Becoming A Sexual Wife: Unleashing The Goddess Every Woman Has Hidden Deep Inside

How to Become The Sexual Wife He's Always Needed?

Before I even begin, RULE #1 to becoming a sexual wife... RED WINE! nothing lets women clear their minds and wet their Va-j-j's better than red wine, studies show its 100% healthy if limited to 1-2 drinks daily, and is a life saver for sex drives and preventing disease/obesity.




In general, men have no problem being sexual creatures, being able to open up and explore their sexuality, and easily reaching their full potentials, but... How many of us women die each day asking ourselves this question? Knowing my husband wants to be closer to me both mentally and physically, and I know I want to be the sexy freak in the sheets he craves, why is it I can't get myself to let loose and give into the animal that's buried deep down?

Each of us struggle with letting loose. PLAIN & SIMPLE... But once that light switch flips, you'll never be the same, you'll never have so many orgasms, you'll never be so head over heels in love, he'll never again have to be asked to meet your needs, life will be married bliss. BUT HOW TO GET TO THAT POINT??? HOW DO WE THINK MORE ABOUT SEX, VALUE SEX MORE, AND ACTUALLY BE SEXUAL MORE IN OUR MARRIAGE?

I'm a self-proclaimed sex goddess. Pretty darned fearless in bed, comfortable with my body for the most part, multi-orgasmic, a squitter of the highest order, and a queen between the sheets. I get what I need in bed because I ask for it. I'm unafraid of my wants and needs, my proclivities, my taste buds. I know who I am and what I am about, in sexual terms, and this extends into my life. I'm not a mystery unto myself. This sex goddess status allows me to relate to other human beings much more logically because I'm being led by my head, not by my heart or, god forbid, my p*ssy.

Being a sex goddess means I know how to meet my own needs independently and authentically, most of the time. I wasn't born this way; rather, I came into this knowledge, this skill set of sorts, through adequate mentorship and self-exploration. Looking for some quick tips as to how to achieve sex goddess status? No problem. Onward . . .

MORE THAN ANYTHING THE ONE ISSUE MOST WIVES HAVE IS THEY DONT KNOW HOW TO "FUCK"

STOP MAKING LOVE... STOP HAVING SEX... START FUCKING...

The number one rule of marriage is to never have "sex". confused? you should be. Spouses whom make love do it in a way that's soft, emotional, gentle, loving, caring, goo goo eyes, cuddly, slow, and thorough. Fucking if you would imagine is much more passionate, its fast, its raw, its fun, animalistic at times, its in inappropriate places, its loud, carnal, exciting, kinky. and as for sex, poor and pathetic sex... sex is just something in between, its the simple act of kissing, poking his penis in and out of your vagina, its sadly 80% of the sex that most married people engage in. its meaningless, passionless, lacks fun... Never ever ever have sex, either make love, or fuck, or mix up the two, but never just have sex.

Men are very good at doing this, naturally they can make love in a soft and gentle way, or choose to fuck our brains out in a fun way, but as for us women, we tend to only either make love, or have sex, we just don't know how to fuck. Most couples all have "the sex talk" at least a few times in their marriage, where the man tells us that he doesn't enjoy our sex life anymore, and we're flabbergasted because we thought he loved our sex life. It is only now that I've come to realize that they're not telling us they're disappointed when we make love, they're disappointed that we have too much "sex", when what they really need from time to time is to "fuck". It makes total sense when we think about it! Women love to make love, and men love to fuck! we need to have a balance of the two!!!!!!!!!!!!

SO WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO "FUCK"?

I work with many women helping them to build confidence, feel and look sexy and really show their man a good  time. Well I’m not suggesting for a minute that you put yourselves on a backburner to please your man all the time. But I'd suggest watching a bit of porn and seeing how the female porn stars confidently behave with their co- actors can be a real help. Basically what he needs is having a horny, confident woman do anything they want. And having a woman who is willing to let their man do anything they want to them.

