ARE WE NORMAL? HOW NORMAL CHRISTIAN COUPLES HAVE SEX


 

After an outpouring of responses in our Facebook and Twitter surveys we thought it prudent to share.

How do normal couples who believe in God and Christ have sex? So many of us often wonder how we compare with most other couples out there in terms of our sex life and how normal we are, here’s the comparison based on 189,482 couples who took our surveys, 99,631 Women and 89,851 Men participated.

 

RELIGION


  1. What Christian denomination do you worship with?

  • Born Again                                          31,522
  • Christian-non denomination            41,369
  • Catholic                                                20,733
  • Baptist                                                  3,642
  • Evangelical                                          11,818
  • Mormon                                              38,967
  • Jehovahs Witness                              8,642
  • Other                                                    32,789

  1. Should religion have any say or impact in your sex life?

  • NO                                                         176,486
  • YES                                                         12,996

  1. Does your religion influence your sexuality or sex life?

  • NO                                                         19,600
  • YES                                                         169,882

  1. What does your religion prohibit sexually?

  • Born Again                                           Sex before marriage, infidelity
  • Christian-non Denominational         Sex before marriage, infidelity, modesty
  • Catholic                                                Sex before marriage
  • Baptist                                                  Infidelity
  • Evangelical                                           Infidelity
  • Mormon                                               Sex before marriage, infidelity, immodesty
  • Jehovahs Witness                               Sex before marriage, immodesty
  • Other                                                    Sex before marriage, infidelity

  1. Modesty teachings harm (when applied) harm your marriage by reducing sexual drive?

  • Christian non-denominational         39,655 out of 41,369
  • Mormon                                               38,724 out of 38,967
  • Jehovas Witness                                 8,391 out of 8,642

HEALTH


  1. Do you exercise together weekly to increase desire and sexual enjoyment?

  • NO                                                        
  • YES                                                         153,253/

  1. Does (or has weight ever) Obesity or being overweight decrease your sex drive?

  • NO
  • YES                                                          184,226/

  1. Do men do kegels?                              53,779/
  2. Do women do kegels?                         71,234/

SEX ON THE BRAIN


  1. How many times a day do husbands think about sex?                    5.89
  2. How many times a day do wives think about sex?                           6.13
  3. Top things that reduce sex drive for men

  • Weight                                                                                                         57%
  • Stress                                                                                                           9.5%
  • Lack of knowledge sexually                                                                     8.5%
  • Lack of sexual attraction due her to weight or anger                         6%
  • Lack of free time                                                                                       19%

  1. Top things that reduce sex drive for women

  • Weight                                                                                                         72%
  • Stress                                                                                                           18.5%
  • Lack of knowledge sexually                                                                      2%
  • Lack of sexual attraction due her to weight or anger                         1.5%
  • Lack of free time                                                                                        6%

  1. Best sex way to increase sex drive

  • Healthy weight and appearance                                                              67.9%
  • Date night                                                                                                    13.7%
  • Reduce Stress                                                                                              4.1%
  • Wine or Alcohol                                                                                          14.3%

ORAL SEX


  1. How often does your husband go down on you?
    • Never                                                                                                 1.5%
    • Once or twice a year                                                                       4.5%
    • Once a month                                                                                   23.5%
    • Once a week                                                                                     41.5%
    • 2-3 times per week                                                                          29%
  2. What is your favorite part of going down on her?
    • Making her happy                                                                           26.5%
    • The noises she makes                                                                     31.5%
    • Seeing her squirm around                                                             33.5%
    • The way it makes her happier and less stressed                       10.5%
  3. What is your favorite part of him going down on you? (choose as many as you wish)
    • The orgasm                                                                                       99.4%
    • Feeling connected and loved                                                         91.3%
    • Feeling less stressed after                                                              84.6%
    • Seeing him stare at me                                                                   86.3%
    • His technique and skill                                                                    77.2%
    • Seeing his face covered in my juices and cum                           98.6%
    • Watching his tongue flick, lick, and tease my clit                      99.3%
  4. How often would you go down on her if she let you?

