the right person. You should take the opinions of each of you into consideration before you decide to call the person.

2.      Check on your mental attraction

For anybody that you invite into your bedroom to easily fit in your threesome party, you should have mental attraction towards the person. You should take time and talk to the person before inviting him or her to your bedroom. In case you have the same field of thought, then that is the right party for you to invite.


3.      Mature emotion intelligence

The person should be ready to express his or her feelings and be ready to excuse themselves whenever need arises. The person should be ready to express his or her feelings in such a way he will not make one of you uncomfortable. There should be always constructive discussion during the encounter. A close friend often makes a good choice for a third.

4.      The person should respect your relationship

Even if you are inviting the person for you to form a hotwifing or threesome, you still have a relationship with your partner and he or she should be ready to respect it at all times.
5.      The person should practice safer sex

For the relationship to work well, the person that you will invite should be ready to practice safer sex. There are different risks in sex, failure to practice safer sex might have you regretting the encounter with the person. First take your time and assess whether the person is responsible during sex.
6.      Sexual intelligence in the person

The person should have sex intelligence where he or she is ready to talk about different types of sex and practice them. This will easily lead you to enjoy your group sex. The main reason of starting a threesome is to try and explore new adventures in sex, the person that you should invite should be well informed about different sexual encounters that will make your threesome enjoyable.

7.      The person should understand what you want

There are some goals you will like to achieve in your sexual revolution. You may like to have a situation where the person that you will invite will help one of you who has low sex drive to satisfy the other. The person should know that and be ready to play the part. You can easily make the person know about your goals by talking to the person prior to starting your sexual encounter.



What’s The Big Deal About Big Cocks?


My husband has a fairly big penis, I’ve always remembered thinking to myself that I don’t get all clamor over how hotwives love big cocks? I mean my husbands penis is big, it always filled me up basically completely, I can feel it hit the back of y vagina, and it rubs me pretty damn well. I don’t want or need a bigger cock I told myself, and then all in a few minutes I knew why big cocks are more craved than Justin Bieber surrounded by teenage girls…

OMFG… ladies, take it from someone who now knows… YOU WANT A BIG COCK!


This total stranger slowly slid in his thicker cock, which felt like rainbows and made me melt, stretching me out in a good way, rubbing perfectly against my g-spot, this alone was reason enough to try a bigger dick. And then it happened, I realized his cock was hitting the back of my pussy, and he still had an inch and a half of cock that had yet to go inside me, I thought “no way will this thing fit in me without destroying my insides”, but magically the entire cock eventually disappeared as I came like a rocket over and over! It was a tad painful for 30-45 seconds as he stretched me deeper, but after that ladies, OMFG I must have cum like 5 times in 8 minutes! Your orgasms go from “oooh oooh, ahhh, ahhh”, to “ “Yes!, Yes!, Oh my G*d Fuck me! I’m your slut!, I’m your whore!”, as my entire body was shaking and screaming in pleasure. LADIES YOU MAY THINK YOU CAN’T TAKE A BIG COCK, BUT YOU CAN, AND YOU WANT TO!

BIG BLACK COCKS EXPLAINED



For decades the old saying is once you go black you'll never go back. While this statement may be a bit silly, it absolutely has some truth to it, black men are generally well hung or thick, sometimes both. Believe me when I say, you need to try a BBC at least once in your life.


LOOKING TO BECOME A HOTWIFE FOR YOURSELF OR YOUR MAN? HERE’S SOME IDEAS

If you’re thinking about dipping your toes into the world of hotwifing here’s some tips on making your adventure a successful one. REQUIREMENTS FOR HOTWIFING:

1: A husband who exudes confidence and is not easily jealous of his wife being pleasured by other men.

2: A desire by both husband and wife to pursue pleasure outside of the relationshiop.

3: Communication about what is and isn’t acceptable within her dating outside the marriage.

4: Rules about when, where, how, and who she’s fucking, and where they area allowed to cum.

5: Knowledge of where to find new guys for her to fuck with (public places, apps, internet, friends, neighbors etc.).

6: The wardrobe, whether it be a pair of tight jeans, yoga pants, revealing dress, or the ultimate lingerie wardrobe, she’s got to be able to flaunt all the right places to seduce her young studs.

7: An open mind, willingness to try new things, places, positions, people, and scenarios.

8: Confidence, confidence enough in yourself to know you are lusted after, that guys do want in your pants, that God isn’t go to strike you down or judge you for following twisted incorrect Christian principles.

ALONG WITH THE REQUIREMENTS TO BECOME A HOTWIFE, HERE ARE SOME PERSONAL IDEAS THAT I FEEL HELP ENHANCE YOUR SKILLS AND ENJOYMENT IN YOUR NEW THRILLS.


HOW YOU LOOK:

Nail polish color

Eye makeup

Hairstyle

Jewelry

Dress or Skirt

Blouse, Tank tops, Etc.

Shoes & Heels

Scents & perfumes

Lip gloss color

Weight loss (only if you actually know for sure)

Bikini’s or Lingerie

Tone your body through weights

Kegels to tone our pussy and make it tight & easier for you to orgasm

Shaving your legs & pussy (or designing your pussy)


HOW TO HELP YOUR HUSBAND (AND YOURSELF) ENJOY THE EXPERIENCE


Sext other men (& share those sexts with your hubby)

 

Stoke him up about your upcoming dates


 



Look online or on Apps together to find the right guy for her




Go out in public, be her wingman and help her find a guy to fuck

 

Watch her secretively in public as she flirts with and seduces total strangers


Watch her as she fucks the new guy
Do seductive things to draws guys attention

 

Watch her in the closet (without him knowing) as she fucks the new guy


Communicate throughout your solo date and how your getting turned on/turning him on


Participate in a threesome with your wife




Have him take pictures of you both, (or if he’s not there take sexy selfies or videos to get him off)

 

Spill and tell all the elicit details about your date, how you seduced him (or he you), how he fucked you (or you him), how he came, how you came, don’t leave out any details, this is your mans favorite part he’s living vicariously through you.

