SEXUAL MYTHS THAT HARM OUR DESIRE
When it comes to sex theres so many silly myths, many of which are nothing more than old wives tales. Too many women in todays day buy into these myths and by so doing ruin their sex lives with their partners. Women aren't the only ones guilty however, things they do in bed can make or break the desire his woman has for him. Lets take a minute to set the record straight.
FITNESS HAS NO IMPACT ON SEX & SEX DRIVE
Again, wrong! Our health is vital to good blood flow to the pelvic area which leads to arousal, obesity not only harms our blood flow, but makes us self-conscious. Strong muscles also allow for less pain and better orgasms.
MARRITAL SEX GETS BORING
Total myth as long as you’re not a boring prude sexually. Marital sex is actually even more fun if your open and willing to try new things and meet each other’s needs, for us it gets better and better every time as we master techniques, and try new things.
WOMEN ARE LESS INTERESTED IN SEX THAN MEN
A new study shows that women are more interested in sex than their male partners! Women who maintain a healthy body weight and regularly masturbate actually have nearly double the sex drive of their husband! Who knew right??!! Fitness and self-arousal are crucial for a health sex drive.
SIZE MATTERS
I hate to be brutally honest on this one, but yes gentlemen,
size does matter… nothings worse than dropping your pants and discovering your
penis is the size of a Cheeto… Women want a man who can hit all the deep places
that make us gush and squirm.
MEN WANT TIGHT VAGINAS
100% true, a tight vagina is the #1 factor to getting your man to orgasm. Women who exercise regularly and perform Kegels daily not only have stronger vaginal walls to please their man, but are able to orgasm harder, and experience less pain! Just as women crave big cocks, men crave a tight pussy, get to work ladies.
NOT ALL VAGINAS CAN FIT BIG COCKS?
I can tell you from experience this one is a myth, women who are aroused and have enough foreplay can fit just about any sized penis inside them, if you’re not able to fit it without pain it usually means you’re not having sex enough and your vaginal wall is weak.
ONLY SLUTS HAVE SEX OUTSIDE OF THE HOME
Society loves to judge, one of the hardest things for Christian
wives to overcome is the feeling that they need to be proper in public. B.S…
Public sex and flirtation is one of the single hottest and funnest thing we can
do as couples. Making out in restrooms, giving oral in the car, screwing in the
back seat, sex in the backyard, sex outside the home makes or breaks a healthy
sexual marriage.
LOUD SEX MEANS YOUR FAKING IT
Loud sex is incredible, the vibrations not only make women
orgasm harder, but hot damn the sound is undeniably sexy! If you’re alone in a
quiet location let loose and moan! Guys let your grunts out, ladies give your
biggest porn star moan.
MARRIED SEX IS BEST AT NIGHT
Wrong, Morning sex is ten times more likely to end with both
partners feeling satisfied, I know from experience night sex is dull, lacks
energy, and makes it hard for the guy to keep it up due to fatigue. Morning
wood is a real thing ladies.
ALL WOMEN ARE LESBIANS
The old myth is “All women have lesbian fantasies”, I was
surprised myself to find that surveys show 91% of all married women admit they
are attracted to lesbian erotica! 91%!!!!! As a married woman I can completely
confirm this, its normal, women love the imagery of women kissing, its slow,
sensual, it’s sexual to say the least. Most women are too ashamed to admit it
to their man, but guess what? He finds it a turn on too! Chances are he’s
fantasized about you with another woman before… Ask him. Added to the fact that
lesbian sex is ok’d in the good ole bible, ladies feel free to experiment ;)
PUSSY LICKING AND BLOWJOBS ARE OPTIONAL
If you have to ask on this one you shouldn’t be in a long
term relationship… YES! Pussy licking and blowjobs each and every sexual
encounter is an absolute must. Its foreplay, its lubrication, its selflessness,
its sex for someone who is denied of it just sucks…
SQUIRTING IS PEE
Myth! Myth! Myth! Squirt is not pee, it’s more like pre cum! Squirt away ladies.
ROUGH SEX IS BAD
This one’s a tough one, we all know too much rough sex is
bad for her, the catch is also too little of it will begin to make sex stale
for both him and her. Rule of thumb: keep it balanced.