  • Once a month                                                                                               1%
  • Once a week                                                                                                 1.3%
  • 2-3x per week                                                                                              10.1%
  • Every day                                                                                                       87.6%

  1. What makes pussy eating good for you? (choose as many as you want)
    • The orgasm                                                                                       99.4%
    • The dirty talk                                                                                    43.8%
    • Tongue flicking                                                                                 87.6%
    • Long strong tongue strokes                                                           97.3%
    • Eye contact                                                                                       81.3%
    • Skill and technique                                                                          99.6%
    • Breast play                                                                                        84.1%
    • Holding hands                                                                                  26.9%
    • Hot warm breathing                                                                       39.1%
    • Teasing                                                                                               87.2%
    • Giving him a facial                                                                            95.3%
    • Squirting                                                                                            29.6%
    • Face sitting                                                                                        48.1%
  2. How often does your wife go down on you?
    • Never                                                                                                 4.5%
    • Once or twice a year                                                                       2.5%
    • Once a month                                                                                  3%
    • Once a week                                                                                     67.5%
    • 2-3 times per week                                                                         32.5%
  3. What is your favorite part of going down on him?
    • Making him happy                                                                          27.5%
    • The noises he makes                                                                      32.5%
    • Seeing him squirm around                                                            27.5%
    • The way it makes him happier and less stressed                      12.5%
  4. How often would you go down on him if he let you?

  • Once a month                                                                                              4.5%
  • Once a week                                                                                                12.3%
  • 2-3x per week                                                                                              64.6%
  • Every day                                                                                                      18.6%

  1. What is your favorite part of her going down on you? (choose as many as you wish)
    • The orgasm                                                                                       65.3%
    • Feeling connected and loved                                                         99.8%
    • Feeling less stressed after                                                              84.6%
    • Seeing her stare at me                                                                    98.1%
    • Her technique and skill                                                                   13.4%
    • Seeing her face covered in my cum                                              98.6%
    • Watching her tongue flick, lick, and tease my cock                   99.3%
  2. What makes a good blow job?
    • The orgasm                                                                                        84.3%
    • The dirty talk                                                                                     99.4%
    • Tongue flicking                                                                                  87.6%
    • Long strong tongue strokes                                                            98.6%
    • Eye contact                                                                                        99.9%
    • Skill and technique                                                                           21.3%
    • Chest play                                                                                          41.1%
    • Holding hands                                                                                   16.7%
    • Hot warm breathing                                                                         44.6%
    • Teasing                                                                                                91.3%
    • Giving her a facial                                                                             97.1%
    • Swallowing                                                                                         95.4%
    • Face F*cking                                                                                      24.1%
    • Begging me for cum                                                                         79.3%
    • Deep-throating me                                                                           81.2%
    • Playing with my cum afterwards                                                    87.3%

SAME GENDER ATTRACTION


  1. Do you believe same sex attraction is wrong? (Remember the prophet Ruth was a lesbian and approved by God).

    • Yes its wrong                                                                                     2.6%
    • No its not wrong                                                                              97.4%

  1. Do you (the Christian woman) have any lesbian fantasies?

    • No I don’t                                                                                            2.3%
    • A tiny bit                                                                                              1.7%
    • Yes, but I’d never tell anyone                                                          8.6%
    • Absolutely                                                                                           97.4%

  1. Would you be willing to have female on female sex is your husband let you?

  • No                                                                                                                    2.6%
  • YES                                                                                                                  97.4%

  1. Would you be turned on by your wife having sex with another girl?
    • No                                                                                                       1.3%
    • Yes                                                                                                      98.7%
  2. Why does F/F sex appeal to you? (choose many)

  • Soft and gentle                                                                                             94.6%
  • Women are more beautiful and erotic than men                                  98.3%
  • I love boobs                                                                                                  99.8%
  • It’s new and different                                                                                 83.2%
  • Its more sensual                                                                                           94.5%
  • Its educational seeing how women know how to please                     99.4%