So ladies I recommend finding a porn movie that you actually like. Watch how the female porn star handles herself. How she looks at him as he’s penetrating her. What she says to him to provoke and encourage him. As the confidence that female porn stars have is very attractive to men. Watch how they tease him, watch their body language, seduction methods, facial expressions, pace of movement and penetration, watch how they kiss him, how they are desperate to taste his penis and plunge it deep, hear how they moan, gasp, communicate to him, essentially take note on their attitude towards their lover, and the dedication they're willing to put forward to make it a hot and steamy time. this is what it means to fuck.

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WHAT MEN WANT AND NEED FROM A WIFE IS SOMEONE WHO WILL MAKE SEX FUN, SOMEONE WHO WILL SUPRISE HIM IN LINGERIE WHEN HE GETS HOME, SOMEONE WHO INITIATES AS OFTEN AS HE DOES.

Lets start with the basics: A SEXUAL WIFE:

A Sexual Wife: Sets Goals Weekly and Daily. Nothing is more important for a wife to prioritize and plan her day, between meals, the children, chores, etc, there's only so much time in a day. Making time to plan your schedule out will help you accomplish all of this, while still being able to fit in some you time and avoid binge watching television all day long.

A Sexual Wife: Sets aside an hour a day to stay fit. Whether its in the morning before the kiddies rise, or during the afternoon when they nap, or even after their bed time, you need to be spending 35-60 minutes a day on maintaining a fit and sexy body. Women who maintain healthy lifestyles and normal weights tend to have sex nearly 3 times more than overweight women. Staying fit promotes self confidence, horniness, and blood flow to the pelvic regions. Ignoring this one aspect will essentially guarantee a lackluster sex drive and sex life. taking time to groom yourself as well will help you to stay productive and horny as well. Along with this, she maintains her looks and grooming.

A Sexual Wife: Sets aside 30 minutes a day to mentally stay sharp. Women need time to contemplate, to relax and examine their life and progress, setting aside free time to relax, think, study sexual skills, will enable you to maintain goals and stay on track.

A Sexual Wife: Doesn't allow Society, Religion, or anyone else to make her feel inadequate or "slutty" for wanting to be more sexual with her partner. Nothing like societal and religious slut shaming can put a damper in your confidence and destroy your sex drive, far too often women think if they have sex often they are behaving sinfully or like whores, nothing could be further from the truth. not only did god create sex for couples, but he encourages it often throughout the bible. Never let the influence of others influence your sexuality, often times it is those who are "jealous" or "hatters" that slut shame women, because they are uncomfortable with their own beauty or bodies. Be comfortable with dressing sexy from time to time, doing so will help you maintain sex on your brain which translates to action.

As Christians we're taught in our youth to always be virtuous in how we think, speak, and dress, here's what most women forget though, when you say "I DO' those standards change, and if anything we should be the exact opposite for our guy by putting kinky thoughts into his head, showing off our booty/cleavage whenever possible, even behaving like a desperate teenage slut who just wants the nearest cock in us. When a woman can learn to be both the gentle love making princess, and the devilish freak, men will ultimately be satisfied in bed.

A Sexual Wife: Makes romantic and sexual plans. Instead of waiting to be wooed romantically or sexually, she sets plans herself, sets up the bedroom for her partner, lays out a naughty outfit as a hint, etc. You will find the more you take time to plan or come up with ideas, the more you'll enjoy it and make an effort to do it more. Cosmopolitan magazine issued a 30 days of sex challenge years ago, couples routinely can pull ideas from this and other online material to keep their sexuality fresh.

A Sexual Wife: Communicates her needs, and asks honestly what her man desires from her in return. Couples who talk regularly often better understand each partners needs and desires, and can act accordingly.

A Sexual Wife: Ensures her home is a place of peace. Nothing turns both sexes off like a filthy or cluttered home, Sexual wives know the need to maintain order and cleanliness to promote peace and romance.

