MAKE HIM SCREAM, MAKE IT DISSAPEAR, MAKING DEEPTHROATING EASY

Not to brag, (actually yes, to brag) the blow jobs I give have been called anything from, “magnificent” to “marriage worthy.” So, I fancy myself an expert and love the chance to impress yet another unsuspecting soul. While I enjoy the murmured praise I get and assurance that there will be GOOD locker room talk of me, I wouldn’t say that the actual act of deep throating a penis is fun.

How is deepthroating different from blow job giving? Well, effectively, it’s not. It’s essentially just deeper and more intense blowjob giving. Deepthroating is more of a “party trick” than a practical skill that translates to use at the office. Deepthroating is like the icing in a slice of cake. At first you might get a forkful of icing, but in the end, you’re mostly left with cake.

So, what exactly is deep throating?

"Deep throat is different to your average blow job, as the penis surpasses your mouth. It travels near your throat. Giving the receiver a tight all-round grasp."

Can anyone do it?

"Short answer, YES. I believe that anyone who wants to, has the capacity to deep throat. It's about working with your gag reflex, not letting it dominate your oral skill set."

How did you learn to do it?

"Honestly, he was well endowed, and I wanted to take it all. So, I trained my reflex. A degree of training is required, you're certainly not born with the ability to deep throat, I myself could barely take in an inch or two when I first began giving head, I always thought I couldn’t take even another inch inside my mouth, but BJ after BJ, and practicing on dildos I can now take up to 8 or so inches in my  mouth, as can most women with practice and patience.."

How can you practice?

A suction cup dildo. This will help you train. You'll require a dildo with a lot of flex, so it curves down your throat - realistic toys are great for this. Stick it to a surface (your mirror, a table, the floor) and go wild. You can experiment with a range of angles and positions to find your 'sweet spots'.

And then of course the real thing. Take it slow, remember to breathe and see where it takes you."

Which position is best?

"Angles play a key role in the success of deep throating. Every penis is different and comes with its own challenges. If your sexual partner happens to have a curved penis then it's an easier challenge (as well as being great for anal) as it works with the shape of your mouth.

"Positions on your knees may be aesthetically pleasing, lots of eye contact as your tease and suck, but while you're positioned underneath the cock it'll merely hit the back of your mouth. A position with elevation, i.e. sat on the edge of the bed, while he stands, makes it much easier to curve the penis into the depth of your throat. Plus, this position gives you the control.

"For a more experienced oral expect, tipping your head and neck off the edge of a bed gives ultimate throat leverage. It's not recommended if your gag reflex is still making a stand (no one wants to throw up), as it really is a male-dominated position and allows your partner to control the speed and depth.

"Hint if you want to master this position. Remember, your nose is there for a reason: use it to breathe. Often, I'll forget, and find myself struggling to grasp air and will pull out of the deep throat, gasping. I'm personally a big fan of making a mess of my face, the more spit the better, but this position is well and truly the makeup ruiner."

One of the easiest ways to deepthroat without any gag reflex whatsoever is to use a numbing spray, which can be purchased at most any sex shop these days, or even online.

What do you enjoy about deep throating?

"Giving oral has always filled with me confidence, seeing how guys react to different techniques and tricks. As a big fan of foreplay, nothing gets my motor running more than showing off my skill set. I have always been complimented on the variation of movements, continuously changing the pressure and actions involved.

Focusing on each area; bell end, length, base of the penis, balls and gooch. I love using both my hands, my mouth and throat."

What are the perks of deep throating?

"Semen, like marmite, splits people into lovers and haters. Do you swallow it, get him to cover your chest? There are many options which require a clean up. But deep throating is a great way to overcome this.

The contractions/tightness of the throat encourage your partner to finish quicker and it's taste-free because the semen completely skips your mouth and you're not left with the lingering taste. It's mess free and you don't even have to swallow as it'll make its own journey down."

Tell me about the first time you deep-throated.

Woman A: I had been dating my then boyfriend for a few months, and we were starting to explore more sexually. One day when I was giving him a blow job, I put his penis as far down my throat as I could. He let out this deep moan that I realized was a moan like any other and can only come from deepthroating. I realized how much he enjoyed it, so I kept doing it. I read articles about how to do it better, and I learned that I also really enjoyed deep-throating.

Woman B: The first time I deep-throated, I slightly gagged, my eyes watered, and I was really confused as to why I was turned on. I had been with many well-endowed guys before and had given plenty of blow jobs but the first time I went down on my now-husband, I had to deep throat because his penis was so large. Lo and behold I really liked it. It was something about him being in control and knowing how much I turned him on that made me want to do it again on my own.

Woman C: I don’t exactly remember the first time. It must have been with my high school boyfriend, we were each other's firsts and experimented with just about everything together (constantly!). Usually men describe please from Bj’s on the scale of 1-10 t maybe a 8-9, but apparently deepthroating feels 5 times better than even a BJ.

What made you want to try it?

Woman A: It just kind of happened one day while I was giving my boyfriend a blow job. I didn't have a strong urge to try it, I just wanted to see how far I could put his penis in my mouth.

Woman B: Honestly, I knew how much it would turn on my man because he loves getting head so the thought of surprising him, deep-throating, and turning him on got me going.

Woman C: I think deep-throating has just always come naturally to me. It happened one day and I never looked back.

What do you think the appeal of deep-throating is? For guys? For women?

