35 TYPES OF SEX EVERY WOMAN AND WIFE NEEDS TO EXPERIENCE OFTEN


In a womans life there are things she cant live without, food, shelter, love, family, friends, and sex. Of her sexual needs there are certain experiences that open her up and allow her to enjoy and crave sex to the fullest extent, here are the 35 basic needs every woman needs to experience before she dies.

1. Learn how to be seductive and flirtatious

Lets be honest, men CRAVE a seductive and flirtatious woman, someone who knows how to flaunt her body, and be a seductive tease.
















2. Catch a guy in the nude

Every teenage girls fantasy, seeing a naked man haha.




3. Orgasm while having our pussy sucked

The best orgasm you may ever have comes orally, finding a man willing to go down on you anytime, anywhere is essential for a woman to happy sexually.






4. Orgasm via fingering

Fingering is unique in that it allows extensive G-spot stimulation, and eventually leads to squirting.




5. Learn how to tease a guy

Teasing is an art, its the sure fire way to stimulate a mans mind, and give a woman confidence in her self.





6. Use a vibrator and a dildo regularly

The number one tool for any woman who has a low sex drive, or wants to improve the quality of her sex life.





7. Shave and design your pussy hair

Every shaved or designed your Va-J-J? It not only looks great, but makes your man thrilled to go down on you, most men love either a bare or trimmed design as seen underneath.





8. Have a sexting relationship

Suffering in the romance department? Then you're not sexting or flirting via text. START NOW.

9. Try the kamasutras various positions

Man (and woman) cannot live on bread alone... Sex positions get boring if you don't ever try anything new...

10. Talk dirty during sex

If you don't talk dirty you wont ever feel sexy, plain and simple. Men need to hear you talk dirty! and guess what? IT MAKES YOU SUPER HORNY AND CONFIDENT BY DOING IT!

11. Have romantic candle lit sex

Do we really need to explain guys? Women love romantic sex, candle lit settings, sensual smells and visualizations.

12. Have rough and passionate sex

One of the most overlooked sexual aspects is passionate sex, many women shy away from it because its too intense or painful, but this is because their body is not sexually ready for it, women who masturbate often with dildos can easily handle it, leading to extremely satisfying vaginal orgasms.

13. Have a man dominate us, rough us up, spank us, and make us feel he's big and strong

Women love to feel owned by a big strong sexy man who just cant keep their hands of us.


14. Wear whorish lingerie

Nothing exudes confidence, and turns him on more than sensual lingerie. Avoid the nighties and grandma pajamas, go with something that shows off the curves.

15. Flash your man in a semi-public place

I love doing this, giving him a brief sneak peak in random places, the sure fire way to tell him lets get busy later.

16. Give him a tittie fuck or handjob

Any chance a woman has to see the pleasure on his face helps us feel sexier, and crave him even more.

17. Give enthusiastic blowjobs

To be honest, sex just isn't all that fun until you learn to love giving more than receiving. Oral sex is a must for both sexes, and nothing sucks more than a partner who does it grudgingly or without any passion. A woman who enjoys giving will love sex that much more, the power and excitement that come from seeing your partner in a state of shock and bliss is what makes sex that much more enjoyable.



18. Receive a cumshot on our face

Nothing makes you feel like a bad girl like cum, some women shy away from it, but most embrace it. Cum is fun, but only if you make it so.

19. Swallow his cum

One of the most essential experiences every woman needs, cum literally addicts a woman to her man, it has been scientifically proven... A woman who does not swallow is one I would avoid.

20. Have wine drunk sex

Nothing breaks free your inner freak like a glass of wine. Wine drunk sex is passionate, aggressive, and thrilling as ever.

21. Have sex in a odd place such as on the floor, kitchen counter, laundry room, etc.

Sex in the bedroom can get old, keep it fresh by adding new locations to your love life.

22. Learn how to gasp, moan, scream, and drop your jaw in awe to stoke his ego

Moaning and noise is vital to sex, the louder you are the louder he will be. Moaning not only makes both our bodies orgasm harder, but makes the experience that much sexier.

23. Have bondage sex

Again, the feeling of not being in control rocks a womans mind to the core.

24. Roleplay sex

fantasy is the number one tool for a female sexually, the more her brain imagines, the more likely she is to have  high quality and enjoyable sex.