A Sexual Wife: Embraces her perky side. Men love energetic, upbeat, adorable, fun, flirtatious women, take a look at some of the women from the TV show "the bachelor", remember those crazy overly sexually aggressive women who act as if they will spread their legs for any guy at any time? The truth is while most men think these girls are out of their mind, they absolutely love their sexuality and day dream of their wife behaving the same way on a regular basis. be bold, be flirty, flaunt your booty, cleavage, grab his cock randomly and rip of your shirt, surprises like these will not only open you up to not feeling goofy or silly during sex, but will help him fall that much more in love with you and your inner sex goddess you show only to him. Learn to be comfortable with your body by doing sexy dances in the mirror, its great for you to see how great you look, and he'll appreciate it when you apply it to him later. Never underestimate the power of cleavage, booty, and playfully playing or spanking yourself, it shows you have him on your mind. tip from the pro's, learn the hair flip, it sexy and guys love it!

A Sexual Wife: can be both Submissive and aggressive. Men love a change of pace in their women, nothing turns him on more than seeing you change roles from time to time. Sometimes he loves you to be submissive and be the gentle princess, or submissive bimbo who cant get enough as you moan for more, other times he desperately needs you to just attack him like a ravaged beast that is desperate to get it on, he wants you to attack his cock, ride him like a trampoline, talk dirty, push him around, etc. Brett has always told me the best sex is the times that I pretty much jump him as if to say "this is happening and you have no say about it". Don't wait for a response to see if he's in the mood, just go for it, rip off his pants and put it in your mouth.

A Sexual Wife: Practices her craft. Well prepared women ALWAYS practice their skills before hand, practicing seduction moves in the mirror, and practicing their blowjob skills on a dildo. Make it a point to practice your BJ skills on a weekly basis by using a dildo to practice, practice eliminating your gag reflex and you'll be able to suck him like a pro with no feeling of gagging at all. Strip teasing or dirty dancing is another easy thing to practice on your own, its a fun and spicy foreplay tool.

A Sexual Wife: Is a Master Teasing & Foreplay. She teases often, whether its in the kitchen, bathroom, grocery store, car, anywhere is free game. She flashes him in unexpected situations, kisses him passionately daily, grabs his cock at will, and will surprise him by dropping his pants and sucking him for a few seconds in discreet locations. Men crave a wife who will initiate foreplay outside of the house and bedroom, avoid waiting until late at night to begin foreplay, it should begin early and often. She also uses body language and gestures to get his mind racing. Use cleavage, flashing, booty grinding, etc. (if you're looking for some new ideas here are some of the best poses we could find)

A Sexual Wife: Knows Enthusiasm is Everything, Enthusiasm makes or breaks his experience, when he sees your smile he knows your into it, don't ever stop connecting through your body language, your eyes, and your words, initiating sex often will also help. Chances are its the one thing he's missing most from sex in your relationship, men need a flirtatious, perky girl that they knew when you used to date.

A Sexual Wife: Has the right wardrobe. Be sure to have a handful of skimpy dresses or low cut shirts, men love legs, as well as cleavage. Surprising him with these is guaranteed to keep him interested for a long time. Add to that a quality collection of lingerie and you'll have him dying to see what's underneath. Be sure to own at least a few pairs of stockings and G-strings as well. She also spends time keeping "fresh down there by shaving every 3-4 days or so, incase things get hot in a moments notice.

A Sexual Wife: Surprises him. Nothing turns a husband on more than coming home to find the house empty and his wife naked on all fours ready to get banged, or having you push him into a changing room to briefly suck him. Make it a point to weekly drop his jaw in moments he would never expect.

A Sexual Wife: Is sexual in Public (discreetly) Sex in the bedroom and home gets boring after a few years, to counter this you have to be willing to be a bit daring and get naughty in public (without getting caught). Doing things like flashing him in or by the car, stroking him in the car or under a dinner table, groping him in a secluded isle in a store, sucking him in a changing room, talking dirty to him anywhere you please, all will help you both to get hot and bothered.

A Sexual Wife: Talks Dirty!!! you can not hope to grow sexually if you don't put in time to practice dirty talk... PLAIN AND SIMPLE... Dirty talk will make the experience ten times more enjoyable for both of you, start slow, and before you know it you'll be a pro. Without this single tool a wife can never be the goddess he craves.

