How Sex Saved Our Marriage

Reasons Why I’m Giving My Husband a Blowjob As a marital & sexual counselor I have the pleasure of walking couples and individuals through a journey of sexual and marital healing. Throughout these journeys we’re also fortunate enough to have many amazing couples who are willing enough to anonymously share their amazing journeys and how they were able to improve the relationship over time. Today our focus is not so much on couples, so much as it is a focus on a rather self-destructive and disturbing trend coming from one spouse: the spouse who we’ll just call “Andy”, or the lazy spouse. As a bit of a background to the story this 100% real couple struggled with one of the spouses who was simply unwilling to contribute to the relationship, and the other who was being forced to give until they were broken inside the point they had lost all trust in the spouse they once loved. We’ve all done it at some point in our relationships, complacency begins to kick in, we get l...

WHAT DOES HER EX BOYFRIEND or HIS EX GIRLFRIEND HAVE TO DO WITH YOUR SEX LIFE?  EVERYTHING!!! If there’s one thing that we as Christians have experienced its shame and guilt, it’s what we’re best at honestly. Whether it’s shame about our own short comings, our shaming others we believe to be behaving out of line with Gods principles we tear ourselves down about our actions and desires. While it’s fine and dandy to beat ourselves up occasionally for making mistakes when breaking Gods laws, what we shouldn’t beat ourselves up over is our sexuality before or even during marriage, since so many Christian teachings no longer follow what God had actually taught about sex. Think you’re alone in being the only “horny Christian” in town who occasionally either slept around or had a major make out session? A survey by Cornell University just found that 80% of all Christians have sex before marriage! 80 PERCENT !!! Additionally, 89 percent of women and 78 percent of men compare t...