ARE WE NORMAL? HOW NORMAL CHRISTIAN COUPLES HAVE SEX

After an outpouring of responses in our Facebook and Twitter
surveys we thought it prudent to share.
How do normal couples who believe in God and Christ have
sex? So many of us often wonder how we compare with most other couples out
there in terms of our sex life and how normal we are, here’s the comparison
based on 189,482 couples who took our surveys, 99,631 Women and 89,851 Men
participated.
RELIGION
- What Christian denomination do you worship with?
- Born Again 31,522
- Christian-non denomination 41,369
- Catholic 20,733
- Baptist 3,642
- Evangelical 11,818
- Mormon 38,967
- Jehovahs Witness 8,642
- Other 32,789
- Should religion have any say or impact in your sex life?
- NO 176,486
- YES 12,996
- Does your religion influence your sexuality or sex life?
- NO 19,600
- YES 169,882
- What does your religion prohibit sexually?
- Born Again Sex before marriage, infidelity
- Christian-non Denominational Sex before marriage, infidelity, modesty
- Catholic Sex before marriage
- Baptist Infidelity
- Evangelical Infidelity
- Mormon Sex before marriage, infidelity, immodesty
- Jehovahs Witness Sex before marriage, immodesty
- Other Sex before marriage, infidelity
- Modesty teachings harm (when applied) harm your marriage by reducing sexual drive?
- Christian non-denominational 39,655 out of 41,369
- Mormon 38,724 out of 38,967
- Jehovas Witness 8,391 out of 8,642
HEALTH
- Do you exercise together weekly to increase desire and sexual enjoyment?
- NO
- YES 153,253/
- Does (or has weight ever) Obesity or being overweight decrease your sex drive?
- NO
- YES 184,226/
- Do men do kegels? 53,779/
- Do women do kegels? 71,234/
SEX ON THE BRAIN
- How many times a day do husbands think about sex? 5.89
- How many times a day do wives think about sex? 6.13
- Top things that reduce sex drive for men
- Weight 57%
- Stress 9.5%
- Lack of knowledge sexually 8.5%
- Lack of sexual attraction due her to weight or anger 6%
- Lack of free time 19%
- Top things that reduce sex drive for women
- Weight 72%
- Stress 18.5%
- Lack of knowledge sexually 2%
- Lack of sexual attraction due her to weight or anger 1.5%
- Lack of free time 6%
- Best sex way to increase sex drive
- Healthy weight and appearance 67.9%
- Date night 13.7%
- Reduce Stress 4.1%
- Wine or Alcohol 14.3%
ORAL SEX
- How often does your husband go down on you?
- Never 1.5%
- Once or twice a year 4.5%
- Once a month 23.5%
- Once a week 41.5%
- 2-3 times per week 29%
- What is your favorite part of going down on her?
- Making her happy 26.5%
- The noises she makes 31.5%
- Seeing her squirm around 33.5%
- The way it makes her happier and less stressed 10.5%
- What is your favorite part of him going down on you? (choose as many as you wish)
- The orgasm 99.4%
- Feeling connected and loved 91.3%
- Feeling less stressed after 84.6%
- Seeing him stare at me 86.3%
- His technique and skill 77.2%
- Seeing his face covered in my juices and cum 98.6%
- Watching his tongue flick, lick, and tease my clit 99.3%
- How often would you go down on her if she let you?
- Once a month 1%
- Once a week 1.3%
- 2-3x per week 10.1%
- Every day 87.6%
- What makes pussy eating good for you? (choose as many as you want)
- The orgasm 99.4%
- The dirty talk 43.8%
- Tongue flicking 87.6%
- Long strong tongue strokes 97.3%
- Eye contact 81.3%
- Skill and technique 99.6%
- Breast play 84.1%
- Holding hands 26.9%
- Hot warm breathing 39.1%
- Teasing 87.2%
- Giving him a facial 95.3%
- Squirting 29.6%
- Face sitting 48.1%
- How often does your wife go down on you?
- Never 4.5%
- Once or twice a year 2.5%
- Once a month 3%
- Once a week 67.5%
- 2-3 times per week 32.5%
- What is your favorite part of going down on him?
- Making him happy 27.5%
- The noises he makes 32.5%
- Seeing him squirm around 27.5%
- The way it makes him happier and less stressed 12.5%
- How often would you go down on him if he let you?