A Sexual Wife: Lets her mind wander and fantasize, she tries role-play scenarios to spice things up. Roleplay is a marriages best friend, it spices things up, adds imagination. try pretending and you'll learn new kinks he and you both have. Try new things, ranging from the naughty teacher to the lonely secretary, even the classics such as the bored housewife and the handyman can be a fun adventure. If this is too scary or weird for you, start with old memories you have together, maybe pretend its your first date and you decided to go back to his apartment and do more than just make out. by starting simply you can expand your sexual mind and become a better lover during normal sex. Blindfolds can also enable you both to enact your first threesome using a toy to mimic the third person.

A Sexual Wife: Explores her own sexuality, 80% of all women are interested in female on female erotica, mainly because they understand the soft touch we all crave, they know how to touch, kiss, hold, and play with our bodies. Take initiative and watch woman on woman videos to better understand the art of female needs. She also makes it a point to explore each others fantasies, ensuring satisfaction of both man and wife.

A Sexual Wife: Sexts and takes erotic pictures. Some women have this fear of sexting, what do I say? will I sound silly? chances are from time to time you both will, but sexting opens the door to some fun foreplay! exchanging pictures, taking photo shoots, flirting over the phone, telling each other what you want to do to each other, all can heighten your sexual skills and give you new insights into what you both like in the bedroom. Research online different poses, and make them a part of your weekly texting, it will not only keep sex on your mind, but keep his mind racing.  One of the most essential pictures to take for him is "the bj selfie" as seen below.

A Sexual Wife: Masturbates and watches erotic videos. As we've discussed before, all wives need to masturbate... ALL!!! it is the key to opening up and not feeling so shy or silly in the bedroom, it is also how we prepare our bodies vaginally as to not be in pain during actual sex. Women who daily either rub their clitoris or breasts, or watch a few minutes of adult entertainment are guaranteed to have high sex drives.

A Sexual Wife: Availability. Fuck me anywhere anytime. So hot. Has sex 1-3 times weekly. Highly sexual wives cant get enough, if your doing the basics to keep yourself healthy and in tune as a couple, chances are you'll be banging it out every chance you can get. At minimal couples should have sex weekly, and each give oral sex as many (or more) times.

A Sexual Wife: Masters sex positions and always adds more. Learn how to fuck, and by that I mean learn how to fuck. Not just have sex, but how to fuck. Anyone can have sex – it’s a rather simple mechanical process that happens millions of times all over the world every single day. Fucking is different from having sex. When you fuck, you bring a raw or an animalistic approach to your sex. It doesn’t have to be “rough” or involve any specific act(s), but it does need to be reflective of your enthusiastic need and desire to be in the moment and to be fucking the person(s) you’re with.  She not only knows a variety of positions, but she has mastered them, she knows how to ride a cock (as shown below), she takes it upon herself to set the pace during sex and tells him how she wants it.

A Sexual Wife: Acts as if his penis and tongue is the greatest thing on earth. A sexual wife is flat out addicted to her mans body, especially his manhood, she needs to feel or taste it almost on a daily basis. When she see's it she smiles, gasps, drops her jaw, gets wet, when she touches it she cant stop smiling, when it gets hard she gets flat out slutty, even whorish because she loves her man. she knows each inch of his penis better than she knows her own hand, she makes it a point to let him know how big she thinks it is and how badly she needs it. When his penis is in your hand never ever stop talking dirty to him, the connection it builds between you both is guaranteed to be out of this world. the average mans penis is 5.6 inches, if you man is anything bigger than 6 act as if its gorgeous, if your lucky enough to be married to a 7 inch man you are a lucky woman and should treat it like gold. if your man is 7.5 inches, you have hit the male sexual jackpot, your man has the PERFECT penis, its length is perfect for vaginal orgasms and squirting, to this penis you act as if its a 7 inch diamond, 1 in a million, most women would kill to have your mans dick, and if you don't use it, others will, so you use it, often and well! you worship this cock as the greatest gift on earth (because sexually it is), this cock is the rarest, not a monster cock, but huge, yet not too small. if your man is 8 inches+, well... sorry... things get painful. 

