WHY PORN MAKES YOU A BETTER LOVER, WIFE, & WIFE
ALL THINGS IN MODERATION: HOW PORN HAS BLESSED MY MARRIAGE
How do I get better at having sex? Simple have more sex, watch more sex, be more sexual!Internet porn has become an industry which has an audience among millions of netizens all over the world. The effects of porn viewing have also been debated for a long time, and while men and women both enjoy porn, the impact it has on a relationship is a major concern.
We've all been there, "Porn will ruin your marriage!", "Porn turns good men into monsters", "Porn will turn you gay", often says most Christian leaders... Porn is so often vilified and misunderstood when it comes to religion, it builds up this fear that porn is instant and sure death to any relationship, when the truth couldn't be any more opposite. Porn literally saved my marriage, I was a sexless mother who need it twice a year, I was a prude who had no idea how to fuck, I had no knowledge of how to pleasure my man, or even pleasure myself for that matter... Porn literally saved my marriage and makes us stronger as a unit when viewing it in moderation, whether together or alone for the purpose of love.
Why Couples Who Confess To Watching Porn Are Happier And Have Better Relationships
Couples may want to think twice before they store their secret porn stash under the bed to avoid being caught red-handed. Partners who come clean about watching porn to their significant others have happier and better relationships, according to a recent study.
The link between pornography use and relationship satisfaction has been examined by psychologists who have considered it to be a threat or an enhancement to sexual enjoyment and happiness in a relationship. This is contingent upon whether both partners choose to be honest or be discreet with each other about their pornography consumption.
However, when couples do not disclose their porn use to their partner, Walfish believes this secrecy can be felt as a “betrayal and raise mistrust, suspicions, and put a wedge of distance between the partners". This is why they say porn destroys marriages, because often when a marriage breaks down because of its influence it's because one of the spouse is having to hide its use individually. Couples who instead are open about its occasional use, and even use it together have oppositely proven to not only have stronger marriages, but better sex lives, more honest and upfront communication about other issues, and overall tend to love and care for each other that much more.
So YES, porn kills love! But only when it's used without consent and in moderation, Porn when used as a tool, just like food, medications, and other tools that help us, tends to better our marriage and sex drives. Porn literally saves marriages! it's all about moderation my friends. Sometimes you need to know when too much is too much!
Couples who engage in watching porn together and have a mutual agreement on what’s considered to be acceptable pornography are more likely to have thriving relationships because of their level of honesty and communication. “When both partners are equally open sexually and emotionally pornography can be an 'exciting wonderful foreplay',” Walfish said. “Often, watching can stimulate ideas, themes, and scenarios that can elicit spontaneity and adventure for the couple."
Why Porn makes us better together
1. It’ll Let You Learn What Your Partner Likes
The biggest benefit of watching porn with your partner is that you’ll get to learn what they really like. If they love watching videos about oral, then you should offer it to them more. If they love seeing hotties wrapped in chains and blindfolds, then you should head to an adult shop for those toys. Treat it all as a learning experience.
The biggest benefit of watching porn with your partner is that you’ll get to learn what they really like. If they love watching videos about oral, then you should offer it to them more. If they love seeing hotties wrapped in chains and blindfolds, then you should head to an adult shop for those toys. Treat it all as a learning experience.
2. It Can be a Form of Foreplay
If you two are too tired for foreplay, or are bored of your usual routine, watching porn together should be the cure for your issue. By the time the video ends, you’ll be more than ready to have sex with each other. You could even let the video play in the background while you’re doing it, because hearing a stranger’s moan might make you climax quicker.
If you two are too tired for foreplay, or are bored of your usual routine, watching porn together should be the cure for your issue. By the time the video ends, you’ll be more than ready to have sex with each other. You could even let the video play in the background while you’re doing it, because hearing a stranger’s moan might make you climax quicker.
3. It Gets Rid of Your Secrets
If you’ve ever felt like your partner has been keeping secrets from you, you won’t feel that way anymore. Most people keep their porn habits a secret, or at least refrain from going into detail about the type of stuff that they search for. So if you two are open about what turns you on, how could you ever feel like your partner would keep something from you? They’re an open book!
If you’ve ever felt like your partner has been keeping secrets from you, you won’t feel that way anymore. Most people keep their porn habits a secret, or at least refrain from going into detail about the type of stuff that they search for. So if you two are open about what turns you on, how could you ever feel like your partner would keep something from you? They’re an open book!
