INDICATORS OF A HAPPY SEX LIFE (OR LACK THERE OF)

HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED ON A SCALE OF 1-10 JUST HOW HAPPY YOUR SPOUSE REALLY IS WITH YOUR LOVE MAKING ABILITIES & PARTICIPATION?

You know when you have hot sex, I mean, really hot sex, the kind of sex that keeps you awake at night thinking about it and reliving it. Well, the symptoms of mind-blowing sex affect your mind and body and sometimes it even feels like you’re possessed by some hungry, horny force inside of you. Here’s how to recognize the signs of the delicious illness…
If you find yourself having these symptoms, please enjoy asap

If you have yet to experience each of these situations, well... chances are you and your spouse need to have a sit down and talk about how to make your sex life more interesting! These are the things that increase our libido, the things that make us crave our spouse, the things that make us totally want sex every day with the person we love. This is what our marriage has become, and can too with yours if you open your mind and allow yourself to embrace your sexual self.


Too many women or even men can't help but question why just having sex isn't good enough, wondering why their spouse craves an amazing intimate relationship refusing to settle for average sex. Sex to married couples is a doorway to a healthy and happy marriage, great sex and effort by both male and female allows a door to open in our marriages, this door helps us feel comfortable sharing more of ourselves with our spouse, opening up more in every aspect of life, sharing goals, meeting needs, communicating on a deeper and more profound level. THATS WHY GREAT SEX IS A NECESSITY IN OUR MARRIAGES.

THE 12 ESSENTIAL MONTHLY EXPERIENCES TO A HAPPY AND HEALTHY SEX LIFE IN MARRIAGE.

#1A SEXY SEDUCTION FROM BOTH MALE AND FEMALE HAPPENS OFTEN

#1 INTENSE SHAKING

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#2 WETNESS

For a woman who's never experienced the bed wetting vaginal orgasm that is squirting, g-spot orgasms, a-spot orgasms, cervical orgasms, etc, you've never actually experienced sex nor know its pleasure, talk with your partner about how to experience these and better techniques to get you off.

#3 SWEAT COVERED BODIES

So many wives ask why would they ever want to be sweaty after sex? OMG! This is without a doubt my favorite kind of sex, the kind when I'm gasping for breathe afterwards! Want to know why? Because we both gave it our all! we were active the entire time, we made it last for hours on end. Couples at least every other month need a day away from the kids to just go to the bedroom and screw all afternoon, these are the times you have those deep vaginal orgasms that just rock you to the very core! We love to screw like rabbits, cuddle, have ice cream, screw again, order pizza, screw some more, watch TV cuddled up, screw again in the shower to wrap it up. OMG if you and your spouse have never done this your sex life is only one tenth what it could be! I Beg you, nay, I plead you both to do this often, the connection a couple gets after an afternoon of 8 hours of off and on screwing is mind blowingly amazing! start with oral orgasms, then go to sex itself but not too hard, next session make it a rough one, finally finish nice and soft/romantic.

#4 AGRESSIVE & STRONG SEX

Have you ever been so desperate to screw your spouse that you ripped their clothing off? the sensation and sight of it makes me wet right on the spot. try wearing some cheap underwear or stockings that he can tear apart. There's also something about the feeling of being taken, pushed against a wall, manhandled by a savage beast, both men and women crave and need this from time to time, they need to see a sexual freak who just cant get enough of you.

#5 BODY SPASMS

Have you ever had a rolling orgasm? the kind that seems to hit over and over and over in small increments? if not then your rushing through sex too quickly, talk about how you can slow it down and make it better.

#6 SKIN TO SKIN TOUCH

There's just something about the soft smooth skin of a lovers hand moving up and down our body gently, slowly giving us body wide sensations with their finger tips, kisses, and body to body rubbing, gentle and romantic sex is a must for couples and specially females on a monthly basis.

#7 SCREAMING, MOANING, GRUNTING, WHIMPERING (DIRT TALK!!!!!!)

If you've never been comfortable with being a moaner or a screamer, well then chances are you haven't had the greatest of orgasms, not because your partner couldn't give it to you, but because your not being vocal! Doctors have literally proven that the louder we moan during sex the harder we orgasm! the vibrations send chills through our bodies and make us cum like rockets! If you and your spouse have never been the vocalist of sorts then have a talk, just say "hey lets both get a quiet house to ourselves, and put on the loudest and cheesiest moaning sex and lets see what happens" it will not only open you up to being vocal, but will intensify your orgasm :)

#8 PASSION & DEDICATION

#9 ALMOST PASSING OUT

#10 GASPING & SHOCK VALUE

If sex ceases to be new or shocking it tends to get stale, as a lover if you aren't always bringing new ideas or techniques to the bedroom your love life may be headed for boredom and disaster.

#11 BITING

Either the bed or your spouse, If hard and rough sex isn't something that occurs once a month then your marriage is in deep trouble... Fast paced sex is what keep sex fun, with rock music playing in the background, in a hot sweaty bed, fast sex is what brings out the bad girl and bad boy (which makes you want to be sexual), if this type of sex doesn't occur you cant ever hope to embrace your sexuality.

#11 SPOILED SEX

If you've never told your lover to sit back and let you take care of them for a night, well then you don't deserve to be called a husband or a wife, selfless love with no expectation of return is a vital part of intimacy, and frankly should be occurring weekly in some way, preferably oral, but sometimes full blown lazy sex for your spouse.

#12 COMPLETE THE JOB

Swallowing your spouses orgasm is 100% necessary, for specifics refer to the oral sex section or why cum matters blog post.

As a couple if ALL these types of sex aren't happening often sex grows stale, love fades, and relationships turn south... discuss as a couple how you can make sure these types happen more often.




On a weekly basis women ask me "how can I know if I'm pleasing my husband in bed? I know most husbands will always say yes because they don't want to disappoint us, but I feel I'm not leaving him satisfied when we finish". And to this I respond: For me and my marital sex life I can always know of a surety that my husband is sexually happy by the effort evaluating I give, my goal at the end of each sweaty sexy session is to leave him thinking "OMG this woman is incredible, she is energetic, enthusiastic, doesn't have to be asked to give oral, she's vocal, she teases me, seduces me, and embraces me fully". A woman who can put in this kind of effort is guaranteed to leave her man happy. I know he loves it by the way his jaw hangs, or eyes bulge seeing me, by the moans he gives, by the way he gasps, grips me tight, or turns into an animal.


So many women think they can skip these essential steps in intimacy and have him still be satisfied in bed, so many think they can give a half effort, let him do the work, lick his penis for a few seconds, and have him still feel connected with her... WRONG...

I also receive emails about confused women whose husbands used to do all these things for them, but after years they stopped for some reason? they stopped seducing them, stopped going down on her, stopped being vocal or putting in maximum effort. Why? Usually its because he is unsure that you even want it, when he's rejected over and over and over he starts to think you as his wife don't want what he'd been doing, that it bugged us when he seduces us, when the truth is we loved everything he used to do to us. If we as women want this man to return to his old ways and please us we need to prove to him we do want sex, and we do this by putting in the effort explained above. When he see's you love sex, he'll again love doing sexual things to you to make sure we as women are happy in bed.

WHAT DO HAPPY MARRIAGES SEX LIVES LOOK LIKE?

So often women worry they don't know what they're doing in bed so their husband wont enjoy it, so they avoid putting in effort in bed, yet surveys show skill matters very little, its the attitude and enthusiasm that matters to most individuals.