Woman A: For me, the appeal is pleasing my partner, but I also feel pretty accomplished when I can fit a giant penis all the way down my throat. It’s a deeply intimate act I enjoy sharing with my partners, and I take pride in giving a good blow job. Several partners of mine have mentioned that the best part of being deep-throated is that the person going down on them is so enthusiastic about it, that they’re willing to put their penis all the way down their throat. They also say that it feels good for them, and that they enjoy the tight sensation of going down their partner’s throat. Also, it’s messy and some guys really enjoy sloppy head.

Woman B: For guys I think it’s submission thing. There’s something sexy about that domination even if there’s no handcuffs or blindfolds. By deep throating I am literally letting you all in. For women, at least me personally, the appeal is about how much it turns on my man. I can literally feel him get harder the deeper his penis goes, which is extremely sexy — especially when he’s playing with me at the same time so there’s the double sensation.

Woman C: I think it's the same for men and women: it's about control. I’m sure a guy feels very powerful when he is being pleasured by a woman and he shoves himself all the way into the back of her throat. I feel the same way when I am giving a blow job, and I hear a gasp or moan or a “holy shit” escape from a man's mouth.

How important is deep-throating to giving a good blow job?

Woman A: It is not at all important. It is fun and a different sensation, but it isn't vital to a great blow job. Having fun and enjoying the experience is what is most important.

Woman B: Honestly you don’t have to do it to give a good blow job or to please your partner, but in my experience it takes your skills to an entirely new level…especially if they aren’t expecting it.

Woman C: Some guys are just too big to go that deep but that doesn’t mean it will be a bad blow job. Just ask them to tell you what they like and do it. In the end, their penis is in your mouth — they are probably having a great time.

Do you have any advice for people who want to try it?

Woman A: Practice! If you have a penis to practice on, start giving more blow jobs. With each blow job, practice opening your throat just a bit more and letting a little more penis enter your throat. Don't try to go all the way the first time or you'll gag. When deep-throating, make sure your partner knows that you control the pace, not them. Relax and have fun!

Woman B: Just go for it and stop when you’re ready to stop. It’s not the most glamorous thing but it’s worth it, in my experience.

Woman C: Different positions work for different people. Personally, it is way easier for me if the guy is lying down and I am kneeling between his legs. But for one of my girlfriends, the only way she can do it is if she is lying on her back with her head off of the bed and the dude is standing. Just experiment with different positions and find what works for you. Practice makes perfect!

What are the biggest misconceptions about deep-throating, in your opinion?

Woman A: That the partner performing the act doesn't enjoy it, that they are only doing it out of a sense of obligation. I love giving head and I especially love deep-throating. I get extremely turned on when I please my partner with my mouth. And it puts me in the perfect position to play with my clit or use a vibrator while I go down on him. I get him off while I get myself off...it is a win-win!

Woman B: Maybe that it’s degrading. I’ve heard my friends say things like that before and I always try to tell them how much it turns me on at the same time, and that it’s not a degrading thing unless you are viewing it that way. For me, it’s a pleasure thing and we happen to both get off on it.

Woman C: That it is degrading to women. As long as you are having sex with a person that makes you feel safe, no sexual act, deep-throating or otherwise, should make you feel degraded, embarrassed, bad about yourself, or like you are not in control.

The Dentist Trick

Besides switching positions, there is a popular Dentist trick where you tuck your thumbs into a clenched fist to turn off your gag reflex. Between the nerves in your hand or just the distraction of you clenching your fists, this technique works really well when giving great oral.

So, next time you go down on your man, explore your depths, clench your fists, and go deep. His body will tremble as you take him into your mouth and you loosen your throat and relax. The head of his penis (where most of the nerves are) will (with your control of course) press against the back of your throat, giving him an overwhelming sense of pleasure.

Ask any guy who has ever had his entire penis engulfed, and he’ll tell you something on the lines of “HUGE DIFFERENCE… ITS LIKE COMPARING APPLES TO ICE CREAM, unless my current girl can do it, the previous girl who deep throated me cemented the BJ as being the greatest I’ve ever had”.

So yeah, once you’ve had that level of love and pleasure, you’ll never be able to see BJ’s as the same, it’s something you’ll aim to give and receive all the time!

My good friend speaking about the BJ’s hius wife gives him states:

“Her blowjobs were exquisite—she had this delicate, swirling tongue technique that curled my toes. So she’s blowing me, and when I’m finally ready to come, she just takes the whole thing down her throat and starts swallowing. Hard. Gulping it down. It felt like she was sucking my soul out through my dick. It was one of the most intensely pleasurable feelings I’ve ever had. I didn’t even know what she was doing because I was reeling—I had never felt anything like it before. Only after I finished and collected my wits did I notice that she (still! what a champ!) had her lips all the way pressed up against my pubic bone. Wow”.

And another friend…

“It's about as good as it gets. I still remember the first time a woman performed this magic trick on my penis, making it momentarily disappear, and I couldn't help but wonder how her lips kept reaching the bottom of my shaft. I remember exclaiming out loud, "Where is it going!?" And this wonderful woman looked up long enough to smile at me and say, "Down my throat!"

Psychologically speaking, the idea that a woman wants to thrust my penis down her throat is what I find most appealing. The physical sensation is somewhat secondary. Of course, if a woman continues to suck me until I ejaculate down her throat, I experience a sense of physical and psychological completeness that is best described as instinctive”.

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