How Sex Saved Our Marriage

The Way to a Man’s Heart is Through Oral Sex There is a troubling trend permeating its way through the bowels of our great society like a warm, humid, lingering beer fart. That’s right, I’m talking about this new trend of girls who “don’t give blowjobs.” They wear it as a point of pride, as if to say that they are too good to polish a guy’s bowling trophy, yet they still expect men to tongue punch their lunch box. They hide behind the guise of female empowerment and being the “HBIC,” when in truth the real power lies in a girl who understands the sheer power of a quality blowjob. Oral skills are powerful assets that shouldn’t be taken for granted. The “ew, penises are yucky” crowd has it all wrong, and they will ultimately suffer the consequences for their blasphemy. In a long term relationship one of the most effective ways for a girl to get the upper hand is high quality fellatio skills, while on the other side of the coin the quickest way for a girl to disqualify ...

A HUGE PENIS; BOTH A BLESSING OR A CURSING TO THE GIRL WHO DOESENT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE IT. So you marry this guy and he’s everything you would ever want: strong, sexy, adorable, funny, smart… the whole package. You’re getting on great and you start making out. And you’re like, “Wow, this is gonna happen.” And happen, it does. You start touching each other, your shirt comes off, his shirt comes off. Next is the bra. Then the pants. And then, you realize… His dick is HUGE. Knowing how to go about enjoying his gifted genitalia without hurting your own takes a bit of practice . There’s a few important things to know when you’re getting down to it so that you can make sure his penis gives you nothing but pleasure. Maybe it’s long. Maybe it’s wide. Worse – maybe it’s both. You have this moment when you’re like, “This is full on porn star dick. I can’t even deal. Like, what the fuck am I supposed to do with all of this?” First: take a deep breath. Big dicks come on guys of all...

HOW OFTEN DO MEN NEED TO HAVE SEX WITH THEIR WIVES TO STAY HAPPY PERSONALLY AND WITH THE MARRIAGE? Some women for various reasons (medical, breastfeeding, anxiety, poor health, poor self-esteem) simply don't see the value in having a regular and intimate relationship with their husbands. Many of these same women simply assume he can go without it or even masturbate on his own, these thoughts are perhaps the most selfish I as a relationship coach and expert have ever heard... About a year ago we received this question from one of our readers, and with their permission they have allowed us to share their struggles, confusion, and success. Anonymous housewife writes; How often do guys need to have sex?  I just don’t think about sex much; I guess it isn’t a need for me.  But my husband says he thinks about it all the time, and he gets crabby that I’m often too tired.  Even though I can go weeks or months and not miss it, since he can’t, I try to do the right ...

FEAR, SHAME, GUILT, CONFUSION... We've all been there... After years of being taught sex is bad in church, we finally marry the love of our life, and all of a sudden we're supposed to flip on a light switch and turn on our sex drive. Sadly for many women and some men they struggle to ever turn it on completely, always feeling shamed for wanting sex even within their marriage. Part of this shame and guilt can be broken down by studying the scriptures to understand sex is good, some of the fear can be swept away by a loving and caring companion who helps them not fear sex, but as for guilt and confusion most if not all of us struggle overcoming this. Sadly guilt and confusion prevent both husbands and wives from loving sex, causing them to shy away from having it out of fear of judgment from God or from their church members. Throughout our blogs we have clearly used the scriptures to show what is approved sexually from god, and what is considered a sin, yet des...