4. It Can Help You Reduce Your Jealousy
Most people assume that their jealousy would be out of control if they watched porn with their partner. However, it can actually help you tone down your jealousy. How? Well, if you can handle watching your partner get turned on by another person, you can handle anything. You’ll no longer feel threatened when you see him stare at someone, on a screen or in reality, because you’ll know that they’re yours at the end of the day.
Most people assume that their jealousy would be out of control if they watched porn with their partner. However, it can actually help you tone down your jealousy. How? Well, if you can handle watching your partner get turned on by another person, you can handle anything. You’ll no longer feel threatened when you see him stare at someone, on a screen or in reality, because you’ll know that they’re yours at the end of the day.
5. It Lessens the Chances of Cheating
Watching porn together will probably be a major turn on for your partner, because it shows them that you’re comfortable with their attraction to others and that you trust them. That could actually strengthen your relationship, because if your partner is completely satisfied with you and your sex life, then it lessens their chance of cheating.
Watching porn together will probably be a major turn on for your partner, because it shows them that you’re comfortable with their attraction to others and that you trust them. That could actually strengthen your relationship, because if your partner is completely satisfied with you and your sex life, then it lessens their chance of cheating.
6. It Creates a Comfortable Environment
Way too many couples are too nervous to admit what they really want in the bedroom out of fear of being made fun of. But if you watch some weird, hardcore stuff together, you’ll feel more comfortable admitting your fetishes. That means that you’ll be more likely to live out your fantasizes. What’s a better reward than that?
Way too many couples are too nervous to admit what they really want in the bedroom out of fear of being made fun of. But if you watch some weird, hardcore stuff together, you’ll feel more comfortable admitting your fetishes. That means that you’ll be more likely to live out your fantasizes. What’s a better reward than that?
If I could start my marriage over 1 time my advice would be this, make porn a weekly habit both solo and together (But no more than 2-3 times per week). Porn is literally the best teacher for sexual positions, sexual fantasies, sexual wants and needs from male and female, it turned oral sex from being something gross into something beautiful, it turned anal sex from a "hell no" to a "hell yes I love this" mentality, it made me lose all jealousy of other men and women and that my sexual desires and wants are not something to be ashamed of, but instead celebrated. Porn literally will fuel your sex drive when used in moderation either alone or together. PORN SAVES MARRIAGES, but can equally kill marriages if abused and begins replacing sex.
To the couple that tends to struggle to find balance with regular sex, my suggestion would be this:
Put sex on the schedule by
1. Scheduling 2 nights a week that every week you both know is sex night.
2. Alternate weeks who's in charge of taking the lead (For example on his week he plans out how to seduce her, what kind of sex you're going to have, how to make it fun or different, what kinds of toys, games, outfits, roleplays, etc would make it a new or exciting experience, they pick will it be soft and intimate, or rough and passionate. Alternate weeks who is in charge).
3. Have one of the 2 nights be set aside for just sex and love making (or dating too) as lead by whoever is in charge of that weeks sexual planning duties.
4. Have the other of the 2 nights be set aside for what I like to call the "educational night", wherein you either watch a new porn dvd, online video, read a book, explore new positions from a book or movie, essentially make it an educational night where you both learn about, talk about, and fantasize about new things that you see or read about. This is probably the single best thing that helped us become sex gods and goddesses in our marriage.
I promise these 4 simple steps are at times enough to keep the fire going strong in any marriage with 2 committed and loving spouses. Porn saves marriages, not breaks them when used properly.
Porn made us both sexual freaks and experts, which is what a husband and wife should aim to be!
HERES A BRIEF SAMPLE OF SOME COUPLES VIDEOS WE TURN TO FROM TIME TO TIME:
HOW TO TEASE YOUR MAN & SEDUCE HIM:
HOW TO SUCK PUSSY:
HOW TO SUCK HIS COCK:
LOUD ORGASM EXAMPLES:
HOW TO SLUT IT UP FOR YOUR LOVER:
COUPLES SEX TAPE EXAMPLE:
HOW WOMEN LIKE TO BE DOMINATED:
HOW TO TEASE YOUR MAN IN PUBLIC:
HOW TO SEXT YOUR MAN:
HOW TO FUCK 2 GUYS AT ONCE:
HOW TO TRY HOTWIFING:
HOW TO BOUNCE ON HIS COCK:
HOW TO GET THE COURAGE TO TRY A BIG COCK:
HOW TO ROLEPLAY:
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