The "Big Black Cock" Fantasy explained
Penis Size Study Shows Women Want One Thing For Flings, Another For Long Relationships
The vagina has many pressure-sensitive nerve endings that detect sensations of stretching, and these sensors may be finely tuned to detect variations in penis girth, the researchers said. A penis with larger girth may also bring the clitoris closer to the vagina during sex, which has been suggested to help with achieving orgasm.
On the other hand, longer penis length may lead to cervical pain, said study researcher Shannon Leung, an undergraduate in biology at the University of California, Los Angeles, who presented the findings last month at the meeting of the Association for Psychological Science in San Francisco.
Whether
it is racial profiling, stereotyping, or flat out just being racist, it is no
secret that racism still exists. Today, in this world, to be white is “ideal.”
Most people associate being white with being “hardworking, law abiding,
intellectual, rational, and sexually restrained and controlled” (Dines &
Humez, 279). All positive descriptions, right? Well, as it turns out, these so
called “positive” qualities are not ideal when it comes to getting aroused in
or out of a bedroom. With only 9% of whites marrying someone of a different
race/ethnicity in 2008 (Mary Mederios
Kent), one can see that most white people are not looking to find significant
others of different races, however, they seem to be interested in sex with
other races because they believe it will be “more intriguing and interesting”.
In our reading, Dines & Humez refer to this interracial sex appeal as the “white mans
In our reading, Dines & Humez refer to this interracial sex appeal as the “white mans
burden,” particularly when it comes porn. After reading about this so-called
“white mans burden,” I was interested to see what other people were saying about
interracial sex, and if what Dines & Humez were saying about interracial
sex/porn was accurate. As I was doing research, I came across a blog post that
asked the question: Is interracial sex better than sex with someone
within your own race? As it turns out, this
blog had and Dines & Humez’s article had consistent information.
If you were to Google search “interracial
sex,” you would get a ”massive array of porn sites.” Our history shows us that interracial sex
has existed for a long time, looking back at the slave era, “white
people spoke with repulsion about interracial sex – even though many white men
were constantly having sex with black women.” Today, people view interracial
sex as: “bizarre, disgusting, exciting, adventurous, morally repugnant,” yet,
as we can see from the massive amounts of interracial porn, people still find
interracial sex erotic, daring, and appealing. The most common types of
interracial sex involve “Black men and white women and Asian women and white
men” (James). Black males are supposedly “dirty, disgusting, and funky
sex,” characteristics making them more appealing in porn and fantasized about
in the bedroom, while Asian women have for a long time
been “hypersexualized objects of fantasy” (Weiss & Staff). Knowing
what we learned through our readings and this blog.
Although
it is no secret white females seem to be doing fine when it comes to
pornography world, all men do have their fantasies. About a year ago,
Victoria’s Secret put an "Asian-inspired" lingerie line on the
market. The main piece of lingerie for this collection (shown above) was called
“Sexy Little Geisha,” with a description that said: "your ticket to an
exotic adventure.” Although this line was taken off the market only shortly
after it was put on, due to its “overt racism masked behind claims of inspired
fashion and exploring sexual fantasy,” it still suggests a white mans desire
for Asian women (Weiss & Staff). Nina Jacinto, the 26-year-old blogger who
was the first to bring attention to the issue with this “Asian Inspired” line
of lingerie, also notes (like James, Dines & Humez) that when it comes to
sex, “without the feeling of accessing something foreign or forbidden, there
can be no fantasy” (Weiss & Staff).
While American ideologies: images, concepts and premises which provide the frameworks through
which we represent, interpret, understand, and ‘make sense’ of some aspect of
social existence, lead us to believe that being white is ‘ideal,’ it is now
no secret that “while they would not swap their material privileges with [other
races], many white [males and females] would indeed like [interracial] sex as
it is seen in the white racist imagination.” It is important to realize that
“for at least the time it takes to get aroused,” the exchange “is one that is
in direct contradiction to whiteness,” making interracial sex the ‘ideal’ form
of sex or pornography (Dines & Humez, 279).
In an episode of the television series Sex and the City, the four ladies meet for their regular breakfast diner chat while Samantha (Kim Catrall) begins to share all of the salacious details of a hot night with a New York City
After all the explicit details, she closes by telling them that he was every bit the fantasy that she dreamed of. The vastly more conservative of the bunch, Charlotte Park Avenue address and nice big stock portfolio and I fantasize about a guy with a nice big hose!”
Is it wrong to have sex with someone to fulfil a fantasy? Does the ideal partner, for the night or for a lifetime, speak to and satisfy our pleasures, desires, fantasies, fetishes and weaknesses?
Is it wrong to have sex with someone to fulfil a fantasy? Does the ideal partner, for the night or for a lifetime, speak to and satisfy our pleasures, desires, fantasies, fetishes and weaknesses?
Most of us have a preference: tall, short, thin, voluptuous, athletic, blonde, and so on. When does preference turn into fetish? Does a listing of “fun, petite, girl of Asian decent” on getadatenow.com really translate to “dark-haired Asian nymph to do my bidding”? Clearly, geographic and cultural differences play into how we partner and interact with each other, but does this transfer to the bedroom? When it comes down to it, don't the skin, follicles, pores and DNA long for the same sweaty, vivid, back-scratching, tumultuous journey to pleasure?
Be it a one-night stand, a visit from the ‘maintenance man,’ a fantasy fling, or the love of your life, don't you just want to get yours in the best of ways? The question is, have we attached that kind of pleasure to race? And who sparked and illuminated these images of the black Mandingo sex stallion, Indian Kama Sutra princesses, obedient 'me-love-you-long time' Asian mail-order brides, and the pure, untouchable white goddess? Do they stem from a culture that would rather mystify and objectify minorities rather than empower them? Is it not a placebo to pursue our fantasy and then feel a (maybe) false sense of satisfaction after we've conquered it?
In the past, there had been a climate of white hysteria about black sexuality, there's no denying the fact that every white wife has dreamt about what it'd be like to be fucked by a hot hung black man.
Somewhere between heaven and earth, or perhaps hell, is the sexual fetish. Is the sex fantasy thrust upon the minority to imply a savage, unreal, inhuman or unearthly image? What does this say about us as a society who subscribe to the fantasies? That we allow ourselves to be driven by sex, reverie, folklore and stereotypes? We surrender to political correctness with the ‘love has no color’ banner. And that is true. Love has no color, but we’ve clearly attached race and color to sexual satisfaction. We maintain the parallel of fetish with the clandestine because it’s really rooted in racism and we don’t want to align ourselves with racism.
Blacked
Blacked is pretty much regarded as the ultimate in interracial porn these days, at least excluding all the ludicrous and intentionally offensive, and it’s easy to see why. Once offering the finest in HD erotic hardcore pairing white women with well endowed black men, Greg Lansky’s controversial creation now brings its members 4K Ultra-HD hardcore sex that’s almost impossibly rich both visually and sexually. It won’t be for everyone, of course, but if you don’t find yourself thrilled to bits by Blacked’s steamy, sordid romantic sex, you might want to ask yourself why.
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