 

Be a total tease! Slut it up, share the details, talk dirty, use pillow talk as a recap time (be prepared for him to pounce on you and reclaim you, which is the best sex ever!).

sometimes I'll let him pick out what I wear, or at least a few of the items I even tease him on the way out the door. I will ask him if he is horny and excited that his pretty wife is about to open her legs to another guy.. lol .. He usually loves to kiss my pussy and check to see if everything is nice and clean down there, I tell him that that same pussy will probably be worn out by the time I get back, and that pussy will need his assistance when I get back... I tease him saying: maybe we'll use a condom, maybe not. Sloppy seconds tonight? You'll have to wait and see......

Hotwife Pillow Talk



This is your mans favorite aspect of hotwifing, he needs to hear the details of how naughty you were, and what things you did/ he did to you. Give him a long, slow, torturous BJ or handjob as you spill just how slutty you were with this total stranger and how good he fucked your brains out. RECLAMATION SEX IS AMAZINNNNNNG!


Again, there’s not just one kind of hotwife, there’s hotwifes who enjoy threesomes, hotwifes who go out in public searching for new cock, there’s hotwifes who search online for new hung guys, there’s hotwifes who play only with their husbands in the room while screwing a new guy, and there’s hotwifes who prefer to go on solo dates, there’s hotwifes who dress up provocatively, and there’s hotwifes who simply just dress up as a sexy mom. Find what works for you, be willing to explore new ideas and situations, your marriage will blossom and grow from it. I know plenty of hotwives who simply go to Applebee's, Chili's, or Buffalo wild wings & simply sit alone at the bar with their wedding ring on, and guess what, they don't dress overly slutty, but when they're alone the guys flock to her because they assume she's looking to cheat since she's alone and at times wears an ankle bracelet, AKA she's an easy MILF. Be whatever kind of hotwife you want to be.

IF YOU'RE LOOKING TO REALLY SPICE UP THE MARRIAGE HERE ARE SOME FUN HOTWIFE DARES WE LOVE TO DO!


Comments

Leslie said…
Ok, so as a Christian female I've been taught my whole life sex before our outside of marriage is just flat out wrong, naturally leading me to feel shameful and unsure about my own sexuality. Forgive me for being overly lazy and unwilling to read months worth of ancient texts where the bible came from, but are the things in this article true? MEANING is sex outside of marriage with a spouses consent legitimately ok in Gods eyes? I'd never heard any of the whole Sodom & Gomorrah perspectives or how both swinging and consensual sex outside of marriage happened. I know Ruth was legit a Lesbian and God ok'd it, but is everything else here for real?

I ask because my man has apparently read the texts too and says the same thing, at first the whole hot wife idea was a shock and gross concept to me, but now I have to admit that I really want to try it if its actually ok with God, I've actually even used a dildo fantasizing about other guys lately. I don't know how to overcome the religious shame though, like I know Christianity sex rules are more or less bogus and mostly made up, but its hard to just flat out start believing something totally different. Can anybody confirm or dispute the biblical teachings? Pretty please?
Kelly N. said…
The "Pre-Biblical" scriptures, scrolls, and texts do not lie, they are consistent across the board, they in now way are similar to todays anti sex and slut shaming mentality. So yes, to answer your question, the pre bible writings are 100% accurate that sex before, after, or even outside of marriages is absolutely ok in Gods viewpoint. He even states it in a few of the scriptures.
Anonymous said…
Yes mam, the ancient teachings are spot on and accurate, that's why my family has chosen to be non denominational due to the twisted incorrect teachings, teachings that not only shame sex and harm marriages, but harms us in other incorrect teachings...
Leslie said…
Well that's a relief, for the longest time I've had the biggest guilt about being ok with the thought of other men being in between my legs. Thanks for the comfort and knowledge, it may help me actually give it a try knowing its not a sin :)

I'm curious, do any other guys get turned on by their lady being mischievous in the sheets with a total stranger? what's the big turn on for you? what do you get out of it? Just curious, I'm all for doing it, I just don't want my SH to feel left out or resent me for having the experiences.
Anonymous said…
It's ridiculous for her to quote the Bible and some how interpreting this sex as not wrong. Even if we look at another woman lustfully, that's considered a sin. And no where does it say its okay. in 1 Corinthians, it says:

the husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife. 5Do not deprive each other, except by mutual consent and for a time, so you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again, so that Satan will not tempt you through your lack of self-control.…

As you can see this person is taking the bible out of context and tempting you.
Anonymous said…
"we overlook the oft quoted verses in Leviticus, Romans, and Corinthians which explains it is permissible for both a man and wife to have carnal sexual relations outside of our marriages if both spouses are ok with it."
I've seen this states in a number of places, but without any explanation. Is there a site that gies into detail on this? I don't see anything in Lev, Roman's, or Corinthians that would seem to be talking about this. Maybe I'm missing it.
I'm also not seeing the Ruth thing... from what I can gather, the lesbian idea is all based on the word "cleave", which is in certain contexts used of sexual Union. But it's also just a generic word for cleave, keep, take, and overtake. The word is used 54 times in the OT, and only a few are clear sexual references, Ruth not being one of them.
That's not to say Ruth wasn't a little frisky... uncovering Boaz's feet is understood as sexual. And that's not to say hotwifing is out. It's not adultery, which is about theft. And if the wife still honors the husband, and it isn't a matter of jealousy (Numbers 6) then perhaps...
I just dont understand the argument being made from Lev, Roman's, and Corithians.

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