ROUGH SEX


  1. Do men enjoy rough sex?

    • No                                                                                                        11.3%
    • Yes                                                                                                       88.7%   

  1. Do men enjoy being scratched?
    • No                                                                                                        3.2%
    • Yes                                                                                                       96.8%
  2. Do women enjoy having hair pulled
    • No                                                                                                        18.3%
    • Yes                                                                                                       81.7%
  3. Do women enjoy being spanked?
    • No                                                                                                        8.6%
    • Yes                                                                                                       91.4%
  4. Do women enjoy being choked gently?
    • No                                                                                                       13.6%
    • Yes                                                                                                      86.4%

FOREPLAY


What is your favorite foreplay idea he uses on you? (rate all)

  • Oral sex                                                                                                               98.3%
  • Kissing                                                                                                                 99.4%
  • Kissing thighs                                                                                                     68.3%
  • Kissing ankles                                                                                                    41.9%
  • Kissing arms                                                                                                       74.6%
  • Kissing breasts                                                                                                   99.9%
  • Kissing neck                                                                                                        97.5%
  • Biting ear                                                                                                             99.7%
  • Biting neck                                                                                                          94.2%
  • Squeezing breasts                                                                                             100%
  • Teasing                                                                                                                99.6%
  • Spanking, hair pulling, gentle choking                                                           94.6%
  • Grinding                                                                                                               84.6%
  • Dirty talk                                                                                                             98.9%
  • Aggression and dominance                                                                             97.4%
  • Moaning, whimpering, gasping                                                                      96.3%
  • Stripping                                                                                                             81.2%
  • Lap dance                                                                                                           32.6%
  • Food play                                                                                                           29.6%
  • Talking about sex                                                                                             41.6%
  • Drinking wine                                                                                                    97.3%
  • Watching porn together                                                                                 94.6%

What is your favorite foreplay technique she uses on you? (rate all)

  • Oral sex                                                                                                                99.1%
  • Kissing                                                                                                                  99.2%
  • Kissing thighs                                                                                                      27.3%
  • Kissing ankles                                                                                                     7.8%
  • Kissing arms                                                                                                       78.1%
  • Kissing breasts                                                                                                    92.3%
  • Kissing neck                                                                                                        99.6%
  • Biting ear                                                                                                             99.4%
  • Biting neck                                                                                                          98.6%
  • Squeezing breasts                                                                                              45.6%
  • Teasing                                                                                                                 99.8%
  • Spanking, hair pulling, gentle choking                                                            92.8%
  • Grinding                                                                                                               89.6%
  • Dirty talk                                                                                                              99.9%
  • Aggression and dominance                                                                              99.1%
  • Moaning, whimpering, gasping                                                                       99.7%
  • Stripping                                                                                                              89.6%
  • Lap dance                                                                                                            83.2%
  • Food play                                                                                                             8.9%
  • Talking about sex                                                                                               16.5%
  • Drinking wine                                                                                                      94.3%
  • Watching porn together                                                                                   95.7%

ANAL SEX


Are you the Wife interested in trying Anal Sex?

  • No                                                                                                                          14.5%
  • Not sure                                                                                                               15.9%
  • Maybe                                                                                                                   31.8%
  • Yes we do it                                                                                                         37.8%

Does anal sex feel good? (When done properly)

  • No                                                                                                                          4.9%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         95.1%

Do you the husband want to try anal sex?

  • No                                                                                                                          7%
  • Not sure                                                                                                               11 %
  • Maybe                                                                                                                  38.5%
  • Yes we do it                                                                                                         43.5%

Does it feel good?

  • No                                                                                                                          0.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         99.7%

BONDAGE


Do you enjoy being blindfolded?

  • No                                                                                                                          8.2%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         91.8%

Do you enjoy being tied up?

  • No                                                                                                                          7.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         92.7%

Do you enjoy warm candle wax on your chest or thighs?

