WHY I LOVE SUCKING COCK, & WHY YOU SHOULD TOO
I admit it, back in the day I viewed blowjobs as more of a chore than a turn on. If my guy went down on me, or asked me to suck his dick, I would do it, but it wasn't
something I enjoyed. This didn't really phase me;
I figured blowjobs are meant
to pleasure the guy, not the girl. I honestly didn't even think it was possible
to get sexual pleasure from having a cock in your mouth.
What change my mind about giving blowjobs
Blowjobs are the reason my marriage is alive, and let me tell you why. I don't do anything, literally, anything. 45 hours per week my husband works his ass off so that I can relax at home with my children,
he finally arrives home already exhausted, and being the superman that he is,
he tends to the kids, cleans the home, puts the kids to bed, all so I can have
some me time. He treats me like royalty! The least I can do is give him the one
thing he wants most, SEX, and what’s the most thing men want during sex?
BLOWJOBS!
So, a few
times a week, he gets a BJ. If one of us is too tired for sex, oral is a great
way to stay connected, but in 5-10 minutes instead of the whole 1-2 hours
thing. That release helps him sleep, and keep his stress levels in check, and
most importantly it reminds him that all the work he’s doing, that it is most
definitely appreciated...
Fast forward to present day
I love sucking dick. I love the feeling of a dick
at the back of my throat and I love opening his pants for the first time, not
sure what’s going to pop out.
I love it when he kicks all the way back,
manspreads, and I get to be on my knees worshiping his cock.
I want him to
caress my hair, stroke my face, toy with my ears and maybe gently guide me
along.
The best, though, is when I glance up at him and see that he is in such
a state of ecstasy — eyes rolled back into his head, mouth slightly open.
Look at what I can do to you.
The secret to sucking excellent penis is not about
cupping your hands or licking the head in a swirling motion or putting a mint
in your mouth or eating an ice cube beforehand. That stuff’s for amateurs. You
just have to be dedicated. You have to really, really want to suck that dick.
Lose yourself in the dick. This doesn’t mean you need to eat the thing but you
do have to be completely fascinated by it, the way it looks, the way it feels
in your throat. You have to show that you can’t get enough.
I
have heard too many people say that sucking dick is degrading, that worshipping
a dick or being on your knees in front of your man is dehumanizing.
Dick sucking is power.
I love doing it because it’s one of the
few points in a relationship I have with a guy that he completely surrenders
himself to me.
You have the power to bring him to an orgasm, which he could
do without you, sure, but he can’t suck himself the way you can suck him. He
needs you for that. He will remember how good you are and every time you have
sex he’ll be so eager to have you do his favorite thing. When you’re out at
dinner he’ll look at you from across the table and will remember and when he
flashes you a smile this is what he’s thinking.
His entire pleasure is at my mercy.
There’s something exhilarating about knowing
that someone’s experience and pleasure is totally in your control. While guys
have so much power historically, economically and institutionally, it’s one of
the moments that I, as a woman, have the upper hand. He’s giving himself to me
and it’s up to me what I do with him.
It's not this dirty thing that people make it out to be.
It’s
sad that women have been made to feel degraded and dirty through the act of
going down on a guy. Whether it’s through the porn industry, or otherwise, the
whole idea that it’s the guy benefitting the most from the act should be
removed. Unless it's a one-way street and the guy's not returning his share of
oral, I really don't think women should feel any shame doing it.
It’s
a fun way to make him happy when I don’t feel up to getting all hot and sweaty
during sex. Plus, no cleanup.
I suck dick because I want to. I
really want to. So should you. But remember: it is not a race.
For me, I just love making a guy squirm, seeing
the faces he makes, and hearing the things he says. I get no real physical
pleasure from doing it, but the experience is so rewarding. I love it. Last
time the boy was like squirming and his legs like squeezed up against me and he
kept looking up saying “that’s so good” and things like that, and grabbing my
hair and stuff. All of that just makes it SO worth it. I never thought I would
like giving head, but I love love love it.
Feeling it get hard in my mouth is awesome :)
Love giving blow jobs because it’s like my thing.