25. Learn how to fuck him properly

Too many woman don't know how to satisfy their men, a woman who can do her man properly knows that he cant be the one to be doing all the thrusting...





26. Have sex in a car




27. Have sex on the beach




28. Let him cum in our pussy




29. Experience kissing another woman

The number 1 or 2 fantasy of almost all women, to experience the sensual touch of another woman.

30. Experience two cocks at once

Do I even need to say why? you get the picture, two is always better than one.


31. Have sex with another guy while our husband watches


32. Have sex with a BBC or large cock





33. Have a two girl threesome


34. Have a foursome


35. Try anal at least once




When it comes to satisfaction in bed, statistics show that 85% of divorces, and 92% of infidelity come from the result of a spouse feeling either neglected in bed, or sexually bored because of the lack of variety. Part of being a woman is experiencing all that sex has to offer, if we truly want to avoid infidelity and misery, we need to be doing all we can in bed to please ourselves, and our spouse.

WHY WOMEN CHEAT


MEN CHEAT TOO IF NEGLECTED TO LONG










Comments

Monica said…
Yes! I will certainly be reviewing this with my husband this weekend ;) Our romantic/sex life has become so insanely boring lately... I can honestly say I've only experienced maybe 1/3 of all these things, when I want to try almost all of them. Does anyone have recommendations about how to get my husband to be more romantic and sexually aggressive? Our first 9 years of marriage he was super romantic, he took me out on dates weekly, brought me surprises often, was super dedicated and sexually interested, but the past 2 years he's had no interest in me at all romantically or sexually. (Long story short, I haven't been sexually interested most of our marriage, it was more of a duty thing that I just went along with. Only recently did I begin working on my sex drive that is now through the roof, but he has no desire to be romantic anymore, or even have sex monthly. I just don't know what to do, its like we switched places in terms of our romantic and sexual interest).
Whitney Benson said…
Monica has anything else major happened recently (work changes, children, etc.) that would have caused this? it kind of sounds to me like you've swapped places in the relationship in terms of interest in each other. Just curious.
Monica said…
Whitney, not really, he doesn't have anymore or less stress on his plate, so its hard to understand why the loss of interest all of a sudden.
Sky said…
Hmm tough one, but sounds similar to my situation. Just a guys opinion, but it sounds like that first chunk of your marriage he spent most of the time being the one to do all the work romantically and sexually? correct me if I'm wrong? I know for myself with our marriage I spent the first 5-6 years being the one to take charge and initiate 95% of all our romantic, sexual, and special surprises to say I cared. I think when it's a one sided situation like that eventually 2 things happen, first the person doing all the work gets burnt out, and second they start to see they're the only one investing time, energy, love, and effort into the relationship/marriage. Once I realized my wife was both unwilling to contribute romantically and sexually I noticed I just stopped caring, if she wasn't going to put in any effort neither would I, pity sex is kind of insulting to be honest.

What it comes down to is mutual effort, I mean imagine how you would feel if your husband told you he didn't want to go out on dates with you anymore, but will still do it because he knew it was important to you? It's a tough pill to swallow... My suggestion would be to sit down and have a talk with him, let him know that you care and are wanting to invest more time and attention to the relationship, If he sees this change he'll more than likely return to his old self and again be romantic and sexually aggressive like you want.

From personal experience, I love being romantic with my wife, I love surprising her, and I love taking the lead in the bedroom, but when little or no effort is showed in return, when no romantic gestures are returned, when no surprises are given, when no sexual interest is shown, and when the sex is for pity rather than enthusiastic desire, the emotional connection is broken and you kind of just become roommates rather than a couple. Until he sees and hears your changing things will likely remain the way they are. Come to think of it I probably need to have the same conversation with my wife haha.