  • No                                                                                                                          13.8%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         86.2%

SEX TOYS & MASTURBATION


Do you own a dildo?

  • No                                                                                                                          1.4%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         98.6%

Do you own a vibrator?

  • No                                                                                                                          0.9%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         99.1%

How many times per week do you (Housewife) masturbate?

  • Once or twice a year                                                                                          1.3%     
  • Once per month                                                                                                  4.9%
  • Once per week                                                                                                    11.7%
  • 2-3 times per week                                                                                             64.9%
  • Daily                                                                                                                      17.2%

Does masturbating increase your sex drive?

  • No                                                                                                                          3.9%
  • Moderately                                                                                                          7.8%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         88.2%

JOINT PORN WATCHING


Do you watch porn as a couple?

  • No                                                                                                                          9.8%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         90.2%

How Often (If Yes)

  • Rarely                                                                                                                   4.6%
  • Monthly                                                                                                               21.9%
  • Weekly                                                                                                                 64.8%
  • 2-3 times per week                                                                                            8.7%

Does it increase your sex drive together?

  • No                                                                                                                          0.7%                     
  • Yes                                                                                                                         99.3%

What is your favorite category you watch together? (Choose all that apply)

  • Romantic                                                                                                             93.7%                                   
  • Big penis                                                                                                              74.6%
  • Big breasts                                                                                                          43.8%
  • Rough sex                                                                                                           66.1%
  • Role-play scenarios                                                                                           97.0%
  • Threesomes                                                                                                        94.9%
  • Swinging and swapping                                                                                    92.4%
  • Hotwifing                                                                                                            94.1%
  • Lesbian                                                                                                                 98.4%
  • Oral sex                                                                                                                 81.4%

+1 or +2


Do you (Wife) get turned on by the thought of a MFM threesome?

  • No                                                                                                                          98.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         1.7%

Do you (Man) get turned on by the thought of a MFM threesome?                        

  • No                                                                                                                          99.8%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         0.2%

Do you (Wife) get turned on by the thought of a FFM threesome?

  • No                                                                                                                          4.8%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         95.2%

Do you (Man) get turned on by the thought of a FFM threesome?

  • No                                                                                                                          0.2%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         99.8%

Do you (Wife) get turned on by the thought of Hotwifing?

  • No                                                                                                                          89.7%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         10.3%

Do you (Man) get turned on by the thought of Hotwifing?

  • No                                                                                                                          1.9%%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         98.1%

Do you (Wife) get turned on by the thought of swapping?

  • No                                                                                                                          5.0%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         95.0%

Do you (Man) get turned on by the thought of swapping?

  • No                                                                                                                          3.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         96.7%

SEXTING


How often do you flirt/chat via sexting?

  • Never                                                                                                                   0.9%
  • Once per month                                                                                               13.7%
  • Once a week                                                                                                      43.3%
  • Few times a week                                                                                             42.1%   

Do you send each other nudes?

  • No                                                                                                                          86.0%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         14.0%

Have you ever made your husband a boudoir collection?

  • No                                                                                                                          78.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         21.7%

Have you ever made your wife a boudoir collection?

  • No                                                                                                                          22.6%   
  • Yes                                                                                                                         87.3%

PENIS SIZE & VAGINAL TIGHTNESS


Does penis size matter?

  • No                                                                                                                          12.7%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         87.3%
  • If yes, do you prefer it bigger because it feels better?                                94.4%

Does vaginal tightness matter?

  • No                                                                                                                          14.5%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         85.5%
  • If yes, do you prefer it tighter because it feels better?                               99.6%

AGGRESSIVENESS


Do you like it when he’s aggressive or dominant?          