I love the noises they make and how their legs shake and swallowing. Just makes
me feel dirty/sexy… and the fact most guys have said they’ve ‘”ever had a blow
job like that in their life” makes me feel good.
Apparently
I’m kinda awesome at it too, because I’ve gotten ‘that was the best I’ve ever
had’ on many occasions, have been told my mouth sent them to nirvana, and my
most recent had to pull me off because I was gonna ‘kill’ him if didn’t stop.
I live to hear those things.
There’s something that seems so submissive about
it, but in reality, you’re the one in control of his pleasure (give or take
some hair pulling). There’s always a very specific sigh I get about 5 seconds
in where I can tell he has relaxed and is in full on pleasure mode and it’s all
because of me. That is such a good feeling. God, I love blowjobs.
I love to give a nice and long bj. Hearing the
moans, seeing him squirm. It makes me so wet it’s ridiculous. I would give more
bjs if I had the opportunity to my man.
I crave having his dick in my mouth. And I enjoy
treating him like a king. I find it more pleasurable than him performing oral
on me. He doesn’t complain haha. I also enjoy making him moan. My guy is very
vocal so when I get him going it can be fun. I also love the taste of his cum.
So that’s a bonus to me.
I’m pretty sure I enjoy giving head just as much,
if not more than my man likes receiving it
I love watching his face and all the moans he
can’t contain! My favorite part though is after he’s come and I continue a
little longer, then finish by licking the his whole length while looking him
straight in the eyes. It drives him wild!
I love it when I’m in the mood. I have no idea why
but there are some days where I’m actually craving the feel of cock in my mouth
and I basically need to persuade my boyfriend to let me do it. I think it’s
partially to do with his scent that he emits during sex but also possibly to do
with the fact that I’ve watched an lot of oral porn to get good at it.
I enjoy it a lot, more so than receiving oral. Its
a huge turn on and I can orgasm while doing it. I love pleasuring someone else,
taking my time, learning all their little buttons. And the submissive side of
me really likes being on my knees.
So
the key for me is really getting into it. I love driving him crazy and making
him make those little sounds of approval while I blow him. It becomes a game
where I’m aiming to please, so with him I make sure to tell him to
let me know when he likes it.
Additionally, I’ve got to have a
positive attitude about it. I can’t feel like I’m OBLIGATED to blow him. When I
go down on my man, I really want to, and I suck that thing like I’m on
The Price is Right and I want to win the fucking convertible. You’ve got to
worship the dick. That’s all I’m sayin’.
To learn to love giving blowjobs, you have to,
well… give more blowjobs!... It’s like eating a salad or veggies for the first
time, the more you eat it the more you’ll enjoy it.
You're his wife, make him proud that he chose you, let it show in the way you go down on him. Take pride in your oral skills, practice your craft, perfect your techniques, and if you're not already doing so make it a weekly practice (at minimum).
TYPES OF BLOWJOBS TO GIVE YOUR MAN
THE GIRLFRIEND/WIFE BLOWJOB (AKA LOVE BLOWJOB)
THE FREAKY BLOWJOB
THE FREAKY BLOWJOB (LONG EDITION)
THE ROMANTIC BLOWJOB
THE SMILING BLOWJOB
THE TECHNIQUE & SKILL BLOWJOB
THE DOMINANT BLOWJOB
THE SLUTTY & WET BLOWJOB
THE DIRTY TALK BLOWJOBS
THE BLOWJOB EVERY MAN LOVES (DIRTY TALK & BEGGING FOR CUM)
The PORNSTAR blowjob
The Handjob no blowjob, blowjob
JUST THE TIP BLOWJOB
THE MIRROR BLOWJOB (MEN LOVE THIS ONE)
THE TALKATIVE BLOWJOB
THE BALLS, SHAFT, AND HEAD BLOWJOB
THE GLAM BLOWJOB
THE GIRLFRIEND MULTI TASK BJ
THE DEEPTHROAT LOVE BJ
THE WIFE BJ (AKA THE ONE HE SHOULD BE GETTING WEEKLY
HOW TO EXCEL AT SUCKING YOUR LOVERS COCK
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