Just my opinion
Monica said…
Thank you both for the response, yes in retrospect our relationship has been fairly one sided romantically and sexually, I honestly cant even remember the last time I've done anything to contribute on either side :( Kind of feeling horrible now that I realize it :( Sky if you don't mind me asking? Do you still love her? have your feelings changed at all towards her because of it? I'm worried I might have pushed him away beyond what I can do to win him back.
Sky said…
Don't get me wrong Monica, I absolutely love her just as much as the day I met her, nothings changed with how much I care about her. It's just that after a while when a person is the only one putting time or attention into the relationship itself they start to feel unwanted, and that their efforts aren't getting them anywhere because the spouse doesn't care enough to give back, its just a take, take, take, relationship. So its definitely not that I don't care anymore, its just that as a couple I expect just as much time and effort to be given to me, as I give to the person I love. Like I mentioned, when that equal effort isn't being showed for years on end it finally gets to the point where the person has to stop trying because they're tired and too emotionally damaged from the years of neglect and rejection. So to answer your question, yes he most likely does still love you, but if you want his affection again you have a lot of work to do, A LOT! you cant repair years of neglect over night.
Whitney Benson said…
Monica, I would whole heartedly agree here with what's been said, when it came to my relationship with Brett I was kind of the same way, I took and took and took, and never gave back, I had sex out of duty rather than because I wanted to, years and years of neglect and carelessness really can do damage to a relationship. It took a good 3-6 months of constant effort on my part (and discussions/apologies) to finally win back his interest and willingness to show love and care back to me. I never really realized how much I'd hurt him from all the neglect and lack of effort. You can do it girly, just takes time, planning, and dedication.
Monica said…
Thank you both, it really hadn't dawned on me until just now that our entire marriage he's been the only one putting in any effort into our relationship, I mean we both have taken on separate responsibilities with work, school, children, the home, and so on, but he's been the only one actually working on our marriage :_( I'm sitting here balling my eyes out how stupid I've been to ignore him for so many years. Now that I'm putting myself in his position I really understand how devastating it would be to be the one giving 99% to make our marriage better, while I just sat back and took it all without giving back anything. Hell, even in bed I only did it to shut him up because I knew he needed it. If he ever did the same to me I would want a divorce.

Looks like I have a lot of bridges to rebuild if we're ever going to fix this. How in the hell did I not realize this before??? has anyone else ever been through this? If so what did you do to fix it???!!! Please!! Help!!!
Carly said…
To be honest Monica it's going to take a lot of effort, you're certainly not the only one who has ever neglected a spouse. So my suggestion is this, think about yourself, imagine if he had spent 10 years ignoring and neglecting you, making you feel unwanted, what would you need as a woman to fix things between the two of you? What are your needs, wants, and desires? For most women its spending quality time together, having meaningful discussions, alone time for regular dates where you can have fun, flirt, and fall in love all over again, it would mean him surprising you often with gifts or flowers, and if you're a sexual person then you'd want him to be a sex god in bed, you'd want him to make you feel like a woman by showing strength, aggression, gentleness, and passion, it would mean him going down on you weekly, giving orgasm after orgasm. Would that make up for years of neglect? for most women yes.

Now put yourself in his shoes, what does he need to feel after years of neglect and lack of compassion? If he's like most men he wants someone who meets him with affection when he gets home from work, someone to cuddle up with on the couch after a long day, someone to go out on dates and adventures with. Men are not so fond and needy when it comes to giving gifts, when it comes to surprises they prefer it to be of a romantic or sexual nature. Dress a little provocatively when with him, be seductive, give him sultry passionate kisses anywhere and anytime. Be flirtatious and even scandalous out in public by whispering naughty things to him, flash him, grope him. When it comes to sex he needs it and needs it often, once a week wont cut it for most men, and it cant just be sex, it has to be enthusiastic, romantic, aggressive at times, you have to be his sex goddess, his porn star even. He needs a woman who will go down on him at least weekly, who does things most women would blush at the thought of, be over the top, slutty, even whorish at times, he needs a sexual beast to match his desire for you.

Ultimately yes, you've done a lot of harm to your relationship, but don't let it keep you down, relationships have come back from far worse than yours. Mine was similar to yours, I neglected his needs and his love for nearly a decade, I quite literally did nothing in terms of adding to the relationship. But after many months of showing affection, working on my sexuality, and being the sex goddess he needed, we both managed to fall in love all over again, and are more in love now than ever before. I actually love and crave sex now, as does he, he showers me with love and affection along with romantic gifts and surprises, and I shower him with love and affection, AND LOTS OF AMAZING SEX, oh and don't forget blowjobs hahahaha.

But yeah, things will be ok if you put in the work! Put on your big girl pants and be the vixen he needs, he'll again become the handsome beast you need once he sees the change in you.

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