SEX SHOULDNT BE PAINFUL: WHAT TO DO WHEN HIS PENIS IS HUGE?

A HUGE PENIS; BOTH A BLESSING OR A CURSING TO THE GIRL WHO DOESENT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE IT.

So you marry this guy and he’s everything you would ever want: strong, sexy, adorable, funny, smart… the whole package. You’re getting on great and you start making out. And you’re like, “Wow, this is gonna happen.” And happen, it does. You start touching each other, your shirt comes off, his shirt comes off. Next is the bra. Then the pants. And then, you realize…

His dick is HUGE.

Knowing how to go about enjoying his gifted genitalia without hurting your own takes a bit of practice. There’s a few important things to know when you’re getting down to it so that you can make sure his penis gives you nothing but pleasure.


Maybe it’s long. Maybe it’s wide. Worse – maybe it’s both. You have this moment when you’re like, “This is full on porn star dick. I can’t even deal. Like, what the fuck am I supposed to do with all of this?”


First: take a deep breath. Big dicks come on guys of all shapes and sizes. Previous pseudoscience tying dick size to shoe size and/or height has been proven false. The only thing science is now saying may predict dick size is index finger size relative to ring finger size. (Pretty crazy, right?) But unless you’re checking out a guy’s index finger size (*cue awkward conversation about why you’re looking at his hands*) you’re not gonna know until you get to that moment when it’s too awkward to turn away just because of dick size. I’m here to tell you there’s no need to turn and run. With a little bit of knowledge and a few tips, you’ll be working the extra large dick like a pro in no time.

Foreplay

The most important thing is to make sure you’re aroused and excited. Foreplay becomes the utmost of importance. With smaller guys, you might be able to take the dick right in, but trust me, it WILL be painful if you try to shove an extra large peen in before you’re ready. As you’re playing around with foreplay– nipple play, making out, touching, hitting, tying each other up, etc. – play with his dick, too. Get comfortable with the size of it in your hands, in your mouth, and anywhere else. Basically – own that dick.


Keep in mind however, that oral sex with a big dick is different than with an average dick. Also keep in mind that he does not (nor should he) expect you to deep throat if he’s too big. If you have a gag reflex, or taking a whole dick in your mouth at once weirds you out (and let’s face it, no one eats a whole banana all at once), then that’s ok. The tip of the penis (especially on uncut guys) is much more sensitive than the shaft anyways.


What do you do if you’re still terrified of taking his D because as it gets harder and harder it just becomes bigger and bigger? Take a deep breath, and try to change your thinking about it. Anxiety never made an orgasm. Imagine you’re a super sexy porn star. Picture yourself in a porno of your very own (bonus points if you actually film it). Then, know that you’re in total control of the situation.

It behooves you to keep in mind the Three P’s: Position, Position, Position

As long as you choose your sex position wisely, even the biggest penis can be tamed.
Sexual positions that offer you total control are the ones you should go for, as they allow you to dictate the depth and pace of penetration, and position him and his large penis exactly where you want them.


With a well-hung guy, the classic girl-on-top position offers you this perfect amount of control, as you use your thighs to control depth, and get a great workout at the same time!


This is not to say that there are impossible positions that you simply cannot do if he’s got a large one; any and every position can be tried and enjoyed by both of you if there’s a healthy degree of bedroom communication. Letting him know what works, doesn’t work, and how things feel gives you just as much control as being on top, which, if you recall, makes up the Three C’s: Communication, Communication, Communication!

Putting It In

Once you get to the point where you feel ready to go for it, make sure you slather up his dick and your pussy with lots and lots of high quality, water-based lubricant. Distract yourself as he’s entering you by continuing to make out with him or doing something with another body part that will keep your mind off thoughts like, “Ow, this is going to hurt.” If it feels a bit tight when he’s first inside, ask him to stop and just kinda hang out there for a second while the pussy expands, then slowly start going at it.


For big dicks, especially, when you’re inexperienced with them, I highly recommend girl-on-top positions as they allow you to control the motion and pace. Other good positions include side by side positions, because neither of you can thrust that far, such as spooning (which is a doubly good position because he can’t go too deep AND you’re cuddling which releases all those feel-good hormones)! Some people recommend missionary with legs closed, but honestly, it’s not my fave when I’m dealing with extra large dicks. Personally, I like to have some modicum of control, which missionary doesn’t really give me.