A Sexual Wife: Gives Head Regularly. One of the biggest mistakes married females make... thinking they don't have to give bj's in return after they go down on them... BJ's are the key to a mans heart, NOT FOOD! sex is only half of the formula to make him yours, if your not giving head chances are he's imagining somebody else doing it for him. BJ's should be given at minimum once a week, ideally for 15 minutes per session, a sexual wife takes great pride in her oral skills, always practicing to improve, she even gets wet when giving them. If you don't get horny while giving head chances are you either don't love him, or you aren't in the right mentality and treat it as a chore. blowjobs should be fun to give, not a hassle. You can tell a lot about a woman/wife by how often/well they go down on you, a good wife gives head weekly without ever having to be asked, this woman finds deep connection outside the bedroom, as well as in. A poor wife will rarely if ever give bj's, she is childish and selfish in nature, and because of it her sexual barriers prevents both husband and wife from building connection and love in and outside of the bedroom... Most important thing of all is oral ability because it tells you immediately how much effort she puts into pleasing her partner. Can she only put the head in her mouth? Will she even suck your dick at all? A woman that engulfs the entire penis is SERIOUS about her ability. Even if it is only intermittent, that not only shows that she’s had practice, but that she is willing to put effort into pleasing her partner in areas other than oral.

A Sexual Wife: Loves his cum. One of the biggest misconceptions new married women give is that cum is disgusting, that it should be avoided like the plague, WRONG! Cum is as much a part of your man as is his penis, should you treat it as a disease you will find it quite hard to keep him hard, as he feels you don't truly love him. Until a wife has swallowed or sucked on her mans cum, his sexuality will never fully belong to her, in his mind he will always wander, always fantasize about other women who may want to accept all of him. A true and dedicated wife will learn to love her mans cum,  whether it be facials, cum on her tongue, or swallowing completely, they will quickly find that it not only tastes sweet, but that it has chemical properties that make it addictive!! Cum actually acts as an addiction to women, it makes them chemically dependent on their man, they crave him, they need him, this is why women swallow cum, not because of porn.

A Sexual Wife: Makes to cuddle and enjoy each others company 2-3 times weekly. Cuddling is the basis for any relationship outside of the bedroom, connect outside, and you'll find yourself connecting inside the bedroom.

A Sexual Wife: Always seeks to improve her sexual skills. Smart wives work on their skills daily, they practice, they search, they learn, this is pivotal to keeping your mind on sex.
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A Sexual Wife: Is vocal and moans. Moaning not only enhances his experience, but helps you enjoy it more as well, its been proven that moaning actually helps women orgasm quicker! try moaning while giving him head and he's guaranteed to lose it! You don't need to fake your moaning, but when he hits a good spot be sure and get vocal, extremely vocal!

A Sexual Wife: Always guarantees she receives equally as much pleasure. a sexual wife never leaves the bedroom unfulfilled, she makes sure he puts in his part to pleas her back. Don't ever let him stop until you're fully satisfied!

A Sexual Wife: Never lets he man leave the house horny, A sexual wife thinks, acts, behaves, and becomes her mans personal porn star, as does he for her.

ONE OF OUR WAYS WE KEEP THINGS FUN AND LAUGHABLE IN THE BEDROOM IS WE"VE GIVEN EACH OTHER PORNSTAR NAMES, sometimes we have "porn style" sex where we're loud and over the top sexy ;) the old adage on picking a name is choose your pets first name, and the street name you grew up on. It makes for some fun kinky different fun.

As a wife are we required to cook him dinner? NO. Are you required to clean his laundry? NO. Are we supposed to put on make up? NO. Are we supposed to be a housekeeper? NO. Yet we do all these things because of love, because although we don't have to we understand it is expected as our role as wife and mother. Sexual effort is much the same, blowjobs, swallowing cum, being enthusiastic, none of it is required, but it is expected as a wife. When we simply say no it shames our willingness and effort as a wife and spouse.