- Once a month 4.5%
- Once a week 12.3%
- 2-3x per week 64.6%
- Every day 18.6%
- What is your favorite part of her going down on you? (choose as many as you wish)
- The orgasm 65.3%
- Feeling connected and loved 99.8%
- Feeling less stressed after 84.6%
- Seeing her stare at me 98.1%
- Her technique and skill 13.4%
- Seeing her face covered in my cum 98.6%
- Watching her tongue flick, lick, and tease my cock 99.3%
- What makes a good blow job?
- The orgasm 84.3%
- The dirty talk 99.4%
- Tongue flicking 87.6%
- Long strong tongue strokes 98.6%
- Eye contact 99.9%
- Skill and technique 21.3%
- Chest play 41.1%
- Holding hands 16.7%
- Hot warm breathing 44.6%
- Teasing 91.3%
- Giving her a facial 97.1%
- Swallowing 95.4%
- Face F*cking 24.1%
- Begging me for cum 79.3%
- Deep-throating me 81.2%
- Playing with my cum afterwards 87.3%
SAME GENDER ATTRACTION
- Do you believe same sex attraction is wrong? (Remember the prophet Ruth was a lesbian and approved by God).
- Yes its wrong 2.6%
- No its not wrong 97.4%
- Do you (the Christian woman) have any lesbian fantasies?
- No I don’t 2.3%
- A tiny bit 1.7%
- Yes, but I’d never tell anyone 8.6%
- Absolutely 97.4%
- Would you be willing to have female on female sex is your husband let you?
- No 2.6%
- YES 97.4%
- Would you be turned on by your wife having sex with another girl?
- No 1.3%
- Yes 98.7%
- Why does F/F sex appeal to you? (choose many)
- Soft and gentle 94.6%
- Women are more beautiful and erotic than men 98.3%
- I love boobs 99.8%
- It’s new and different 83.2%
- Its more sensual 94.5%
- Its educational seeing how women know how to please 99.4%
ROUGH SEX
- Do men enjoy rough sex?
- No 11.3%
- Yes 88.7%
- Do men enjoy being scratched?
- No 3.2%
- Yes 96.8%
- Do women enjoy having hair pulled
- No 18.3%
- Yes 81.7%
- Do women enjoy being spanked?
- No 8.6%
- Yes 91.4%
- Do women enjoy being choked gently?
- No 13.6%
- Yes 86.4%
FOREPLAY
What is your favorite
foreplay idea he uses on you? (rate all)
- Oral sex 98.3%
- Kissing 99.4%
- Kissing thighs 68.3%
- Kissing ankles 41.9%
- Kissing arms 74.6%
- Kissing breasts 99.9%
- Kissing neck 97.5%
- Biting ear 99.7%
- Biting neck 94.2%
- Squeezing breasts 100%
- Teasing 99.6%
- Spanking, hair pulling, gentle choking 94.6%
- Grinding 84.6%
- Dirty talk 98.9%
- Aggression and dominance 97.4%
- Moaning, whimpering, gasping 96.3%
- Stripping 81.2%
- Lap dance 32.6%
- Food play 29.6%
- Talking about sex 41.6%
- Drinking wine 97.3%
- Watching porn together 94.6%
What is your favorite
foreplay technique she uses on you? (rate all)
- Oral sex 99.1%
- Kissing 99.2%
- Kissing thighs 27.3%
- Kissing ankles 7.8%
- Kissing arms 78.1%
- Kissing breasts 92.3%
- Kissing neck 99.6%
- Biting ear 99.4%
- Biting neck 98.6%
- Squeezing breasts 45.6%
- Teasing 99.8%
- Spanking, hair pulling, gentle choking 92.8%
- Grinding 89.6%
- Dirty talk 99.9%
- Aggression and dominance 99.1%
- Moaning, whimpering, gasping 99.7%
- Stripping 89.6%
- Lap dance 83.2%
- Food play 8.9%
- Talking about sex 16.5%
- Drinking wine 94.3%
- Watching porn together 95.7%
ANAL SEX
Are you the Wife
interested in trying Anal Sex?
- No 14.5%
- Not sure 15.9%
- Maybe 31.8%
- Yes we do it 37.8%
Does anal sex feel
good? (When done properly)
- No 4.9%
- Yes 95.1%
Do you the husband
want to try anal sex?
- No 7%
- Not sure 11 %
- Maybe 38.5%
- Yes we do it 43.5%
Does it feel good?
- No 0.3%
- Yes 99.7%
BONDAGE
Do you enjoy being
blindfolded?
- No 8.2%
- Yes 91.8%
Do you enjoy being
tied up?
- No 7.3%
- Yes 92.7%
Do you enjoy warm
candle wax on your chest or thighs?
