WHAT DO GIRLS ENJOY DURING AND LEADING UP TO SEX?
So this go around we wanted to do something new!
We wanted to open up the floor for you all to share what your spouse does that drives you crazy in bed (both good and bad). This post will be for the girls to speak open and honestly about what they enjoy and wish men would do more, or what they hate and wish would go away!
Whitneys turn ons
from Brett:
Body Language: He uses his body in a way that most guys
wouldn’t imagine, he also communicates his thoughts verbally almost every
minute, this really helps me to build a mental connection with him.
Foreplay: He spends nearly an hour warming me up nearly every time
Teaser: he makes me wait, he builds the tension, makes me
beg for what I want, which in turns betters my eventual orgasm. While licking
me and thrusting me he gives me these looks that penetrates my soul, they melt
me more than any single sexual move or technique ever could.
Dedicated to helping raise children: being a good dad is hot
to me, seeing him every night wake before I do to help our toddler, seeing him
reading to them, going above and beyond to not only love me, but to exhaust
himself helping me raise them.
Public Tease: One of his favorite things to do is discreetly
finger me in restaurants, sometimes I make it easy for him by just not wearing
any underwear.
Hours sucking: He is the master sucker, he does his
homework, reads my reactions well, spends as much time as it takes to tease me
into obsession before making me climax, and then before we finish up he’ll do
it all over again! That to me is love.
Masseuse: he loves to roleplay the masseuse (as do i) not
only do I get a free massage, but I get a side bonus at the end.
Makes me beg: he looks me in the eye and makes my mind go
wild, desperate for what he’s about to offer me.
When he pays special attention to the twins: AKA boobies
Aggressive: At my request, he calls me dirty names, pushes
me against the wall, spanks me, he even pulls my hair occasionally. Yet outside
the bedroom he only treats like goddess, always a true gentlemen and stud. He
recognizes in the bedroom I desire to be a total slut, but outside the bedroom,
I’m royalty.
WHEN HE SHOWS OFF HIS BODY, THE MOMENT HIS COCK FLOPS OUT OF HIS PANTS, SEEING IT HARD, SPRINGING UP, THROBBING.
Stays fit: even with all his duties he finds time to wake up
at 5am to stay fit and ripped for me,
which in turn motivates me to look my
best for him.
When he hasn't cum in a week: and it explodes out of him like a bullet.
He can also be submissive: Sexual Power is something that
helps our sexuality evolve and grow, Brett is always willing to let me take
control when I wish and explore my own sexual talents. We maintain an excellent
healthy balance of giving and taking.
I know this sounds bad, but I really enjoy it when he gets a bit animalistic and dominantly abusive (in a good way-setting the pace, spanking, demanding, etc, ;) )Something just gets my engine roaring when I see his testosterone out and he throws me around like a ragged doll.
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And EYE CONTACT!!! OMG when he sticks it in me and watches me like a hawk as it slides in, I gush inside literally :) he also demands that I watch him as I cum, which is so hard to do but makes me scream in pleasure as we both usually end up cumming simultaneously.
I love how my man spends at least 30 minutes worshipping my entire body during foreplay, just sensing his dedication to me lets me know he really loves me and wants me to experience all the pleasure he possesses. Slow intimate sex is incredible to me, I can never get over the feeling of us making sweet love over hours and hours. (I do love it hard and fast at times too though) wink wink. I think both are needed, slow for connection, fast for fun and a different type of connection/excitement to keep things fresh.
I love that we are secure enough about our relationship that we can watch couples erotic videos together without becoming addicted, and have honest conversations about what they do that turns us on or that we might want each other to try, its really opened us up over the last two years.
I go crazy when he teases me in public, the thrill of being caught is just perfect to me, some of the hottest sex we have had is sneaking away into a restroom or car and quickly banging it out.
A romantic date or getaway goes a long way to warming me up to the idea of sex.
SEX TAPES!!! I love watching ourselves afterwards, it really turns me on for another round, and helps us see what we are really good at, what we are really bad at, and what our partner really liked or disliked during our last session. Its both sexy and educational!
I also really enjoy my husband’s cum, the way it tastes, the way it looks, the way it feels on my face and tongue, the looks he gives me when he sees me take it all with enthusiasm. His body convulses and locks up like nothing else when he sees me playing with his orgasm.
My man turns me on in a variety of ways, he treats me as if I was his princess and goddess at all times behaving as a true gentlemen and prince, but when I get in the bedroom, he treats me like a slut and a whore (which I absolutely love) it’s so hot to see a different rough and aggressive side of him other than his typical prince charming behavior outside the bedroom.
Early on in our marriage we would go to the mall, before going In though we would make out in the car, he would then discreetly remove my bra. While inside the mall he would constantly rub up against my nipples which set me on fire, the torture and teasing had me wet as a dogs mouth. So many times I ended up jumping his bones before we even made it home! Such a good foreplay tool, hint, hint ;) The no panties in public routine with a skirt always gets us going too.
When my S.O. comes from behind and kisses along my neckline and tells me what he wants to do to me later, it keeps my mind on edge with anticipation for hours!
Sometimes he demands I look at him, so kinky to me for some reason, he will say it while giving me oral, or thrusting into me, or even when I give him head, it always connects me to him and makes me feel good inside.
When he either ties my hands to the bed post, or physically lifts my hands above my head and pins them down while he ravages and pounds away at me, so sexy feeling helpless and the center of his attention.
I love it when he blindfolds me and has me ride a dildo while giving him head, I get off on the ideas of bringing in another guy to join us hehe. We also like to go to clubs where we watch each other flirt with other people, we both like the idea of threesomes or swinging but because of our beliefs we never would, its thrilling to watch eachother hit on and be hit on others, we then go home and roleplay a threesome.
I also get super horny thinking about having a foursome with another couple hehe, so naughty and adventurous.
Demanding me to cum on his cock, JUST WOW!!!
When he tells me he wants to F me my thighs literally tingle and I go weak at the knees.
I love it when he hints (or directly states) sex is going down later. I love it when the anticipation builds as I imagine all day long what he is going to do later that day. It doesn’t matter if it’s a subtle hint, a sexy text, an email, or even an “I’m going to screw you” look, they all get my mind and motor going at full speed. I don’t think enough men realize how important this is.
When he cums inside of me, using birth control or not hehe.
My wife and I often have difficulty finding time for eachother, so usually once a month we free up one weekend afternoon just to get it on for about 5 hours or so, its amazing re-connecting and feeling exhausted in sweat and squirt.
I also enjoy her telling me how she wants it, as in “harder”, faster, slower, deeper, angled, etc.