BRINGING OUT EACH OTHERS INNER PORNSTARS
What sets apart good sex from great sex? Let’s just call it the “pornstar” factor. I’m constantly amazed at just how little a bit of effort and attitude adjustment can change a marriages sex life from being good or decent, to being mind blowing and near perfection. I’ve always said that porn is fake, that it shouldn’t be used as a reference for real life sex, at least that’s what I used to think. Porn when taken to an extreme can be harmful, both to our sexual mentality and our sex life within the marriage, yet when used moderately and constructively it can create pure bliss and sexual fulfilment within a marriage. While porn should not necessarily be copied and used as a template, it sure as heck has the ability to be used as a template for sexual techniques, seduction ideas, positions, fantasy building, and as a way to increase the female libido. From what we’ve found in our marriage the more of these ideas we pull from porn, the happier and healthier our sex-life is,...