TALKING DIRTY: WHAT'S APPROPRIATE IN THE CHRISTIAN BEDROOM?
We all have a kinky side, dirty at times even, but when it comes to communication and dirty talk, is talking dirty sinful when we're Christian? One of my most difficult hang ups in our early stages of marriage always dealt with what to do and say in the bedroom, Brett however has always been a natural at communicating throughout sex, communicating verbally as well as physically how he was feeling, what he wanted, asking what I wanted. One of the few things Brett would ask of me when it came to sex was the “talk dirty to me” request. Each and every time I would become red in the face, thinking to myself what do I say? What is he asking of me? He knows I’m a shy tentative girl, we’re both Christian and watch our language, how am I supposed to talk dirty? Dirty talk in my pastors words can be described like this, some words are good, some are all together bad, and some can be both good and bad depending in what context and setting they are being used in. Dirty t...