- No 13.8%
- Yes 86.2%
SEX TOYS & MASTURBATION
Do you own a dildo?
- No 1.4%
- Yes 98.6%
Do you own a
vibrator?
- No 0.9%
- Yes 99.1%
How many times per
week do you (Housewife) masturbate?
- Once or twice a year 1.3%
- Once per month 4.9%
- Once per week 11.7%
- 2-3 times per week 64.9%
- Daily 17.2%
Does masturbating
increase your sex drive?
- No 3.9%
- Moderately 7.8%
- Yes 88.2%
JOINT PORN WATCHING
Do you watch porn as
a couple?
- No 9.8%
- Yes 90.2%
How Often (If Yes)
- Rarely 4.6%
- Monthly 21.9%
- Weekly 64.8%
- 2-3 times per week 8.7%
Does it increase your
sex drive together?
- No 0.7%
- Yes 99.3%
What is your favorite
category you watch together? (Choose all that apply)
- Romantic 93.7%
- Big penis 74.6%
- Big breasts 43.8%
- Rough sex 66.1%
- Role-play scenarios 97.0%
- Threesomes 94.9%
- Swinging and swapping 92.4%
- Hotwifing 94.1%
- Lesbian 98.4%
- Oral sex 81.4%
+1 or +2
Do you (Wife) get
turned on by the thought of a MFM threesome?
- No 98.3%
- Yes 1.7%
Do you (Man) get
turned on by the thought of a MFM threesome?
- No 99.8%
- Yes 0.2%
Do you (Wife) get
turned on by the thought of a FFM threesome?
- No 4.8%
- Yes 95.2%
Do you (Man) get
turned on by the thought of a FFM threesome?
- No 0.2%
- Yes 99.8%
Do you (Wife) get
turned on by the thought of Hotwifing?
- No 89.7%
- Yes 10.3%
Do you (Man) get turned
on by the thought of Hotwifing?
- No 1.9%%
- Yes 98.1%
Do you (Wife) get
turned on by the thought of swapping?
- No 5.0%
- Yes 95.0%
Do you (Man) get
turned on by the thought of swapping?
- No 3.3%
- Yes 96.7%
SEXTING
How often do you
flirt/chat via sexting?
- Never 0.9%
- Once per month 13.7%
- Once a week 43.3%
- Few times a week 42.1%
Do you send each
other nudes?
- No 86.0%
- Yes 14.0%
Have you ever made
your husband a boudoir collection?
- No 78.3%
- Yes 21.7%
Have you ever made
your wife a boudoir collection?
- No 22.6%
- Yes 87.3%
PENIS SIZE & VAGINAL TIGHTNESS
Does penis size
matter?
- No 12.7%
- Yes 87.3%
- If yes, do you prefer it bigger because it feels better? 94.4%
Does vaginal
tightness matter?
- No 14.5%
- Yes 85.5%
- If yes, do you prefer it tighter because it feels better? 99.6%
AGGRESSIVENESS
Do you like it when
he’s aggressive or dominant?
- No 2.3%
- Yes 97.7%
What type of dominant
acts do you (wife) enjoy? (many)
- Strong grip 61.2%
- Pushed up against wall 91.7%
- Being bent over 74.2%
- Manhandled 97.6%
- Called dirty names 92.8%
- Being spanked, gently chocked, hair pulled 87.2%
- Pinning hands above head 86.3%
- Pinned to bed 91.0%
- Grabbing by behind while kissing 94.3%
- Being groped 85.1%
- Ripping clothing off 92.3%
Do you like it when
she’s aggressive or dominant?
- No 98.1%
- Yes 1.9%
What type of dominant
acts do you (husband) enjoy? (many)
- Strong grip 31.2%
- Pushed up against wall 65.8%
- Manhandled 94.7%
- Called dirty names 68.1%
- Being spanked, gently chocked, hair pulled, scratched 81.3%
- Pinning hands above head 82.0%
- Pinned to bed 97.1%
- Grabbing by behind while kissing 97.3%
- Being groped 78.1%
- Ripping clothing off 91.2%
- Diving for/ Devouring penis 99.3%
- Dirty talk-demanding/confidence 99.6%
CUM
How do you (wife)
prefer to orgasm? (Choose all)
- Vibrator 94.7%
- Dildo 93.6%
- On his cock 99.7%
- One his tongue/ face 99.8%
- Fingering 87.6%
Do you enjoy/want to
cum on his face?
- No 6.3%
- Yes 96.7%
Do you swallow?