  • No                                                                                                                          2.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         97.7%

What type of dominant acts do you (wife) enjoy? (many)

  • Strong grip                                                                                                         61.2%
  • Pushed up against wall                                                                                    91.7%
  • Being bent over                                                                                                74.2%
  • Manhandled                                                                                                      97.6%
  • Called dirty names                                                                                           92.8%
  • Being spanked, gently chocked, hair pulled                                                87.2%
  • Pinning hands above head                                                                             86.3%
  • Pinned to bed                                                                                                   91.0%
  • Grabbing by behind while kissing                                                                 94.3%
  • Being groped                                                                                                    85.1%
  • Ripping clothing off                                                                                         92.3%

Do you like it when she’s aggressive or dominant?

  • No                                                                                                                          98.1%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         1.9%

What type of dominant acts do you (husband) enjoy? (many)

  • Strong grip                                                                                                        31.2%
  • Pushed up against wall                                                                                   65.8%
  • Manhandled                                                                                                      94.7%
  • Called dirty names                                                                                           68.1%
  • Being spanked, gently chocked, hair pulled, scratched                            81.3%
  • Pinning hands above head                                                                             82.0%
  • Pinned to bed                                                                                                   97.1%
  • Grabbing by behind while kissing                                                                  97.3%
  • Being groped                                                                                                     78.1%
  • Ripping clothing off                                                                                          91.2%
  • Diving for/ Devouring penis                                                                            99.3%
  • Dirty talk-demanding/confidence                                                                 99.6%

CUM


How do you (wife) prefer to orgasm? (Choose all)

  • Vibrator                                                                                                               94.7%
  • Dildo                                                                                                                     93.6%
  • On his cock                                                                                                         99.7%
  • One his tongue/ face                                                                                         99.8%
  • Fingering                                                                                                             87.6%

Do you enjoy/want to cum on his face?

  • No                                                                                                                          6.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         96.7%

Do you swallow?

  • No                                                                                                                          1.6%
  • No, but I want to be brave enough to                                                            12.7%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         85.7%

How do you (husband) prefer to orgasm? (Choose all)

  • In condom                                                                                                          1.2%
  • In pussy                                                                                                               64.3%
  • On stomach                                                                                                        3.8%
  • On breasts                                                                                                          87.3%
  • On ass                                                                                                                  34.5%
  • On face                                                                                                                93.7%
  • In mouth                                                                                                             92.8%
  • Swallow                                                                                                               91.9%
  • Anal                                                                                                                      14.0%
  • Tit-job                                                                                                                  46.3%
  • Handjob                                                                                                              17.8%
  • Blowjob                                                                                                               87.9%

Do you enjoy/want to cum on her face?

  • No                                                                                                                          6.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                         93.7%

SEX POSITIONS


Favorite female position

  • Missionary                                                                                                                        65.3%
  • Doggystyle                                                                                                                        89.7%
  • Standing doggystyle                                                                                                       84.2%
  • Cowgirl                                                                                                                              91.6%
  • Reverse Cowgirl                                                                                                               78.0%
  • Anal                                                                                                                                    64.3%
  • Wall sex                                                                                                                             94.7%
  • Spooning                                                                                                                           63.2%
  • Missionary sideways                                                                                                       47.1%

Favorite male position                                 

  • Missionary                                                                                                                          74.0%
  • Doggystyle                                                                                                                          98.3%
  • Standing doggystyle                                                                                                          98.7%
  • Cowgirl                                                                                                                                 95.1%
  • Reverse Cowgirl                                                                                                                  84.7%
  • Anal                                                                                                                                       71.2%
  • Wall sex                                                                                                                                97.4%
  • Spooning                                                                                                                              69.1%
  • Missionary sideways                                                                                                          68.3%

DIRTY TALK


Do you (wife) enjoy dirty talk?

  • No                                                                                                                                          3.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         96.7%

Do you (husband) enjoy dirty talk?