Lube, lube, lube

Lube is a classic for a reason — it’s one of those simple items that solve a surprising number of everyday problems, like baking soda, or Melrose Place DVDs. Apply lube everywhere — I mean, everywhere. Go to town! And don’t just apply it to the penis in question — make sure you get your vaginal opening very lubed up, as well. In my experience, doing this really decreases the rawness you can sometimes feel after sex.


If you’re still having trouble, talk to him about keeping things slow and letting him know when he can come inside of you and how fast and/or deep you like it.


Another thing to consider is, if you’re anything like me, there will be times in your cycle that’ll feel more flexible than others. During the times of the month when you feel tighter than a clam shell, take it extra slow and easy with the foreplay and you’ll find you’ll still be able to take his dick in time.


The last very important thing to remember is that your pussy is a wonderful thing that can stretch, stretch, stretch more than you think it can. Meaning, there are very few penises too big for it (remember, it’s capable of releasing babies).


So please don’t make the mistake I did when I was 18, thinking that my relationship was doomed because it seemed like his penis wouldn’t fit. In reality, since we were both virgins, we had absolutely no idea what we were doing.

It behooves you to keep in mind the Three P’s: Position, Position, Position

As long as you choose your sex position wisely, even the biggest penis can be tamed.
Sexual positions that offer you total control are the ones you should go for, as they allow you to dictate the depth and pace of penetration, and position him and his large penis exactly where you want them.


With a well-hung guy, the classic girl-on-top position offers you this perfect amount of control, as you use your thighs to control depth, and get a great workout at the same time!


This is not to say that there are impossible positions that you simply cannot do if he’s got a large one; any and every position can be tried and enjoyed by both of you if there’s a healthy degree of bedroom communication. Letting him know what works, doesn’t work, and how things feel gives you just as much control as being on top, which, if you recall, makes up the Three C’s: Communication, Communication, Communication!

Talk about it

Whether your sexual ideal is the car scene from Titanic or something out of Edward Penis Hands, it probably does not involve saying stuff like “I need you to slow down” or “This position does not work for me, we need to stop and switch” or “You literally cannot wail on my vagina like it is a Guitar Hero controller.” But as much as it interferes with a lot of our fantasies about what sex should look like, talking about what you are feeling and what you need in that moment is probably the most effective tool in the big-dick-handling arsenal. It's the key to adjusting angles, changing positions, adding more lube — all of things that make having sex with a huge penis possible.


But now you DO know what you’re doing! Use your new knowledge wisely and you might just find that you love how deeply that big dick can penetrate! Above all things just remember to take deep breathes, avoid anxiety, and embrace the moment, our mind has the power to unlock, or block our va-j-j.

Having trouble putting his penis into your mouth? unable to give blowjobs?

NO PROBLEM! turn that blowjob into a lick job or dirty talking handjob (2 things bj's should include anyways). use your licking skills, your hand skills, and your words to compensate for your sore jaw.


Pander to his ego Having a big dick is a huge ego boost for a lot of men. So, cater to this. Tell him his dick is too big to fit in your mouth ... then fit it in your mouth. You can also use his size to your advantage when it comes to making him feel cool because you'll likely have to take a lot of breaks, which allows for a lot intense, intimate eye contact. Every now and then when you need to, take his dick out of your mouth and stroke it with both hands while looking at him. Your face will be flushed and your lips will be wet and your hair will be a mess, which he'll love. - See more at:


Speaking from first hand knowledge, BRETT WAS HUGE when we first had sex, the firt year it hurt each time, which made me dislike sex. Sex shouldn't hurt! if it does it is now your job to figure out how to prevent it. While using these ideas will help, the most important thing is you need to be masturbating with a dildo similar to his size a few days a week! it will not only prevent pain during sex, but will allow you to know which positions feel good or hurt, it will allow you to know the sweet spots that you can instruct him to hit. ITS UP TO YOU TO GET THE BALL ROLLING to remove pain during sex. How on earth can he prevent pain on you if you don't know how to prevent it yourself???


When I'm too tight at first and we don't feel like lots of foreplay, I'll lube him up, pull him inside and then we'll just lie there making out and wait a minute or two. It lets my vagina relax and stretch and I get wetter from the anticipation. Plus because he's not moving too much (depending on how turned on he is) he'll get less hard/big.