- No 1.6%
- No, but I want to be brave enough to 12.7%
- Yes 85.7%
How do you (husband) prefer to orgasm? (Choose all)
- In condom 1.2%
- In pussy 64.3%
- On stomach 3.8%
- On breasts 87.3%
- On ass 34.5%
- On face 93.7%
- In mouth 92.8%
- Swallow 91.9%
- Anal 14.0%
- Tit-job 46.3%
- Handjob 17.8%
- Blowjob 87.9%
Do you enjoy/want to
cum on her face?
- No 6.3%
- Yes 93.7%
SEX POSITIONS
Favorite female
position
- Missionary 65.3%
- Doggystyle 89.7%
- Standing doggystyle 84.2%
- Cowgirl 91.6%
- Reverse Cowgirl 78.0%
- Anal 64.3%
- Wall sex 94.7%
- Spooning 63.2%
- Missionary sideways 47.1%
Favorite male
position
- Missionary 74.0%
- Doggystyle 98.3%
- Standing doggystyle 98.7%
- Cowgirl 95.1%
- Reverse Cowgirl 84.7%
- Anal 71.2%
- Wall sex 97.4%
- Spooning 69.1%
- Missionary sideways 68.3%
DIRTY TALK
Do you (wife) enjoy
dirty talk?
- No 3.3%
- Yes 96.7%
Do you (husband)
enjoy dirty talk?
- No 0.8%
- Yes 99.2%
FAVORITE ROLEPLAY SCENARIO
WOMEN ENJOY
- Handyman/plumber 91.3%
- Masseuse 87.2%
- Doctor 61.3%
- Call-Guy 86.8%
- Strangers 97.8%
- Teacher Student 88.0%
- Boss Secretary 92.4%
MEN ENJOY
- Handyman/plumber 91.7%
- Masseuse 73.6%
- Doctor 68.3%
- Call-Girl 97.0%
- Strangers 95.3%
- Teacher Student 90.2%
- Boss Secretary 94.6%
MALE FAVORTIE LINGERIE
- Bra and panties 81.3%
- Thong and topless 87.6%
- Baby doll style 61.3%
- Garter and thong style 98.6%
- Corsets 90.4%
FAVORITE OUTFITS
Favorite outfit for
husband to wear
- Suit 91.3%
- Tight jeans and button up shirt 84.6%
- Tank top and basketball shorts 87.9%
- Shirtless 93.0%
Favorite outfit for
wife to wear
- Tight fitting dress 91.3%
- Low cut top with extra cleavage 98.7%
- Daisy duke shorts 99.8%
- Tight fitting jeans and top 91.2%
- Anything with heels 93.7%
FAVORITE AFTER SEX ACTIVITY
- Rest then more sex 26.7%
- Cuddling 29.7%
- Pizza 15.0%
- Ice cream 10.6%
- Sleep 18.0%
ORGASM TYPE
What’s your favorite
orgasm type?
- Clit 13.2%
- g-spot 32.6%
- squirting 31.8%
- cervical 11.9%
- deep spot 3.8%
- nipple 2.8%
- anal 3.9%
FAVORITE WAY WOMEN SEDUCE MEN
- Shower towel drop 87.2%
- Topless surprise 88.3%
- Naked under the sheets 64.2%
- Dirty talk or grab cock in public/ restaurant 91.0%
- Lingerie while cooking 95.8%
- Flash breasts while driving 88.3%
- Sexting 86.9%
- Leave lingerie outfit/toys laying around (hint hint) 63.2%
- Join in the shower 74.7%
PRE-MARRIAGE
Naked together before
marriage?
- No 7.3%
- Yes 92.7%
Orgasmed together before marriage?
- No 18.7%
- Yes 81.3%
Oral sex before
marriage?
- No 62.2%
- Yes 37.8%
Sex before marriage?
- No 69.1%
- Yes 30.9%
Sexually flirtatious
before marriage?
- No 2.1%
- Yes 97.9%
Miss sexual
flirtation and “inappropriate escapades you had while dating?
- No 0.8%
- Yes 99.2%
WERE WE AS SEXUAL BEFORE MARRIAGE AS EVERYONE ELSE? (Either groping, nude together, oral, or sex)
- Born Again 26,798 /31,522
- Christian-non denomination 22,076/41,369
- Catholic 19,831/20,733
- Baptist 3,421/3,642
- Evangelical 4,930/11,818
- Mormon 37,264/38,967
- Jehovahs Witness 1,345/8,642
- Other 30,903/32,789
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