FOREPLAY IS OPTIONAL
NO NO NO, GUYS GET YOUR CRAP TOGETHER! FOREPLAY IS 1000%
necessary each and every time, foreplay is the difference to giving her an
orgasm, and making her addicted to sex.
ANAL SEX IS PAINFUL AND GROSS
One of the biggest misconceptions of anal sex is: A- it’s
painful, and B-Only sluts have anal sex. Anal sex is amazing, and when I say
amazing I MEAN AMAZING! It hits every right spot possible, the g-spot orgasms
are extreme, and only those who do it wrong ever feel any pain at all. Normal
people do anal, it’s not a just a porn thing ladies.
DILDOS ARE FOR SINGLE WOMEN
Refer to our sex toys and masturbation posts ladies! Married
women who use a dildo 2+ times per week are 80% more likely to crave sex. It’s
a fact. Dildos not only help women build up muscle to reduce pain, but assist in masturbation, foreplay with ourselves, it gets our minds wandering, they help us discover what angles feel good, and which to avoid. If you're not orgasming vaginally its your own fault...
DIRTY TALKING IS BAD IF YOU’RE A CHRISTIAN
Please read our post on dirty talk, plain and simple. Dirty talk is not only necessary in LTR’s, it’s required. Learn it, Love it, and practice it.
MASTURBATION LEADS TO SEXLESS MARRIAGES
The fact of the matter is this is a blatant lie set up by ignorant Christian ministers. Masturbation not only triples sexual drive, but enables it to be more pleasurable. Brent and I have both admitted to masturbating while thinking of each other, its the ultimate form of foreplay for most women, paired with sexting pictures and she's guaranteed to get hot and heavy.
PORN IS BAD FOR MARRIAGE
We've all heard the studies, PORN IS BAD WHEN ABUSED EXCESICLY BY INDIVIDUALS! But what often gets ignored is the studies performed on couples who use it together, and wives who are encouraged by their husbands to use it. Studies have shown porn actually is highly beneficial for women and couples! We've toyed with it before and it definitely helps. We each found an actor and actress who looked like our spouse and we watched them so we could pretend it was our spouse in the movie, hot dang it makes us hot and horny.
CONFIDENCE SELLS: FAKE IT TIL YOU MAKE IT
Think about this one, any good salesman can sell any item no matter how bad it is. Confidence sells. Fake it until you make it.
GUYS LIKE FACIALS BECAUSE OF PORN
Unlike swallowing this one has no reasoning behind it, guys just like facials, and yes it’s from porn. Seeing a woman embrace him fully is a turn on to him. Personally I enjoy it, and there’s nothing to fear.
MEN WANT SLUTS AND WHORES IN BED
Think back to when you were dating, you were flirty,
seductive, and overly aggressive to get in his pants, you didn’t hesitate to show
off the cleavage in public. Why would he suddenly want that to go away? Men
love slutty and whorish wives who are loud, take charge, give head, love cum,
and dress the part. A woman who forgets how to do this will quickly lose her
mans interest. Don’t believe me? Ask him…
SEXTING IS BAD FOR COUPLES
Wrong! Sexting is highly beneficial, not only sext messages, but pictures. Its foreplay to its finest. The research and studies are in, and sexting is dirty talk at its finest. Try it!
MEN WANT TO CUM IN OUR VAGINAS
I think one of the biggest myths is “all men want to cum
inside our va-j-j’s. A recent nationwide survey actually showed this isn’t entirely
accurate! Studies show men do prefer to cum in our pussies, but when its not
inside they are very specific as to where they want it. #2 Cum in our mouths
because of the warmth and tongue action to milk it dry, #3 facials, #4 Breasts,
#5 Ass, #6 Belly. Go ahead ask him! What does this mean? If your not going to
allow him to cum inside be ready to instruct him to his next favorite place.
SWALLOIWING CUM IS A “PORN THING”
If you haven’t read our blog on cum, stop what you’re doing and do so now, swallowing cum IS NOT A PORN THING. It may be the single greatest thing you can do to become addicted to your man… Go do your homework. Swallowing reduces aging in skin, works as medicine when you’re sick, helps reduce cramping when on our periods, and most importantly chemically addicts us to the man we love.
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