  • No                                                                                                                                          0.8%
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         99.2%

FAVORITE ROLEPLAY SCENARIO


WOMEN ENJOY

  • Handyman/plumber                                                                                                       91.3%
  • Masseuse                                                                                                                          87.2%
  • Doctor                                                                                                                                61.3%
  • Call-Guy                                                                                                                             86.8%
  • Strangers                                                                                                                           97.8%
  • Teacher Student                                                                                                              88.0%
  • Boss Secretary                                                                                                                  92.4%

MEN ENJOY

  • Handyman/plumber                                                                                                         91.7%
  • Masseuse                                                                                                                            73.6%
  • Doctor                                                                                                                                  68.3%
  • Call-Girl                                                                                                                                97.0%                   
  • Strangers                                                                                                                             95.3%
  • Teacher Student                                                                                                                90.2%
  • Boss Secretary                                                                                                                    94.6%

MALE FAVORTIE LINGERIE


  • Bra and panties                                                                                                                 81.3%
  • Thong and topless                                                                                                            87.6%
  • Baby doll style                                                                                                                   61.3%
  • Garter and thong style                                                                                                     98.6%
  • Corsets                                                                                                                                90.4%

FAVORITE OUTFITS


Favorite outfit for husband to wear

  • Suit                                                                                                                                     91.3%
  • Tight jeans and button up shirt                                                                                     84.6%
  • Tank top and basketball shorts                                                                                     87.9%
  • Shirtless                                                                                                                             93.0%

Favorite outfit for wife to wear

  • Tight fitting dress                                                                                                             91.3%
  • Low cut top with extra cleavage                                                                                   98.7%
  • Daisy duke shorts                                                                                                            99.8%
  • Tight fitting jeans and top                                                                                             91.2%
  • Anything with heels                                                                                                        93.7%

FAVORITE AFTER SEX ACTIVITY


  • Rest then more sex                                                                                                           26.7%
  • Cuddling                                                                                                                              29.7%
  • Pizza                                                                                                                                     15.0%
  • Ice cream                                                                                                                            10.6%
  • Sleep                                                                                                                                    18.0%

ORGASM TYPE


What’s your favorite orgasm type?

  • Clit                                                                                                                                        13.2%
  • g-spot                                                                                                                                   32.6%
  • squirting                                                                                                                              31.8%
  • cervical                                                                                                                                 11.9%
  • deep spot                                                                                                                             3.8%
  • nipple                                                                                                                                    2.8%
  • anal                                                                                                                                       3.9%

FAVORITE WAY WOMEN SEDUCE MEN


  • Shower towel drop                                                                                                         87.2%
  • Topless surprise                                                                                                               88.3%
  • Naked under the sheets                                                                                                 64.2%
  • Dirty talk or grab cock in public/ restaurant                                                               91.0%
  • Lingerie while cooking                                                                                                    95.8%
  • Flash breasts while driving                                                                                             88.3%
  • Sexting                                                                                                                               86.9%
  • Leave lingerie outfit/toys laying around (hint hint)                                                   63.2%
  • Join in the shower                                                                                                           74.7%

PRE-MARRIAGE


Naked together before marriage?

  • No                                                                                                                                          7.3%
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         92.7%

Orgasmed together before marriage?

  • No                                                                                                                                          18.7%   
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         81.3%

Oral sex before marriage?

  • No                                                                                                                                          62.2%
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         37.8%

Sex before marriage?

  • No                                                                                                                                          69.1%                   
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         30.9%

Sexually flirtatious before marriage?

  • No                                                                                                                                          2.1%
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         97.9%

Miss sexual flirtation and “inappropriate escapades you had while dating?

  • No                                                                                                                                          0.8%
  • Yes                                                                                                                                         99.2%
WERE WE AS SEXUAL BEFORE MARRIAGE AS EVERYONE ELSE? (Either groping, nude together, oral, or sex)
  • Born Again                                           26,798 /31,522
  • Christian-non denomination                 22,076/41,369
  • Catholic                                                19,831/20,733
  • Baptist                                                   3,421/3,642
  • Evangelical                                           4,930/11,818
  • Mormon                                                37,264/38,967
  • Jehovahs Witness                                  1,345/8,642
  • Other                                                     30,903/32,789

                                               

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